(21M) Rewire's Transformation Journey 2023-24 šŸ”„

Yeah from CS
Sure man will keep each other accountable have successfully filled the form !
In Feb itā€™s my exam
Have started with Aptitude (Easy) and C programming (Medium) subjects

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These are the transforming days of your life man !
Sure You should write everything down

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Yeah you are right man, but I wasnā€™t trying to date I just wanted company and I got distracted will be more cautious from now on !
I will Stay Away from Girls for now until I become the best version of myself !

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Once a Legend said : ā€œA girl has no best friend whom they talk daily, Itā€™s always their future Boyfriendā€

This line is common among conversation between best friends
Girl asks - Tujhe kaisi ladki chahiye ? (Blushing)
Boy Replys - Bilkul tere jaisi
:slightly_smiling_face:
And soon these hints become a reality

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Thatā€™s not a good place to look for partners
I would avoid that, There are some exceptions but for 1% we cannot ignore the 99% percent
Itā€™s usually for casual dating

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reminds me of a(slightly toxic) quote I hear tossed about break-ups

:bulb: after a breakup itā€™s a competition to see who has the biggest glow-up post relationship

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I did not want it to sound like that LOL. I never had any animosity for her. She is the only person I have ever had those feelings for, so sheā€™ll always be special and loved. Just that I want to show her that she was not wrong when she thought of me as the best. She was just unfortunate to be a part of my worst phase. But she was also at fault for leaving me then. Lol.

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Ah shit :joy::joy:, I can actually relate with this now. But she never said she wanted me or a guy like me until our relationship started.

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It kinda gives peace to someone whoā€™s been heartbroken, it gives hope to work more on themselves to prove get their self respect back.

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Bro admit it, wo bhale na kahe, tum to ye kehte the lol.

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Girls never say that bro
They will give you indirect hints
Mujhe tumhare jaisa dost nahi mil skta
Tum hi samjhte ho mujhe and all that
:slightly_smiling_face:

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But its good and let me tell you why -
When you reach that level of success you actually forgive them
But until you reach that point you gotta have that fire inside you to prove them wrong
Zakir Khan once said - ā€œEk ladka jitna apni life ek ladki ki wajah se change kr sakta hai utna kisi k liye kar hi nahi saktaā€
English - The amount of change a boy undergoes for a girl, He cannot undergo that change for any other reason person or thing " (Rough translation)

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Ok kar leta hoon admit :rofl:

ohhh nooo :joy:

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Hey Bro :smile:
Itā€™s been a while since Iā€™ve been on this forum. Remember when we joined together? Iā€™ve made some progress, but Iā€™m still addicted. Iā€™m on a 100-day streak right now, and Iā€™m hoping to make it this time. Sorry for not being around. Iā€™ve been really busy with work and studying for an exam that I will be attempting in February 2025. From today, I will make sure to login regularly :handshake:

How are you doing bro?

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Hey @valiant_warrior nice to see you man

Why is this shit so difficult :face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth:
I lost again today
I am too still addicted

Congratulations man :moyai::people_hugging:

Hope I reach that mark too soon enough !

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Challenge someone or join a challenge it really helps bhai, I was fapping 2 times everyday for the last 10-15 days ig , but currently I am on day 3 because I am challenging @TheSeeker on challenge a companion thread.

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Sure man, Thanks for the advice man !
I guess I gotta be accountable
Challenges might just be the best way to handle the twice/thrice a day relapses :muscle:

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Guys sadly I relapsed today after 3 days
@Sholt_Tenkerrot I lost itā€¦

The question is real man

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See why are you fighting with urge ? Donā€™t act upon it. Donā€™t try to fight with urge it wonā€™t let you win the best possible way to hold on 5 seconds and let the energy flow in your body. Trust me , itā€™s not that hard once you pass 2 weeks. Donā€™t act upon urges get in a comfortable place listen music watch tv whatever it will fade away.

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Bro this shit is designed to destroy the younger generation. Trust me bro nofap doesnā€™t give you any superpowers but once you start healing you start working on yourself. You yourself will be shocked and will wonder is this really me?

Itā€™s sad to see that so many of us are addicted to this but at the same time glad that people are trying to heal and come out of this loophole.

I pray and hope everyone who is reading this will heal soon :blush:

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