The Easy Peasy Way To Quit ๐–ฏ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡

Chapter 4

Nature

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Internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ works through hijacking natural reward mechanisms designed to keep you reproducing for as long as possible. Internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡โ€™s instant and highly accessible form keeps the brainโ€™s reward mechanism producing dopamine for significantly longer than normally possible. Scientifically, this is called the Coolidge effect, which you might already be aware of.

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter associated with feelings of wanting, with actual pleasure produced by opioids. More dopamine, more opioids and more action. Without dopamine, actions such as eating donโ€™t feel pleasurable and arenโ€™t completed, with high fat and sugar foods producing the highest chemical release.

Dopamine is also released in response to novelty. With a seemingly infinite amount of pornography available this floods the limbic system (reward circuit), so the first time you see ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ you act, orgasming and triggering another flood of opioids. Incentivised to get as much dopamine as possible, the brain stores this as a script for easy recall and strengthens neural pathways through the release of a chemical called DeltaFosB. Now, the brain calls up these pathways in response to cues such as sxy commercials, alone time, stress or even feeling a little down and suddenly youโ€™re ready to take a ride on the โ€˜water slideโ€™. Every time this is repeated, more DeltaFosB is released so the water slide is greased, alive and easier to ride down the next time.

The limbic system has a self correcting system to trim the number of dopamine and opioid receptors when frequent and daily flooding of dopamine is detected. Unfortunately, these receptors are also needed to keep us motivated to handle daily life stresses. Nominal amounts of dopamine produced by natural rewards simply donโ€™t compare to pornography and arenโ€™t as efficiently absorbed by the decreased receptors, leading you into feel more stressed and irritated than normal. This process is known as desensitisation.

In this cycle you crossed the โ€˜red lineโ€™ and triggered emotions such as guilt, disgust, embarrassment, anxiety and fear, which in turn raise dopamine levels even higher and cause the brain to misinterpret these feelings as sexual arousal.

As time passes, not only is the brain desensitised to previous clips itโ€™s seen, but also similar genres and shock level. This lower motivation triggers feelings of lower satisfaction as our brains engage in constant rating, pushing you to find clips to satisfy the hunger. So you seek more novelty, clicking on the amateurish, shock inducing clip on the homepage you confidently said you wouldnโ€™t on your first visit.

โ€œFor in the dew of little things the heart finds itโ€™s morning and is refreshedโ€

โ€” Kahlil Gibran

A fleeting feeling of security is all thatโ€™s needed to get through a rough spot in life, but will your desensitised brain be able to catch that drop of destresser that a non-userโ€™s brain is able to use?

Dopamine flooding acts like a quick acting drug, falling quickly and inducing withdrawal pangs. Many users have the illusion these pangs are the terrible trauma they suffer when trying or being forced to stop. In fact, theyโ€™re primarily mental since the user is feeling deprived of their pleasure or prop.

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4.1 The Little Monster

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The actual chemical withdrawal from ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is so subtle that most users have lived and died without realising theyโ€™re drug addicts. Many users have a fear of drugs, yet thatโ€™s exactly what they are, drug addicts. Fortunately itโ€™s an easy drug to kick, but you first need to accept that you are, in fact, addicted. Withdrawal from ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ doesnโ€™t cause any physical pain and is merely an empty, restless feeling of something missing, which is why many believe itโ€™s something to do with sexual desire. Prolonged, this feeling becomes nervousness, insecurity, agitation, low confidence and irritability. Itโ€™s like hunger, for a poison.

Within seconds of engaging in a session, dopamine is supplied and the craving ends, resulting in a feeling of fulfillment as you whiz down the water slide. In the early days, withdrawal pangs and their subsequent relief are so slight weโ€™re unaware of them. When we become regular users, we believe itโ€™s because weโ€™ve come to enjoy them or gotten into the โ€˜habitโ€™. The truth being that weโ€™re already hooked but donโ€™t realise it. The little monster is already in our brains, so every once and a while we take trips down the water slide to feed it.

