Strong_one's diary [23M]

It’s training time.:sweat_smile::joy:

Nice.

Yes bro . (God’s grace)

Ok sure.

3 Likes

Hello guys,
So I am back here for another improvement in life that is good socialising.
Since COVID(or even before) I have stopped being much active socially. Mostly stuck studying or using mobile. So I need to change that. I will be replacing using mobile to reading books when bored or alone.
And very less games or shorts or reels.
Let’s see how it goes.

4 Likes

Yo welcome back brother

2 Likes

Yo @Binocular . Whats up bro??
How r you?

2 Likes

Fine thanks :+1:

2 Likes

How’s your nofap going. I am sure you must have reached a new control level… (I don’t care about streak). And how’s life going

3 Likes

I mean current streak is a different thing. But no. of relapses in last month or shit is something which is important.

3 Likes

Yes it is important but after years of nofap . I reached a limit where I don’t cross a certain number of relapses in a month. So that’s why :blush:

2 Likes

Not really good with streak but with control, it’s a lot better. For someone who spends all day alone studying and doesn’t fap all day long, that’s a lot of control in it :sweat_smile:

1 Like

And what is that limit?
Also I want to learn an art, to not fall in chaser.
Since Aug 2023, I will either have a 50+ days streak or be in chaser effect for 2-3 weeks.

2 Likes

Exercise and shower right after the 1st relapse.

3 Likes

I guess 4-5 relapses.
This is not an art bro. Actually it happens automatically. I fought so hard the battle of nofap that ignoring urges became a part of me. Although returning here will remind me to fight urges but no worries.

Oh . Don’t worry bro . I am sure you will cross this limit. It took me 3 years to reach 100 after I relapsed on 98 day. It was frustrating but I did it.

2 Likes

Tbh, my recent mantra is just think about sexual Stuff as something very normal and eliminate the speciality around it. It really helps me to eliminate those thoughts because now I have removed the speciality around it.

A very similar story here. My highest was 94 days way back in 2021. I broke the 3 digit barrier in feb this year. Broke that streak in march this year (132 day streak).

2 Likes

Hello guys,
I am back. Although I am here for mobile related thing. I know we cannot leave mobile completely due to everything dependent on it. But I want to the usage to be under my control. So I will try to reduce usage. Although it is easy for me now because I am lot busy .
Earlier I used to play games even when I know I have urgent work. But slowly I want to change .

6 Likes

Hello how are you ?

Hope ur going well

2 Likes

if you come back dm me bro. its been long since i talked with yoy

1 Like

I think I will start writing here again rather than new one.

2 Likes

So what will I do ?
I am doing a decent job now. And I am happy about it. But now I live in personal quarter. Although I have friends with whom I daily do something. But even then I get free time. In short I am still addicted. In my core I am still not free from the mindset. Or to say same ways.
I should do something better.
So my tasks:-

  1. Study 1 lecture of course I bought.
  2. Meditation daily.
    If I do these I will get enough will power to not fall into the trap
    I will try to read easy peasy also.
    With the help of God
    Let’s do it again
4 Likes

This can be good start. