Your advice to a 18 year old!

That’s so motivating. I am enrolled in coaching which mentioned but the problem is that I sometimes meeting up subject like inorganic and organic and latest mock test score was 560 /720 which improved a lot but you know it’s not satisfying. Subject like organic and inorganic require daily revision and some topics physics like rotational motion kinematics too but I don’t know the way too revise that’s the main problem I want to tackle that I revise regularly. And now I have backlog pending

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Yes even I had this problem few months ago, don’t focus on making notes, just read the material and start solving the questions
For Phy and chem, aim for 25-30 ques everyday, whenever you get a doubt you can type the ques on the phone and websites will provide the solution.
Revise the theory regularly but dont spend too much time reading. For Bio and chem ncert is very important and for phy, the package is sufficient

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But the things is how do I integrate or start learning again organic which I have back log when my sir is running syllabus so fast

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Our teachers in my batch havent started organic yet but ya organic is very imp, so I think its best to take their notes for different reactions and mechanisms.
I just finished my classes now😅 btw

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And thanks for advices, I will definitely fuse them in my daily life

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I am new to organic and Inorganic and Inorganic is literally cramming

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Ya for inorganic, Ive seen toppers interviews saying that ncert is best for inorganic. You just have to cram but only from ncert, dont worry about module

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I am an introvert in my personal life since childhood. Even though I speak a lot here , I am a person who prefer to be alone in my personal life. I don’t regret being an introvert.

Idk whether I am right. Being an introvert and being lonely are different. Even though I am an introvert, I don’t have any problem socializing with any men or women in this world while maintaining eye contact at the same time.

But I prefer to spent time on myself maybe it will be working out or reading books etc. Being an introvert means you have a lot of time for yourself. You can either use this time to improve yourself or destroy yourself. Also you won’t have any peer pressure that extroverts face. Also introverts are known to be better listeners than extroverts.

In short, if you are an introvert by identity, I suggest don’t try to become an extrovert. But if you feel being an extrovert make you feel that " This is me " then go ahead. Sorry I made this long because I have once made a terrible setback in my life in which I tried to become an extrovert which doesn’t suit my identity. Ambivert are the safest ig.

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Everyone’s different bro, I started socialising a lot and started meeting new people every weekend when I go outside to play cricket, It made me feel more happier and comfortable with my surroundings.

Humans are social beings, we are kind of hardwired for social validation from others whether its from this app or parents or friends or anywhere.

During highschool, I used to sit in my classroom pretending to be doing something while other people were outside hanging out in groups.
Fapping once everyday killed my need to socialize and destroyed my need to meet people.

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Be the best version of yourself, not to be self indulgent but to share with others and have meaningful long lasting relationships.

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That’s why I mentioned earlier that if you are happy being an extrovert go ahead. It doesn’t mean extroverts are better than intoverts.

You are right. But it doesn’t mean you cannot survive survive without socializing. But brother with due respect , I think that your concept of introvert is wrong. Its actually the concept of a loner. Even though I am introvert , I still have friends. But I am not any party guy but rather to do things at my home that I like. But still I speak to extroverts in my class whenever needed.

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No we actually cannot survive without socializing😂
There was a person who lived on an island alone for a few years. During that period, he told that he had to make few non living puppets made of wood to prevent himself from going insane.

There’s also a scientific study that isolating yourself from others can increase chances of developing dementia and other mental disorders.

If you’re an introvert, and have really good contact with a few close friends then it shouldn’t be a problem.

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Sorry , I actually wrote that by accident. But let me tell you bro , introvert is not a concept in which you isolate yourself from everyone. It a particular kind of personality in which a person gets more happiness spending time with oneself than socializing with other. Probably that guy maybe an extrovert so he had experienced insanity due to this.

Not all scientific studies are correct. Its those scientist people who said fapping is good. Even there is a scientific studies which said that women have a better performance in bed if they watch ■■■■ regularly.

It is that same scientific study which said every human needs 8 hours of a sleep a day. But there are many exceptions in this world. Nikola Tesla sleep only 2 hours a day, Da vinci only 1.5 hours a day , trump only for 5 hours a day. So not all scientific studies are correct.

Mahatma Gandhi is an introvert , He is one of the most happiest person in this world.

Except in this forum , I only speak to people whenever they need help or vice versa.

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That’s what I was going to say. Being an interovert is not a problem. But the problem with introverts is he/she wants to become extrovert due to society . Introverts are made to think something is wrong with them. :sweat_smile:
Actually there is nothing wrong with anyone’s nature. Everyone is best . You can’t change your nature . But if a person is acting introvert due to anxiety or fear that is a problem

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Most of those scientists who said fapping is good, they’re mostly women, I haven’t seen a single guy who is a scientist posting an article on medical websites that fapping is good except for random dudes on quora.

Okay bro, this is indeed a very debatable topic, we can continue this discussion later, maybe in your diary (Gandhi is not an introvert)
But my introversion was anxiety related, I’ve had a better experience of living while interacting more.

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I have read the book " My experiments with truth " in which he said there he preferred to spent time alone even though he is finds okay talking to people

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Yes, he has also said that in his autobiography that he saw his shyness as a constitutional liability and tried to overcome it.

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Shyness and introversion are different. Not the sentence many introverts ( Not all introverts ) . There are many people who are introvert but is not shy enough to express when needed.

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It’s hard to define extroversion or introversion. Actually I also never understood the whole concept. :sweat_smile: Let’s leave it so.

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I’m 19 and haven’t even got mine yet, I’m still studying, but am too busy most of the time

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