All users begin seeking ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ for irrational reasons. The only reason anybody continues using ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡, whether theyโ€™re a casual or heavy user, is to feed that little monster. The whole conundrum is a series of cruel and confusing punishments, but perhaps the most pathetic aspect is the sense of enjoyment a user gets from a session, trying to get back to the sense of peace, tranquility and confidence their body had before becoming hooked in the first place.

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4.2 The Annoying Alarm

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You know that feeling when a neighbourโ€™s home alarm has been ringing all day โ€” or some other minor persistent aggravation โ€” then the noise suddenly stops and marvellous feelings of peace and tranquility wash over you? This isnโ€™t really peace, but the ending of an aggravation. Before starting the next session our bodies are complete, but then we begin forcing our brains to pump dopamine and when weโ€™re done and it begins to leave, we suffer withdrawal pangs. These arenโ€™t physical pain, merely an empty feeling. We arenโ€™t even aware it exists but itโ€™s like a dripping tap inside our bodies.

Our rational minds donโ€™t understand it, but they donโ€™t need to. All we know is that we want ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ and when we masturbate the craving goes. However, the satisfaction is fleeting because in order to relieve the craving more ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is required. As soon as you orgasm, the craving starts again and the trap continues to hold you. A feedback loop, unless you break it!

The ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ trap is similar to wearing tight shoes just to obtain the pleasure of taking them off. There are three primary reasons why users canโ€™t see it this way.

  1. From birth, weโ€™ve been subjected to massive amounts of brainwashing telling us internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is simply another modern development that replaced the print version of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡. This fallacy is packaged with the truth that masturbation isnโ€™t harmful, so why shouldnโ€™t we believe them?
  2. Because physical dopamine withdrawal involves no actual pain, merely an empty insecure feeling inseparable from hunger and normal stress, this feeling manifests into a ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ session as those are the very times we tend to seek internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡. We tend to regard this feeling as normal.
  3. However, the primary reason users fail to see internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ in its true light is due to it working back to front. Itโ€™s when youโ€™re not consuming it that you suffer the empty feeling. Because the process of getting hooked is incredibly subtle and gradual in the early days, the empty feeling is regarded as normal and so isnโ€™t blamed on the previous session. The moment the browser is fired up and you begin your session, you get an immediate boost and become less nervous or more relaxed, so internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ gets the credit.

This โ€˜back to frontโ€™ reverse process makes all drugs difficult to kick. Imagine the state of panic of a heroin addict without any heroin; now picture their utter joy when they can finally plunge a needle into their vein. People who arenโ€™t addicted to heroin donโ€™t suffer that panicked feeling.

The heroin doesnโ€™t relieve the feeling, it causes it. Similarly, non-users donโ€™t suffer empty feelings of needing internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡, or panic when theyโ€™re offline. Non-users canโ€™t understand how users possibly obtain pleasure from two-dimensional videos with muted sounds and abnormal body proportions. Eventually, users canโ€™t understand either.

We talk about internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ being relaxing or satisfying, but how can you be satisfied unless you were dissatisfied in the first place? A non-user doesnโ€™t suffer from this unsatisfied state, completely relaxed after a no-sex date, while the user isnโ€™t until theyโ€™ve satisfied their โ€˜little monsterโ€™.

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4.3 A pleasure or a crutch?

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An important reminder โ€” the main reason that users find it difficult to quit is due to the belief theyโ€™re giving up a genuine pleasure or crutch. Itโ€™s essential to understand that youโ€™re giving up absolutely nothing whatsoever. The best way to understand the subtleties of the ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ trap is comparing it with eating. The habit of regular meals causes us to not feel hungry between, only aware of hunger if the meal is delayed. Thereโ€™s no physical pain, just an empty insecure feeling recognised as hunger. The process of satisfying our hunger is a very pleasant experience.

Pornography appears to be almost identical, but itโ€™s not. Like hunger, thereโ€™s no physical pain and the reward mechanism behaves in similar ways, but itโ€™s this similarity to eating that tricks the user into believing thereโ€™s a genuine pleasure or crutch. Although eating and ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ appear to be very similar, in reality theyโ€™re exact opposites.

