Chapter 30
Help Those on the Sinking Ship!
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Pπππ users are panicking nowadays, sensing changes in the way internet ππππ is perceived by men and women. Internet ππππβs addictive nature is being studied increasingly often, now rightly regarded as being different from traditional pornography. Effortlessness and availability raises alarm even in the hearts of ππππ supporters. They also sense that their crusade for free speech and thought is being hijacked by various elements. The wild west of the unpoliced internet makes it near-impossible to enforce age restrictions to supernormal stimuli. Itβs unfortunate that this wonβt come to an end anytime soon, but hundreds of thousands of users are stopping, with most addicts aware of studies showing similarities between ππππ and substance addiction. Each time a user leaves the sinking ship, the ones left on it feel ever more miserable.
Every user instinctively knows that itβs ridiculous to self-sabotage and spend time in front of two-dimensional pixels, super-surging their brain and in the process developing neural pathways that guarantee poor sexual performance. If you still donβt think itβs silly, try talking to a ππππ magazine standing at the centre of your city and ask yourself what the difference is. Just one. You canβt get the pleasure of warmth and intimacy that way. If you can stop buying alcohol and cigarettes every time you go grocery shopping, you can definitely stop visiting your online harem. Users canβt find rational reasons for watching ππππ, but they donβt feel quite so silly if other people do it too.
Users blatantly lie about their habit, not just to researchers and those around them, but to themselves. They have to β the brainwashing is essential if theyβre to retain some self-respect. They feel the need to justify their βhabitβ not only to themselves but to non-users. Theyβre forever advertising the illusory advantages of ππππ by subtler means.
If a user stops by using the willpower method they still feel deprived, tending to become a moaner. All this does is to confirm to other users how right they are to continue using. If the ex-user succeeds in kicking the habit, theyβre then grateful they no longer have to go through life self-sabotaging or wasting energy and have no need to justify themselves. Remember, itβs fear that keeps the userβs head in the sand, only questioning their behaviour when stopping. Help the user by removing those fears. Tell them how marvellous it is not having to go through life living in a prison, how lovely it is to wake up in the morning feeling fit and healthy instead of lacking in energy and self-loathing, how wonderful it is to be free of slavery, to be able to enjoy the whole of your life and to be rid of those black shadows. Or better still, get them to read this book.
Itβs essential not to belittle a married user by indicating that theyβre deliberately ruining their relationship or itβs in some way cheating or unclean. Thereβs a common misconception that the ex-user is worst in this aspect. This conception has some substance, but is generally due to the willpower method of stopping. Because the ex-user β although having kicked the habit β still retains part of the brainwashing and still believes theyβve made a sacrifice. They feel vulnerable and their natural defense mechanism is to attack the ππππ user.
This might boost the ex-userβs ego, but it does nothing to help the user. All it does is put their back up against the wall, making them feel even more wretched and consequently their need for ππππ even greater. Although the change in the medical establishmentβs attitude to internet ππππ is the main reason why many users are quitting, it doesnβt make it any easier to do so. In fact, it makes it a great deal harder. Most users nowadays believe theyβre stopping primarily for health reasons. This isnβt strictly true.
Although the enormous health risk is obviously the chief reason for quitting, users have been sabotaging their virility for years and it hasnβt made the slightest bit of difference. The main reason why users are stopping is because society is beginning to see ππππ unmasked for what it is: drug addiction. Societiesβ attitudes are slowly changing: many partners would now ask questions if youβre on your laptop in the middle of the night.
Complete bans on ππππ in some countries or the unavailability of internet are classic examples of the travelling userβs dilemma. Generally they take the attitude that it will help them cut down on their intake. The result being that instead of one or two a day, neither of which they would have enjoyed, they abstain for an entire week. During this enforced period of abstinence however, not only will they be mentally deprived waiting for their reward, their body is craving too. Oh, how precious that online harem visit is when theyβre eventually allowed.
Enforced abstinences donβt actually cut down the intake because the user just indulges themselves even more when finally allowed to be alone. All it does is to engrain in the userβs mind how precious internet ππππ is and how dependent they are upon it. The most insidious aspect of this enforced abstinence is its effect on adolescents. We allow the hijackers of βfreedom of expressionβ, the ππππ producers, to target unfortunate teenagers to get them hooked in the first place. Then, at what is probably the most stressful period in their lives, when, in their deluded minds, they need ππππ most of all, we blackmail them into giving up because of the harm theyβre causing to themselves.
Many are unable to do so and are forced, through no fault of their own, to suffer a guilt complex for the rest of their lives. Many succeed and are pleased to do so, thinking, βFine. Iβll do this for now and after itβs over Iβll be cured anyway." Then comes the pain and fear of finding work and other adult struggles, followed by the biggest βhighβ of their lives β finding a job. The pain and fear are over, now feeling secure, the old trigger mechanism comes back into operation. Part of the brainwashing still being there and before the smell of the new work laptop is gone, the user is at the threshold of their favorite online harem. The elation of the occasion blocks the foul feelings from their mind, they have no intention of becoming hooked again, but just one peek couldnβt hurtβ¦ Too late! Theyβre already hooked again.
The old craving from the little monster will begin again and even if they donβt become hooked again straight away, post-high depression will probably catch them out. Itβs strange that although heroin addicts are criminals in law, societyβs response is helping these individuals. Letβs adopt the same attitude to the poor ππππ user. Theyβre not doing it because they want to, but because they think they have to. Unlike the heroin addict, they usually suffer years upon years of mental and physical torture. We always say a quick death is better than a slow one, so donβt envy the poor ππππ user. They deserve your pity.