wow! I have opened this app after 4 months and i almost forgot about porn and fapping! I was so busy improving myself that I forgot I had to fap. just wow! I never thought I could make it to 4 months pmo free!
unfortunately, today I relapsed out of boredom (damn!). Then I remembered that I was on NoFap. quickly closed the porn that I was watching and opened this app. holy shit, I was on a good 123 day streak! Wooow! (I reset it but I’m still proud of myself)
Ok, so, how I did it? when I embarked on this journey, I set some goals for myself. I wanted to meditate everyday (bonus! today is 123 days of everyday meditation too and I feel like zeus haha), I wanted to lose 33 lbs(15 kg) because I was overweight 4 months ago, I wanted to approach more girls, I wanted to spend more time with my family, I wanted to read more books, I wanted to spend more time in nature, I wanted to go on adventures and the least important but it was still a drive to keep going, I wanted a girlfriend. so, instead of counting days. I installed an app called “HabitBull” and started tracking my habits. I was so immersed in to it that I didn’t even get urges to watch porn and jack off (I got urges but I managed to escape them through meditation).
fast forward to today. I do everything that I set out to do. I started small and gradually increased the difficulty level like a video game. now, I meditate everyday, my mind is sharper than before, I make better decisions, my skin radiates and looks amazing, I wake up every day with zest and vitality, I love my life, lost 26 lbs(12 kg), I have a girlfriend now and she’s like the queen of my life, I have read 12 books these 4 months and I’m working on my dreams now and porn-induced problems have totally vanished!
do it guys! there’s light at the end of the tunnel!
Be so busy improving yourself that you have no time to watch porn and fap.
Reading your story I got goosebumps . Really appreciated Brother . You really worked hard for yourself . Will you please tell us 12 books name which you have already read ? @_KarmaYogi read this
I’m glad it motivates you. Here’s the list of books I read:
1.) The monk who sold his Ferrari by Robin Sharma.
2.) The subtle art of not giving a f*ck by Mark Manson.
3.) The way of the superior man by David Deida.
4.) How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie.
5.) The power of now by Eckhart Tolle.
6.) Your brain on porn by Gary Wilson.
7.) As a man thinketh by James Allen.
8.) 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson.
9.) You are a badass by Ken Sincero.
10.) What to say when you talk to yourself by Shad Helmstetter.
11.) Models by Mark Manson.
12.) Ignited minds by APJ Abdul Kalam.
You can meditate for whatever duration of time you want. It depends on you. Choose a time that’s comfortable to you and stick with it. For me, I do it for 30 minutes every single day. I started with 5 minutes and kept adding 1 minute everyday.
Life was boring. My brain was so desensitized that reality felt like curse. I’d avoid talking to people because I was so anxious around them for no reason.
Basically life was shit.