  • You eat to survive and energise your life, whereas ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ dims and cuts down your mojo.
  • Food genuinely tastes good and eating is a genuinely pleasant experience that we enjoy throughout our lives. ๐–ฏ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ involves self-sabotaging the happiness receptors and thus destroys your chances to cope and feel happy.
  • Eating doesnโ€™t create hunger and genuinely relieves it, whereas the first ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ session starts the craving for dopamine and each subsequent session. Far from relieving it, it ensures suffering for the rest of your life.

Is eating a habit? If you think so, try breaking it completely! To describe eating as habit would be like describing breathing as a habit โ€” both are essential for survival. Itโ€™s true that people have the habit of satisfying their hunger at different times with varying types of food, but eating itself isnโ€™t habit. Neither is ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡. The only reason a user fires up the browser is trying to end the empty feelings the previous session created, at different times with varying escalating genres.

On the internet, ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is frequently referred to as a habit and for convenience EasyPeasy also refers to the โ€˜habitโ€™. However, be constantly aware that ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ isnโ€™t habit, itโ€™s drug addiction! When we start to use ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡, we have to force ourselves to cope with it. Before we know it, weโ€™re escalating into increasingly bizarre and shocking ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡. The thrill is in the hunting, not the killing, with dopamine rapidly leaving the body after orgasm, explaining why users want to โ€˜edgeโ€™ (delaying orgasm) through flicking between multiple browser windows and tabs.

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4.4 Crossing the red line

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As with any other drug, the body tends to develop immunity to the effects of the same old clips, our brain wanting more or something else. After short periods of watching the same clip it ceases to completely relieve the withdrawal pangs that the previous session created. Thereโ€™s a tug of war occurring in this ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ paradise: you want to stay on the safe side of your โ€˜red lineโ€™, but your brain is asking you to click on the forbidden-fruit clip.

You feel better after engaging in this ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ session, but youโ€™re more nervous and less relaxed than someone who never started, even though youโ€™re living in a supposed ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ paradise. This position is even more ridiculous than wearing tight shoes because as you go through life an ever-increasing amount of discomfort remains after taking the shoes off. Because the user knows the little monster has to be fed, they themselves decide the time, which tends to be on four types of occasions or a combination of them:

Boredom / Concentration โ€” Two complete opposites!
Stress / Relaxation โ€” Two complete opposites!

What magic drug can suddenly reverse the very effect it had minutes before? The truth is that ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ neither relieves boredom and stress nor promotes concentration and relaxation. If you think about it, what other types of occasions are there in our lives, bar sleep? If you have ideas of toning down to other types of โ€˜realisticโ€™ or โ€˜softโ€™ genres of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡, please note that the content of this book applies to all ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ โ€” print, webcams, pay-per-view, chat, live shows, etc. The human body is the most sophisticated object on the planet, but no species, even the lowest amoeba or worm, survives without knowing the difference between food and poison.

Through natural selection our minds and bodies have developed techniques for rewarding actions that multiply and sustain humanity. Theyโ€™re not prepared for supernormal stimuli that are bigger, brighter and edgier than anything found in nature, since even the most muted two-dimensional image causes us to become aroused. But repeatedly look at the same image and you wonโ€™t be. In real life, checks and balances ensure you do something else but internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ has no such limiter, causing you to spend your life in a virtual harem!

Itโ€™s a fallacy that physically and mentally weak people become users, the lucky ones being those who found their first instance repulsive and are cured for life. Alternatively, they arenโ€™t mentally prepared to go through the severe learning process of fighting to get themselves hooked, fears of โ€˜getting caughtโ€™ or not being technical enough to operate browser privacy settings. Perhaps the most tragic part of the whole business relates to teenagers โ€” skilled in finding material and covering their tracks โ€” who start in increasing number.

Enjoying internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is an illusion. Jumping from genre to genre, merely keeping our novelty โ€˜monkeyโ€™ within the โ€˜red lineโ€™ of โ€˜safeโ€™ ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ genres in order to get our dopamine fix. Like heroin addicts, all theyโ€™re really enjoying is the ritual of relieving those pangs.

