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Frustration with Relapse: Users who find it easy to quit but later relapse can be frustrating to witness, but itβs crucial to avoid repeating the same mistake.
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Avoiding Relapse:
- Recognize that stopping ππππ is easy, but controlling addiction is impossible.
- Never underestimate the addictive power of ππππ, even if youβve quit before without much difficulty.
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Common Barriers to Quitting:
- Fear of failure: Not trying is the only guaranteed failure.
- Fear of pain and misery: Understand that the panic is caused by dopamine and will soon pass.
- Not following instructions: Ignoring instructions or misunderstanding them can hinder progress.
- Misunderstanding the βeasyβ in EasyPeasy: Quitting is like leaving a freezing room for a warm spring day outside.
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Overcoming Challenges:
- Challenge negative thoughts with positive affirmations like βYIPPEE! IβM FREE!β
- Avoid waiting for withdrawal symptoms to subside or for a βmoment of revelation.β
- Donβt give in to cravings or feelings of deprivation; embrace the freedom of being a non-user.
- Engage in social activities and enjoy life without ππππ, remembering that ππππ deprives you of genuine experiences.
- If feeling irritable or miserable, reassess your mindset and focus on the positive aspects of quitting.
5 Checklist Summary:
- Make a solemn vow to never visit pornographic websites again.
- Understand that there is no genuine pleasure or benefit in ππππ use; itβs an illusion.
- Realize that being a ππππ user is not a permanent identity; you can escape the trap.
- Recognize that the decision to quit ππππ is always the correct one; donβt doubt yourself.
- Embrace the mindset of being a non-ππππ user and celebrate your freedom whenever thoughts of ππππ arise.
- Avoid using substitutes or engaging in behaviors that may trigger ππππ use.
- Donβt wait for a βmoment of revelationβ; focus on living your life fully and the moment will come naturally.
By adhering to these instructions, you can successfully overcome ππππ addiction and enjoy a fulfilling life free from its grip.