Chapter 26
Should I Avoid Temptation Situations
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The advice has been direct so far and has asked you to treat it as instruction rather than suggestion. There are sound, practical reasons for this advice and those reasons have been backed up by thousands of case studies. On the question of whether or not to try and avoid temptation, this isnโt the case. Each user will need to decide for themselves. However, two helpful suggestions can be made to assist you through this process. Itโs fear of future withdrawal pangs that keeps us using ๐๐๐๐ for the remainder of our lives and this fear consists of two distinct phases.
Phase One - โHow can I survive without ๐๐๐๐?โ
This fear is the panicky feeling the user gets when theyโre single or have an asexual, uninterested or unavailable partner. The fear isnโt caused by withdrawal pangs but is the psychological fear of dependency, of being unable to survive without sex and orgasm. It peaks when on the verge of quitting, when your withdrawal pangs are at their lowest. Itโs the fear of the unknown, the sort of fear that people have when theyโre learning to dive.
The diving board is one foot high but appears to be six feet high. The water is six feet deep but appears to be one foot deep. It takes courage to launch yourself, convinced youโre going to smash your head. The launching is the hardest part, if you find the courage to do it โ the rest is easy! This explains why many strong-willed users have never attempted to stop, or can survive for only a few days when they do. In fact, there are some users on ๐๐๐๐ diets who, upon deciding to stop, actually binge and escalate to harsher clips more quickly than if they hadnโt decided to stop. The decision causes panic, which is stressful and triggers a cue to take a trip to the harem. But now you canโt have one, leading to thoughts of deprivation, compounding stress.
The trigger activates quickly when the fuse blows and you fire up the browser. Donโt worry, the panic is just psychological. Itโs the fear that youโre dependent. The beautiful truth is that you arenโt, even when still addicted. Donโt panic and launch yourself.
Phase Two - Longer Term Fear
The second phase is long-term, involving fear that certain situations in the future wonโt be enjoyable or you wonโt be able to cope with trauma without ๐๐๐๐. Donโt worry, if you can launch yourself, youโll find the opposite to be the case. The avoidance of temptation itself falls into two categories.
- โIโll subscribe to a ๐๐๐๐ diet of once in four days. Iโll feel more confident knowing I can go online if it gets difficult. If I fail itโs okay, Iโll just add additional days to my next cycle.โThe failure rate with people doing this is far higher than those quitting altogether. This is mainly due to the fact that if youโre having a bad moment during the withdrawal period, itโs easy to hop on the browser and visit the harem with the above excuses. If you have the indignity of clearly breaking your own rules like a shattered glass window, youโre more likely to overcome the temptation. In any event, the pang would probably already have passed if youโd delayed it. However, the main reason for the high failure rate in these cases is that the user didnโt feel completely committed to stopping in the first place. Remember the two essentials to succeed are:
- Certainty.
- โIsnโt it marvellous that I donโt need ๐๐๐๐ anymore?โIn either case, why on earth do you need a session? If you still need to visit your harem, re-read the book first. Something hasnโt quite gelled. Take the time to kill the big brainwashing monster in your mind stone-dead.
- โShould I avoid stressful or social occasions during the withdrawal period?โIn the case of stressful situations, yes. Thereโs no sense putting undue pressure on yourself. In the case of social events, like bars or clubs, the advice is the reverse. Go out and enjoy yourself straight away! You donโt need sex or the propagative side of sex even while youโre addicted to ๐๐๐๐. Go out and rejoice in the fact that you donโt have to have sex or propagative sex, itโll quickly prove to you the beautiful truth that life is so much better without these pressures. Just think of how much better it will be when the little monster has left you, together with those needy thoughts.