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4.5 The High From the Dance Around The Red Line

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Even with the one clip thatโ€™s lingered on, users constantly teach themselves to filter out the bad and ugly portions of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ clips. Even if itโ€™s solo, they still filter on the body parts that appeal to them the most. In fact, some take pleasure in this dance around the red line, finding excuses to declare they like the โ€˜soft stuffโ€™ and are unaddicted to supernormal stimuli. But ask a user who believes they stick to a certain actor or genre, โ€œIf you cannot get your normal brand of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ and can only obtain an unsafe genre, do you stop masturbating?โ€

No way! A user will masturbate to anything, escalating genres, differences in sex orientation, look-alike performers, dangerous settings, shocking relationships, anything to sate the little monster. To begin with they taste awful, but given enough time youโ€™ll learn to enjoy them. Users will seek empty fulfillment after having real sex, after a long work day, fever, colds, flu, sore throats and even during admittance in hospitals.

Enjoyment has nothing to do with it; if sex is wanted, it makes no sense to be with your laptop. Some users find it alarming to realise theyโ€™re drug addicts and believe this will make it even more difficult to stop. In fact, this is good news for two important reasons.

  1. The reason why most continue using is because although we know the disadvantages far outweigh the advantages, we believe thereโ€™s something in ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ that we actually enjoy or that it acts like some sort of prop. Weโ€™re under the illusion that after we stop using there will be a void, certain situations in our lives never being quite the same. In fact ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ not only provides nothing, it subtracts.
  2. Although internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is the most powerful trigger for novelty and sex-based dopamine-flooding, because of the speed you become hooked, youโ€™re never badly hooked. The actual withdrawal pangs are so mild that most users have lived and died without realising theyโ€™ve suffered them.

Why is it then that many users find it so difficult to stop, going through months of torture and spending the rest of their lives pining for it at odd times? The answer is the second reason, brainwashing. The neurotransmitter addiction is easy to cope with, most users going for days without online ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ on business trips or travel, unaffected by withdrawal pangs. Their little monster is safe in the knowledge youโ€™ll open your laptop as soon as you return to your hotel room. You can survive your obnoxious client and your megalomaniac manager, knowing the fix is there for your taking.

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4.6 The Smokers Analogy

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A good analogy is that of the cigarette smoker. If they went ten hours of the day without a cigarette theyโ€™d be tearing their hair out, but many smokers will buy a new car and refrain from smoking in it. Many will visit theatres, supermarkets, churches and being unable to smoke causes them no problems. Even on trains and airplanes there have been no riots. Smokers are almost pleased for someone or something to stop them smoking.

Users will automatically refrain from using internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ in their parentsโ€™ home during family gatherings and other events with little discomfort. In fact, most users have extended periods during which they abstain without effort. The neurological little monster is easy to cope with even when youโ€™re still addicted. There are millions of users who remain casual users all their lives and theyโ€™re just as addicted as the heavy user. There are even heavy users whoโ€™ve kicked the addiction but have an occasional peek, greasing the water slide to be ridden down at the next dip in mood.

As said previously the actual ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ addiction isnโ€™t the main problem, itโ€™s simply acting as a catalyst to keeping our minds confused over the real problem โ€“ brainwashing. Donโ€™t think the bad effects of internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ are exaggerated, however; if anything, theyโ€™re sadly understated. Occasionally, rumours circulate that the neural pathways created are there for life, with the right mix of chance and stimulus sending you down the life-ruining water slide again, but these are untrue. Our brains and bodies are miraculous machines, recovering within a matter of weeks.

Itโ€™s never too late to stop! A quick browse of online communities will show you people of all ages rebooting their (and their partnerโ€™s) lives. As with anything, some do take it to the next level, practicing semen retention, Karezza and through differentiation of the sensory and propagative sides of sex make their partners happier than ever before.

It may be of consolation to lifelong and heavy users that itโ€™s just as easy for them to stop as casual users, and in a peculiar way itโ€™s easier. The further it drags you down, the greater the relief. When I stopped I went straight to zero and didnโ€™t have one bad pang. In fact, the process was actually enjoyable even during the withdrawal period.

But first, we must remove the brainwashing.

