Same Regret… Mainly because I valued that shit much more than Time I have in my earlier years
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Sometimes I feel I reached 25 and still kissless virgin is due to PMO. Had once at 17 yo a nice girl liking me so much and instead of dating her I preffered staying in my room and fapping. What an idiot I was.
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How long to wait? I’m already 25…and i feel so much frustration.
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Bro I can understand your situation and feeling. I would say never ever relapse, it’s not worth it. Today I relapsed on my 57 days streak,and you know what it feels so guilty and sad
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I will try not to. But its very difficult as a loner :((
You are so much right. I realised I can’t have a girlfriend with this miserable addiction. I feel I would pressure her to have sex daily with me. I know I have serious problems, that I’m sexually obsessed and act like a disperate. I didnt edge or peeked and hope I won’t relapse. 
To be honest, being a Kissless virgin at 25 is okif I dont look at other younger guys.
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It’s okay
Just go without this and after a considerable amount of time it will be normal.
It also occurs to me that when I’m distressed I’m actually enhanced. Facing the pain makes it lesser.
Today I did not eat for the whole day (well, we didn’t have time because we had to cremate my uncle today) and I saw my senses being sharper, my mind being more focused. I’m not asking you to starve yourself deliberately. It is different for everyone. You just have to face it. You can do it. I’m in the same boat as you are, but with a different issue. I have developed a phobia for studies. No matter how much I tried before I was scared to even look at notes. Little by little I learned to hold on.
Other than that
I suggest you to do Tratak
A form of meditation
You have go in a completely dark room, light a candle and keep staring at the flame until your eyes get watery. You can do it multiple times to get yourself under control. However don’t rely on it too much. The effects start to wear off if you do it too much. It gives a lot of relief. You don’t even need to control the thoughts of your mind. If you do it before sleeping you’ll get a very nice sleep.
Its okay. I’m actually glad it happened. He didn’t die due to Covid. He had cancer, spread throughout his body, including his spine. It was impossible to save him. He was suffering too much already. At least everything is over for him now.
Sorry to hear about your uncle…
RIP 
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It happened with me too. The pain was unbearable. So i mastubated and let all the fluid out and the very next moment the pain relieved.
Do it, and start a new clean streak.
And @anon87135776 edging is a big NO.
You are not at all rewiring your brain if you are edging. Because edging releases dopamine, because of which your brain makes you feel tempted to do PMO…
And to answer this question, you should find ways by which you don’t get triggered and ways to stop thinking about it, because the more you think, more the sexual tension builds up.
So i would recommend :- Avoid thinking about PMO, avoid thinking of fapping when you feel most vulnerable to triggers.
Bro don’t judge yourself by your success with woman. There are many great men who achieved a lot at the age of 25 years old. See them and remind yourself to become like them. I know it’s hard to follow but sometimes even fake thinking can give you some peace in mind
Bro It already Relieved after 30-40 min…
I have no urges now…
So I am continuing my streak without thinking about past
I know it’s not clean… But I have no urge to do such things now…
Okay that’s good. I just shared my experience.
Get yourself busy in other stuff. Best way to get rid of it is to start pushups or cardio. It’s really effective.
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but i don’t ejaculate …still it is relapse?
No you won’t if you love her, love will protect you to do her all the filthy things you want to a random girl you see on the street.
You will fall in love and you’ll see all you want is to talk with her, to make her smile, having a good time. If you touch her, that will be in very respectfull way, because love won’t let you do otherwise.
Love is the key.
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Let me explain the physical part of why it is not good.
What’s the pmo? It’s making your brain think you’re having sex.
What is masturbation with no porn? It’s porn with no monitor.
What is edging? Well it’s making your brain thinks that your partner didn’t like it.
What is edging without porn? It’s making your brain think that your patrner didn’t like it, but there is no partner. This means your brain understands that there is no sex. It may lead to anxiety or depression.
I wouldn’t waste time on that.
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