The Love Dare Challenge: A 40 Day Journey to Transform Your Relationships and Marriage [ENTRIES OPEN]

@SonGoku22 Day 9 & 10 :white_check_mark:

Put someone else’s needs before mine and also decided to let go of something I’ve been holding onto.
It helped me feel more at ease.

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@Christ-is-king day 12 :white_check_mark:

I’m a married man who struggles with p. This day is convicting. Every time I fall I’m being unfaithful. Sometimes I feel like giving up. I need to fight for my wife

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@SonGoku22 Day 11 & 12 :white_check_mark:
Respect means treating others well, not just by what you say, but also by how you act and think about them.
To be faithful is to keep going, even when it’s hard, and stay committed to what you began. Small daily efforts add up over time.

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Day 13: Love is Service-Oriented

Reflection: Consider how you serve your partner, both in obvious and subtle ways.
Action Step: Serve your partner today by doing something for them that they would appreciate, such as taking care of a task they dislike.
Bible Verse:
“But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.” – Matthew 23:11 (KJV)

Day 14: Love is Gentle

Reflection: Reflect on how you speak to and treat your partner, especially during times of conflict or stress.
Action Step: Today, be gentle in your words and actions. Choose to speak softly and act with kindness, even in challenging moments.
Bible Verse:
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1 (KJV)

@SonGoku22 Day 13 :white_check_mark:
Reflection: Someone wasn’t having the best day, so I just let them vent and listened. Didn’t try to give advice just wanted them to feel heard.

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Day 15: Love is Unconditional

Reflection: Consider if your love for your partner is based on conditions, such as their behavior or actions.
Action Step: Today, love your partner unconditionally. Choose to love them regardless of their faults or mistakes.
Bible Verse:
“But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” – Romans 5:8 (KJV)

@SonGoku22 Day 14 :white_check_mark:

Reflection: My emotions have caused me to act poorly lately, but once I came to my senses, I made an effort to be gentle and I did.

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Day 16: Love is Honest

Reflection: Reflect on how honest you are with your partner. Are there things you’ve been withholding or avoiding?
Action Step: Be completely honest with your partner today. Share something truthful about your thoughts or feelings that you’ve kept to yourself.
Bible Verse:
“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.” – Ephesians 4:25 (KJV)

Day 17: Love is Responsible

Reflection: Think about how you take responsibility for your actions and words.
Action Step: Today, take responsibility for a mistake or miscommunication you’ve made and seek to make things right.
Bible Verse:
“So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.” – Romans 14:12 (KJV)

Day 16 & 17✅
Reflection: Being honest with yourself is the first step to real clarity.
I owned a mistake from a few days ago and am working to make it right, step by step.

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Day 18: Love is Understanding

Reflection: Consider whether you take the time to understand your partner’s feelings and perspective.
Action Step: Practice listening without interrupting and try to understand your partner’s point of view before responding.
Bible Verse:
“In all thy getting get understanding.” – Proverbs 4:7 (KJV)

Day 19: Love is Content

Reflection: Think about how often you are content with your relationship and how often you desire more.
Action Step: Practice contentment today. Be thankful for your partner and your relationship, and resist comparing it to others.
Bible Verse:
“But godliness with contentment is great gain.” – 1 Timothy 6:6 (KJV)

Day 20: Love is Devoted

Reflection: Reflect on your level of devotion to your partner. Are you fully committed to their well-being and happiness?
Action Step: Today, do something that demonstrates your devotion to your partner’s happiness and well-being.
Bible Verse:
“And they continued stedfastly in the apostles’ doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.” – Acts 2:42 (KJV)

Day 21: Love is Self-Controlled

Reflection: Think about areas where you may lack self-control, especially in your reactions or emotions.
Action Step: Practice self-control today by holding your tongue, making wise choices, and avoiding impulsive reactions.
Bible Verse:
“He that hath no rule over his own spirit is like a city that is broken down, and without walls.”– Proverbs 25:28 (KJV)

Day 22: Love is Empathetic

Reflection: Consider how much empathy you show for your partner’s struggles and challenges.
Action Step: Show empathy today by validating your partner’s emotions and offering support in their struggles.
Bible Verse:
“Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.” – Romans 12:15 (KJV)

Day 23: Love is Humble

Reflection: Reflect on your humility in the relationship. Do you see yourself as equal partners, or do you sometimes act superior?
Action Step: Today, choose to be humble. Look for ways to put your partner’s needs ahead of your own and avoid prideful behavior.
Bible Verse:
“Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.” – Philippians 2:3 (KJV)

Day 24: Love is Committed

Reflection: Reflect on your level of commitment to your partner. Are you fully invested in the relationship and their growth?
Action Step: Show your commitment today by taking an action that proves you are fully dedicated to the relationship.
Bible Verse:
“Commit thy works unto the Lord, and thy thoughts shall be established.” – Proverbs 16:3 (KJV)

Day 25: Love is Joyful

Reflection: Consider how often you allow joy and laughter into your relationship.
Action Step: Find ways to bring joy to your relationship today. Share a laugh, enjoy a fun moment together, or express your happiness.
Bible Verse:
“Rejoice in the Lord always: and again I say, Rejoice.” – Philippians 4:4 (KJV)

Day 26: Love is Peaceful

Reflection: Think about how peaceful your relationship is. Are there areas of constant tension or conflict?
Action Step: Today, seek to bring peace into your relationship. Resolve a conflict or practice staying calm and peaceful during stressful moments.
Bible Verse:
“And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:7 (KJV)