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Summarization 4

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4.0 Internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ and Dopamine:

  • Internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ exploits natural reward mechanisms, prolonging dopamine production and triggering the Coolidge effect.
  • Dopamine release is linked to novelty, leading to a flood in the limbic system and reinforcing neural pathways.

4.1 The Little Monster:

  • Users often overlook being addicted to ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ due to subtle chemical withdrawal, manifesting as an empty, restless feeling.
  • Dopamine supplied during a session temporarily satisfies cravings, but the cycle continues, trapping users.

4.2 The Annoying Alarm:

  • Withdrawal pangs are likened to an annoying alarm, and users find momentary relief in ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ sessions.
  • The satisfaction is short-lived, and the cycle perpetuates, creating a feedback loop.

4.3 A Pleasure or a Crutch?:

  • Users mistakenly perceive ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ as a genuine pleasure or crutch, but itโ€™s emphasized that they give up nothing by quitting.
  • A comparison is drawn between eating and ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡, highlighting the destructive nature of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡.

4.4 Crossing the Red Line:

  • The trap of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ involves escalating genres, and users seek fulfillment despite knowing its disadvantages.
  • The illusory enjoyment of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is explored, emphasizing that users are hooked on the ritual more than the content.

4.5 The High From the Dance Around The Red Line:

  • Users filter out negative aspects of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ clips, even finding pleasure in the dance around the โ€˜red line.โ€™
  • ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ addiction is highlighted as a form of brainwashing, leading users to believe they gain something from it.

4.6 The Smokers Analogy:

  • A comparison is made to cigarette smokers, noting that users can refrain from ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ in specific situations without discomfort.
  • The addictionโ€™s neurological aspect is manageable, even for casual users, but brainwashing remains the core issue.
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Chapter 5

Brainwashing

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This is the second reason we start using. Understanding this brainwashing fully required us to first examine the powerful effects of supernormal stimulus. Our brains simply arenโ€™t prepared for the creation of an โ€˜online haremโ€™, allowing us to flick between more potential mates in fifteen minutes than our ancestors had in several lifetimes.

Thereโ€™s been much misguided advice in the past, one example being that masturbation leads to blindness. This, along with other scare tactics, clearly overdid it. Misconceptions such as these were right to be overthrown by science. But the baby has been thrown out with the bath water; from our earliest years our subconscious minds are bombarded with sexual messages and imagery, magazines and advertisements loaded with innuendo. Some pop videos are extremely suggestive, but donโ€™t despair, make it a game to identify what components theyโ€™re using โ€” is it shock value, novelty, colour, size, taboo, nostalgia, etc. Such a game can even be taught to pre-teens as a way to educate them.

At its core, the message is โ€œThe most precious thing on this earth, my last thought and action, will be orgasm.โ€ Is this exaggeration? Watch any TV or movie plot and youโ€™ll see the mix up of the sensory (touch, smell, voice) and the propagative (orgasmic) parts of sex. The impact of this doesnโ€™t register on our conscious, but the subconscious has time to absorb it.

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5.1 Scientific reasoning

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Thereโ€™s publicity the other way: sexual dysfunction scares, loss of motivation, preferring virtual ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ to real girls, YourBrainOnPorn.com and various internet subcultures, but these movements donโ€™t actually stop people from using. Logically speaking they should, but the simple fact is they donโ€™t. Even the health risks listed from peer-reviewed studies on YourBrainOnPorn.com arenโ€™t enough to stop an adolescent from starting.

Ironically, the most powerful force in this confusion is the user themselves. Itโ€™s a fallacy that users are weak-willed or physically weak people. You have to be physically strong in order to cope with an addiction after you know it exists. Perhaps the most painful aspect is that they place themselves as unsuccessful losers and insufferable introverts. Itโ€™s likely that a friend could be more interesting in person if they hadnโ€™t put themselves down for seeking self-pleasure.

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5.2 Problems using willpower

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Users quitting using the willpower method blame their own lack of willpower and ruin their peace and happiness. Itโ€™s one thing to fail in self-discipline and another to self-loathe. After all, thereโ€™s no law that requires you to be hard all the time before sex, properly aroused and able to satisfy your partner. Weโ€™re working on an addiction, not a habit and at no point do you argue with yourself to stop a habit like golfing, but to do the same with ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ addiction is normalised โ€” why?

