Chapter 2
The Easy Method
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This bookβs objective is directing you into a new frame of mind. In contrast to the usual method of stopping β whereby you start off with the feeling of climbing Mount Everest and spend the next few weeks craving and feeling deprived β you start right away with a feeling of elation, as if cured of a terrible disease. From then on, the further you go through life, the more you will look at this period of time and wonder how you ever used any ππππ in the first place. You will look at other ππππ users with pity, as opposed to envy.
Provided that youβre not someone who had never become addicted (reading for your significant other) or had quit (or is in the fasting days of a βππππ dietβ), itβs essential to keep using until you have finished the book completely. This may appear to be a contradiction, and this instruction to continue masturbating to ππππ causes more objection than any other, but as you read further your desire to use ππππ will gradually be reduced. Take this instruction seriously: Attempting to quit early will not benefit you.
Many donβt finish the book because they feel they have to give something up, some even deliberately only reading one line per day in order to postpone the evil event. Look at it this way, what have you got to lose? If you donβt stop at the end of the book, youβre no worse off than you are now. Itβs by definition a Pascalβs Wager, a bet taken where you have nothing to lose and high chances of large gains.
Incidentally, if you havenβt watched ππππ for a few days or weeks, but arenβt sure whether youβre a ππππ user, ex-user, or a non-user, then donβt use ππππ to masturbate whilst reading. In fact, youβre already a non-user, but we have to let your brain catch up with your body. By the end of the book, youβll be a happy non-user. EasyPeasy is the complete opposite of the normal method, where one lists the considerable disadvantages of ππππ and says:
βIf only I can go long enough without ππππ, eventually the desire will go and I can enjoy life again, free of slavery.β
This is the logical way to go about it, with thousands stopping every day using this method. However, itβs very difficult to succeed for the following reasons:
Stopping PMO isnβt the real problem. Every time you finish your session, youβve stopped using it. You may have powerful reasons on the first day of your once-in-four ππππ diet to say βI donβt want to use ππππ, or even masturbate any more.β All users do, and their reasons are more powerful than you can possibly imagine. The real problem is day two, ten, or ten-thousand where in a weak moment youβll have βjust one peekβ, want another, and suddenly youβre an addict again.
Awareness of the health risks generates more fear, making it more difficult to stop. Tell a user itβs destroying their virility and the first thing theyβll do is reach for something to surge their dopamine: a cigarette, alcohol, or even firing up the browser to search for ππππ.
All reasons for stopping actually make it harder. This is due to two reasons. First, weβre continually being forced to give up our βlittle friendβ or some prop, vice, or pleasure (whichever way the user perceives it). Second, they create a βblindβ. We do not masturbate for the reasons we should stop. The real question is, why do we want or need to do it?
With EasyPeasy, we (initially) forget the reasons weβd like to stop, face the ππππ problem and ask ourselves the following questions:
- What is ππππ doing for me?
- Am I actually enjoying it?
- Do I really need to go through life sabotaging my mind and body?
The beautiful truth is that all ππππ does absolutely nothing for you whatsoever. Let me make it quite clear, itβs not that the disadvantages of being a user outweigh the advantages, itβs that there are zero advantages to looking at pornography.
Most users find it necessary to rationalise why they use ππππ, but the reasons they come up with are all fallacies and illusions.
First, weβll remove these fallacies and illusions. In fact, youβll soon realise there is nothing to give up. Not only that, but there are marvellous, positive gains from being a non-PMOer, with well-being and happiness only two of these gains. Once illusions that life will never be quite as enjoyable without ππππ is removed β realising that not only is life just as enjoyable without it but infinitely more so β and once feelings of being deprived or missing out are eradicated, weβll go back to reconsider increased well-being and happiness β and the dozens of other reasons for quitting ππππ. These realisations will become positive additional aids to help you achieve what you really desire: enjoying your life free from the slavery of ππππ addiction!