1.1 Warning
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If youโre expecting this book to โscareโ you into quitting using the various health issues users risk, such as sexual dysfunction (including ๐๐๐๐-induced erectile dysfunction), unreliable arousal, loss of interest in real sex partners, brain hypofrontality, and the blinding accusation that itโs a filthy, disgusting habit and you are a stupid, spineless, weak-willed jellyfish, youโll be sorely disappointed. Those tactics never helped me to quit and if they were going to help you, youโd have quit already.
Conventional methods of quitting advocate using willpower, or โ๐๐๐๐-dietโ substitution methods such as โusing once every n daysโ and cutting down consumption. Some sites list peer-reviewed research about neurotransmitters and neuroplasticity, and while these sites are informative, many are aware of the health risks and choose to do nothing, though such material is typically avoided. Ultimately, they are equally ineffective as they donโt actually remove the reasons for using ๐๐๐๐. Ultimately, turning something into a forbidden fruit isnโt how you treat addiction.
This method, referred to as EasyPeasy, works differently. Some of the things about to be said might be difficult to believe, but by the time youโve finished this book, youโll not only believe them, youโll wonder how you could have ever been brainwashed into believing otherwise.
Thereโs a common misconception that we choose to watch ๐๐๐๐. ๐ฏ๐๐๐ addicts (yes, addicts) no more choose to watch ๐๐๐๐ than alcoholics choose to become alcoholics, than heroin addicts choose to become heroin addicts. Itโs true that we choose to boot up the laptop or smartphone, fire up the browser, and visit our favorite โonline haremโ. Occasionally I choose to go to the cinema, but I certainly didnโt choose to spend my whole life in the cinema theatre. Originally, curiosity and human nature took me there, but I wouldnโt have started had I known Iโd become addicted, causing the decline of my health, happiness, and relationships. โIf only Iโd heard about sexual dysfunction on my first visit to that ๐๐๐๐ site!โ
Take a moment to reflect, did you ever make the โpositiveโ decision that you must/need ๐๐๐๐ to masturbate? Or that you should/must/need ๐๐๐๐-induced fantasies to spice up sex with your partner? Or, that at certain times in your life, you couldnโt enjoy a good nightโs sleep or perhaps even pass an evening after a hard day at work without surfing for ๐๐๐๐? Or that you couldnโt concentrate or handle stress without it? At what stage did you decide that you needed ๐๐๐๐, that you needed it permanently in your life, feeling insecure, even panic-stricken without ๐๐๐๐, without your online harem?
Like every other ๐๐๐๐ user, you have been lured into the most sinister and subtle trap that man and nature have ever combined to devise. Thereโs not a person alive, whether a user themselves or not, that likes the thought of their children using ๐๐๐๐ to cope or for pleasure. This means that all addicts wish they had never started. Thatโs unsurprising: no one needs ๐๐๐๐ to enjoy life or cope with stress before they get hooked.
At the same time, all users wish to continue to use. After all, nobody forces us to launch our browserโs incognito mode. Whether they understand the reason or not, itโs only users that decide to knock on the doors of their online harems.
If there were a magic button the user could press to wake up the following morning as if theyโd never accessed their first tube site, the only addicts tomorrow would be young people still โexperimentingโ.
The only thing that prevents us from quitting is FEAR! Fear caused by the belief that weโll have to survive an indeterminate period of misery, deprivation, and unsatisfied craving in order to be free from ๐๐๐๐. These spawn from irrational beliefs, both learned and acquired, such as:
- Masturbation or sex leading to orgasm is the only and most important thing in life.
- ๐ฏ๐๐๐ is โsaferโ than real-life sex because ๐๐๐๐ canโt reject me.
- ๐ฏ๐๐๐ is educative and useful.
- Entitlement to a โsuperiorโ sex experience.
- More is always better.
These irrational beliefs spawn irrational consequences when acted upon, including:
- Worshipping and obsessing when a โperfect 10/10โ is found.
- Perceiving yourself as a loser if you miss out on sex, as if itโs the most important thing in the human experience.
- Holding out for a perfect 10.
- Being excessively judgmental and critical of prospective partners.
- Forcing yourself to have sex whether you want it or not.
Itโs fear that a night all by yourself will be miserable, spent fighting uncontrollable impulses. Fear that the night before exams will be a night from hell without ๐๐๐๐. Fear that weโll never be able to concentrate, handle stress, or be as confident without our little crutch and that our personality and character will change.
But most of all, fear that โonce an addict, always an addictโ: that weโll never be completely free, spending the rest of our lives craving the occasional ๐๐๐๐-induced orgasm at odd times. If, as I did, youโve already tried all the conventional ways to quit and have been through the misery and torture of the โwillpower methodโ, youโll not only be affected by that fear, youโll be convinced you can never quit.
If youโre apprehensive, panic-stricken, or feel that the time is not right for you to quit, let me assure you that your apprehension and panic isnโt relieved by ๐๐๐๐ โ itโs caused by it. You didnโt decide to fall into the ๐๐๐๐ trap, but like all traps, itโs designed to ensure that you remain trapped. Ask yourself, when you viewed those first ๐๐๐๐ pictures and videos, did you decide to come back to view them as long as you live? So when will you quit? Tomorrow? Next year? Stop kidding yourself! The trap is designed to hold you for life. Why else do you think all these other addicts donโt quit before it โkillsโ their lives?
Iโve referred to a magic button; EasyPeasy works just like that magic button. Let me make it quite clear, EasyPeasy isnโt magic, but for myself and others whoโve found it so easy and enjoyable to quit, it seems like it!
The warning is as follows: This is a chicken and egg situation: every addict wants to quit and every addict can find it easy and enjoyable to quit. Itโs only fear that prevents users from attempting to quit. The single greatest gain is to be rid of that fear, but you wonโt be free of that fear until you complete the book. On the contrary, your fear may increase as you continue reading, which might prevent you from finishing it. Take this comment from one woman.
โIโve just finished reading EasyPeasy. I know that itโs only been four days, but I feel so great, I know that Iโll never need to use ๐๐๐๐ again. I first started to read your book five months ago, got half way through and panicked. I knew that if I went on reading I would have to stop. Wasnโt I silly?โ
You didnโt decide to fall into the trap, but be clear in your mind: you wonโt escape from it unless you make the affirmative decision to do so. You may already be straining at the leash to quit, or you may be apprehensive about the very thought, but either way, please bear in mind: YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE!
If at the end of the book you decide that you wish to continue to use ๐๐๐๐ for masturbation or sex, thereโs nothing to prevent you from doing so. You donโt even have to cut down or stop using ๐๐๐๐ whilst reading the book, and remember, there is no shock treatment. On the contrary, I have only good news for you. Can you imagine how Andy Dufresne felt when he finally escaped from Shawshank Prison? Thatโs how I felt when I escaped from the ๐๐๐๐ trap, and thatโs how the ex-users whoโve used EasyPeasy feel. By the end of the book, thatโs how youโll feel! Go for it!