Constant exposure to a supernormal stimulus rewires your brain, so building a resistance to this brainwashing is critical, as if buying a car from a second hand car dealer โ€” nodding politely but not believing a word the man is saying. So donโ€™t believe that you must have as much sex as you can, all of it being exceptionally good, using ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ in its absence.

Donโ€™t play the safe ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ game either; your little monster invented that game to lure you. Is amateur ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ certified by some authority? ๐–ฏ๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ sites gather data from their users and use it to cater to their needs, and if they see an uptick in a certain category theyโ€™ll focus on it and get content out ASAP. Donโ€™t be fooled by educational intent or โ€˜safeโ€™ female-marketed clips. Start asking yourself: โ€œWhy am I doing it? Do I really need to?โ€

No, of course you donโ€™t!

Most users swear that they only watch static and soft ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ and therefore are fine, when in actuality theyโ€™re straining at the leash, fighting with their willpower to resist temptations. If done too often and for too long, this depletes their willpower considerably and they begin failing in other life projects where willpower is of great value, like exercise, dieting, etc. Failure in these areas makes them feel miserable and guilty, cascading into using pornography again. If this isnโ€™t done, theyโ€™ll vent their anger and depression onto loved ones.

Once you become addicted to internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡, the brainwashing is increased. Your subconscious mind knows the little monster has to be fed, blocking everything else. Itโ€™s fear that keeps people from quitting, fear of that empty, insecure feeling they get when they stop flooding their brains with dopamine. Just because youโ€™re unaware of it doesnโ€™t mean itโ€™s not there. You donโ€™t have to understand it any more than a cat needs to understand where the hot water pipes are: the cat just knows that if it sits in a certain spot it feels warm.

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5.3 Passivity

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The passivity of our minds and dependence on authority leading to brainwashing is the primary difficulty of giving up ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡. Our upbringing in society, reinforced by the brainwashing of our own addiction and combined with the most powerful - our friends, relatives and colleagues. The phrase โ€˜giving upโ€™ is a classic example of the brainwashing, implying genuine sacrifice. The beautiful truth is thereโ€™s nothing to give up; on the contrary, youโ€™ll be freeing yourself from a terrible disease and achieving marvellous positive gains. Weโ€™ll begin removing this brainwashing now, starting with no longer referring to โ€˜giving upโ€™ but to stopping, quitting or perhaps the true position, escaping!

The only thing that persuades us to use initially is other people doing it and feeling that weโ€™re missing out. We work hard to become hooked, yet we never find what theyโ€™ve been missing. Every time we see another clip it reassures us there must be something in it, otherwise people wouldnโ€™t be doing it and the business wouldnโ€™t be so big. Even when they kick the habit, the ex-user feels theyโ€™re being deprived when a discussion on a sxy entertainer, singer or even a ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ star comes up during parties or social functions. โ€œThey must be good if all my friends talk about them, right? Do they have free pictures online?โ€ They feel safe, theyโ€™ll just have one peek tonight and before they know it, theyโ€™re hooked again.

The brainwashing is extremely powerful and you need to be aware of its effects. Technology continues to grow and the future will bring exponentially faster sites and access methods. The ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ industry is investing millions in virtual reality so that it will become the next best thing. We donโ€™t know where weโ€™re going, unequipped to deal with present technology or what is to come.

Weโ€™re about to remove this brainwashing. It isnโ€™t the non-user whoโ€™s being deprived, but the user who is forfeiting a lifetime of:

  • Health
  • Energy
  • Wealth
  • Peace of mind
  • Confidence
  • Courage
  • Self-respect
  • Happiness
  • Freedom

What do they gain from these considerable sacrifices? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, apart from the illusion of trying to get back to the state of peace, tranquillity and confidence that the non-user always enjoys.

