So why is masturbation bad? And is it bad if you masturbate to a picture, not necessarily nude?
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Masturbation is not good as itās mainly done to imagine that you want to have sex which can lead to lust and as soon as you in that mindset things donāt look good. As a Christian God made sex for pleasure and all to bond with each other. When you masturbate you trick your brain that you are actually having sex. When you look at that picture and then cum to it granted it wonāt be the same as sex but you will have a slight bond connection. Thatās one of the reasons why people are depressed because we Masturbate to a lot of different girls which messes with our brains as l believe we should only have one partner. When we keep Masturbating we get addicted and that leads to isolation and sometimes we find it hard to talk about sexual things.
Basically Masturbation is bad cos
1 usually lust comes with it
2 we grow a bit attached every time we Masturbate to each girl pic or video
3 loneliness comes with it because we Masturbate when we canāt have sex for your own reason thatās why we imagine it thru Masturbating.
4 isolation feeling addicted and all that we feel bad and find it hard to talk about it
5 addiction anything that you do too much is never good. Everything in moderation
I hope this help and sorry if itās all over the place but yeah
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https://easypeasymethod.org/ read this you will get your answers no man here can explain it better than this book.
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But yeah Hex got you covered but also donāt forget you got Mr Google which l see a lot of people forget as a good source for answers. Read some articles there to help you on your journey
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Well I use pictures of people and I donāt really feel lonely, also I donāt really give for morality so save it for this thread. Iām also confused because a lot of animals masturbate too, to explore themselves in their youth or to release sexual tension if they didnāt find a mate. Which is also what we do, especially when were young, and also there are benefits to masturbation by studies. So are there any scientific proven reason itās not good for you?
Science wonāt explain everything but if you looking for the facts then addiction of dopamine. You may be fine now but every time you orgasm your brain is light up chemically and all. Basically if you keep doing it you will get lonely and depressed cos masturbation robs you of dopamine of essential things like enjoying running, music etc. Basically anything with dopamine gets suppressed as masturbation overstimulates the brain
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But this book is about porn isnāt it? I am not inclined to watch porn. I usually masturbate on pictures I find on the web, not nude ones, does that count as porn? I can also masturbate without, though I prefer with.
Just read the book no need to do anything else you will get your answers
The book hasnāt helped me yet.
Well isnāt sex just masturbation but inside your partner? How is masturbation any different from sex? I mean sex is not bad, it is how we reproduce. So why is masturbation bad?
Yes masturbation and sex are both the same in terms of orgasm itself however its usually the lifestyle and mindset that makes all the difference.
With sex we got a partner and in marriage you know her very well, spend time together and love one another. So having sex with a partner like that is great but if you donāt know the person well like sex without marriage then itās mainly doing it for your own desires just like masturbation.
With masturbation I reckon its a process that leads to depression. I mean masturbation itself nothing wrong but itās how you use it. You mainly see people masturbating when either life is tough or sexual tension is high. So basically itās a lack of strength people face. Not saying thatās the only reason but itās the main reason. So with that negative mindset of life is too hard or I need sexual release to them mindset is just a lie. Think about it. Has masturbation ever helped your sexual tension because the more you masturbate the Hornier you become and so next time the sexual tension grows.
Anyways there is more to that l could go on and on but conclusion sex and masturbation not bad by itself but how we use them
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The topic question is a good and honest one 
Answers are very nuanced, but Iāll answer your last question first because itās easy 
Sex is not the same as masturbation,
because Sex is āsharedā with another person.
Why Iād prefer a life without P/MO;
MO (for me) always leads to āthoughtsā
and/or āPā - finding enjoyment in novelty, moving onto harder or weirder things, losing touch with reality, kidding myself and my subconscious mind into fantasy.
Iād prefer to be real, balanced, and all parts of myself in harmony with each other.
My sexuality is important, as is my dear relationship. Relationships, reading, living, living and learning.
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@Mitchy , I really like the point of view you shared here. It has made me think about a few things.
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Brother, do you really think so?
Sex is about friendship, communication, partnership, your partnerās pleasureā¦ I could go on and on.
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Bc God said so. Ask God. (Heāll say yes)
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Your sperm contains vital protiens such as sucrose, fructose, bone marrow and several other specimens which are required by the body for its normal conditioning and you are just wasting your own parts of body over a random girl you find exy on internet
Just stop and change your perspective of thinking
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Well I went 18 days without fap and I can say I do feel a little bit better, itās not particularly hard maybe because Iām still new to the topic of masturbation, but when you have a wet dream the same still happens, and your body always produces sperm, itās just up to you if to use it or let the body flush it in a wet dream
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Exactly @Someguy123 thanks @Mitchy for your explaination
did you feel happy after doing masturbation ??
This high level of dopamine that you decided to have now by looking at a fake pic. Itās not real , no feelings nothing is real ā¦ do you find it well , relax ā¦
I am a woman and I tell you no ā¦ i used everything and didnāt find any calm ā¦ when something you canāt faced it with your life and going to masturbate and you need this time of pleasure but you can not (no power ) you will know how is bad , maybe you will understand , but i am afraid that time will be lost ā¦ control your dopamine and belive me itās the best for yourselfā¦
You took from your power Everytime you masturbate , aloneā¦
Donāt accept to yourself with last choice (masturbation), this miserable , stopped and belive with your will , this way that I know like no other options because you have it ā¦ because you have not the opportunity to have a real sex , running to masturbate is not option , # You take a pain reliever while you are injured and need an operation , big noo ā¦
Masturbation like a thief of power donāt accept it itās hard , yeeees ā¦
But as you believe as you will enjoy the benefits of quit afterward .
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Exactly @Someguy123 thanks @Mitchy for your explaination
did you feel happy after doing masturbation ??
This high level of dopamine that you decided to have now by looking at a fake pic. Itās not real , no feelings nothing is real ā¦ do you find it well , relax ā¦
I am a woman and I tell you no ā¦ i used everything and didnāt find any calm ā¦ when something you canāt faced it with your life and going to masturbate and you need this time of pleasure but you can not (no power ) you will know how is bad , maybe you will understand , but i am afraid that time will be lost ā¦ control your dopamine and belive me itās the best for yourselfā¦
You took from your power Everytime you masturbate , aloneā¦
Donāt accept to yourself with last choice (masturbation), this miserable , stopped and belive with your will , this way that I know like no other options because you have it ā¦ because you have not the opportunity to have a real sex , running to masturbate is not option , # You take a pain reliever while you are injured and need an operation , big noo ā¦
Ask yourself do I have the consequences ? (Answer yourself)
Masturbation like a thief of power donāt accept it itās hard , yeeees ā¦
But as you believe as you will enjoy the benefits of quit afterward ā¦
My way is hard but I liked to share it as my experience with the dark , do what ever you like
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Thatās porn. The definition of porn is up to the user. Pornography is any form of media (image/video/words/gif) that you use to sexually arouse yourself.
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