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5.4 Withdrawal Pangs

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As explained earlier, users believe they use ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ for enjoyment, relaxation or some sort of education. The actual reason is relief of withdrawal pangs. Our subconscious mind begins to learn that internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ and masturbation at certain times tends to be pleasurable. As we become increasingly hooked on the drug, the greater the need to relieve the withdrawal pangs becomes and the further the subtle trap drags you down. This process happens so slowly that you arenโ€™t even aware of it, most young users donโ€™t realise theyโ€™re addicted until attempting to stop and even then, many wonโ€™t admit it.

Take this conversation a therapist had with hundreds of teenagers:

Therapist: โ€œYou realise that internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is a drug and the only reason why youโ€™re using is that you cannot stop.โ€

Patient: โ€œNonsense! I enjoy it, if I didnโ€™t, I would stop.โ€

Therapist: โ€œJust stop for a week to prove to me you can if you want to.โ€

Patient: โ€œNo need, I enjoy it. If I wanted to stop, I would.โ€

Therapist: โ€œJust stop for a week to prove to yourself you arenโ€™t hooked.โ€

Patient: โ€œWhatโ€™s the point? I enjoy it.โ€

As already stated, users tend to relieve their withdrawal pangs at times of stress, boredom, concentration or combinations of these. In the following chapters, weโ€™ll target these aspects of the brainwashing.

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Summarization 5

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5.0 Brainwashing

  1. Purpose of Internet Brainwashing: The chapter explores the idea of internet brainwashing as a reason for using, focusing on the impact of supernormal stimuli and the overwhelming accessibility to potential mates online.

  2. Media Influence: Discusses the constant exposure to sexual messages in media, pop culture, and advertisements, emphasizing the need to educate individuals, even pre-teens, about the underlying messages.

5.1 Scientific Reasoning:

  1. Ineffectiveness of Scare Tactics: Points out the failure of scare tactics and health warnings to deter adolescents from starting internet pornography use.

  2. Userโ€™s Paradox: Highlights the misconception that users are weak-willed, emphasizing that addiction requires physical strength to cope once awareness exists.

5.2 Problems using Willpower:

  1. Impact on Self-Discipline: Describes the negative consequences of attempting to quit using willpower, including self-loathing and the depletion of willpower affecting other life projects.

  2. Deceptive Self-Assessment: Warns against self-deception regarding the nature of the content watched, emphasizing the strain on willpower and the potential cascading effects on other life areas.

5.3 Passivity:

  1. Dependency on Authority: Discusses the primary challenge of giving up ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ being the passivity of minds and dependence on societal norms, reinforced by addiction and social influences.

  2. Changing Perspective: Encourages a shift in perspective from โ€œgiving upโ€ to โ€œstoppingโ€ or โ€œquitting,โ€ emphasizing the positive gains rather than a perceived sacrifice.

5.4 Withdrawal Pangs:

  1. Unconscious Addiction: Explores how users may not realize they are addicted until attempting to quit, often denying their addiction due to the perceived enjoyment.

  2. Therapeutic Challenge: Describes a therapistโ€™s conversation with a patient, highlighting the denial of addiction and the challenge of proving the ability to stop for a week.

  3. Targeting Brainwashing: Teases upcoming chapters that will address aspects of brainwashing related to stress, boredom, and concentration.

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Starting from next chapter, things will get more interresting
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Chapter 6

Brainwashing Aspects

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The ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ trapโ€™s big monster is bred through the culmination of many aspects, including societal forces, media portrayals, peers and the userโ€™s own internal narrative. Failure to deconstruct these fallacies whilst using the willpower method eventually leads to feelings of deprivation, leading the user back into the trap. Deconstruction of the imagined value of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is crucial for success and allows you to see where youโ€™re being robbed!

Of importance to note is the link between brainwashing and fear. Itโ€™s fear of feeling future withdrawal pangs that create the pangs. Fear is the pang itself. Think about when youโ€™ve had withdrawal symptoms such as sweaty palms, shortness of breath, sleeping problems and an inability to think straight. Now think of similar situations when youโ€™ve had those feelings: job interviews, nerves around an attractive person, public speaking, etc. These are the same anxious feelings the fear causes. Simply put, how can a physical drug still hook people months after stopping? It must be mentally, correct?

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6.1 Stress

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Not only great tragedies in life, but also minor stresses drive users into the forbidden โ€˜unsafeโ€™ area previously excluded. Stresses include socialising, phone calls, anxieties of the housewife with young children, and many others. Letโ€™s take phone calls as an example, particularly for a businessperson. Most calls arenโ€™t from satisfied customers or your boss congratulating you, thereโ€™s some sort of aggravation. Coming home to mundane family life of kids screaming and their partnerโ€™s emotional demands causes the user โ€” if they arenโ€™t already doing so โ€” to fantasise the relief of ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ promised that night. They unconsciously suffer withdrawal pangs, destressors weakened and unprepared for additional aggravation. Partially relieving the pangs at the same time as normal stress, the total is reduced and the user gets a temporary boost. The boost isnโ€™t an illusion, the user does genuinely feel better than before, but theyโ€™re more tense than they would be as a non-user.

The following example isnโ€™t designed to shock you โ€” EasyPeasy promises no such treatment โ€” but is to emphasise that ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ destroys your nerves rather than relaxing them.

Try to imagine getting to the stage where youโ€™re unable to be aroused, even with a very sxy and attractive partner. For a moment, pause and try to visualise life where a very lovely and charming person has to compete and fail with the virtual ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ stars occupying your โ€˜haremโ€™ to get your attention. Imagine the frame of mind of a person who, when issued with that warning, continues using and dies without ever having real sex with this charming and willing partner. Itโ€™s easy to dismiss these people as weirdos, but stories like these arenโ€™t fakes โ€” this is what the awful novelty of the ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ drug does to your brain. The more you go through life, the more courage is sapped and the more youโ€™re deluded into believing ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is doing the opposite.

Have you ever been overtaken by panic when out of the blue the WiFi stops working or is too slow? Non-users donโ€™t suffer from it, as internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ causes that feeling. As you go through life, it systematically destroys your nerve and courage, leaving DeltaFosB to form powerful neural water slides in its wake, progressively destroying your ability to say no. By the stage where virility has been killed, the user believes ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ is their new partner and is unable to face life without it.

Internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ isnโ€™t relieving your nerves, itโ€™s slowly destroying them. One of the great gains of breaking the addiction is the return of your natural confidence and self-assurance.

Thereโ€™s no need to rate yourself on your ability to satisfy a partner โ€” this isnโ€™t freedom. But this freedom cannot be obtained by continuing to grease the dopamine water slide in ways that undercut your happiness and libido by repeating the same destructive behaviour.

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6.2 Boredom

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If youโ€™re like many people, as soon as you climb into bed youโ€™re already on your favorite ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ site, probably already forgetting until reminded. Itโ€™s become second nature. Similarly, ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ relieving boredom is another fallacy because boredom is a frame of mind, occurring when youโ€™ve been deprived for a long time or are trying to cut down.

The actual situation is this, when youโ€™re addicted to the supernormal pull of internet ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ and then try to abstain, it feels like thereโ€™s something missing. If you have something to occupy your mind that isnโ€™t stressful, you can go for long periods of time without being bothered by the absence of the drug. However, when youโ€™re bored thereโ€™s nothing to take your mind off it, so you feed the monster. When youโ€™re indulging yourself and not trying to stop or cut down, even firing up private browsing becomes subconscious. This ritual is automatic; if the user tries to remember sessions during the last week, theyโ€™re only able to remember a small proportion of them, like the very last one or the session after a long abstinence.

The truth being that ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ increases boredom indirectly because orgasms make you feel lethargic and instead of undertaking an energetic activity, users tend to prefer lounging around, bored and relieving their withdrawal pangs. Countering the brainwashing is important because users tend to view ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ when bored, our brains wired to interpret ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡ as interesting. Similarly, weโ€™ve also been brainwashed into believing sex โ€” even bad sex โ€” aids relaxation. Itโ€™s a fact that when sad or under stress, couples want to have sex. In the absence of discrimination between tantric and propagative sex, watch how quickly you want to get away from each other after the mandatory orgasm is achieved. If the couple had just decided to hug, speak or cuddle and go to sleep, theyโ€™d have felt relieved.

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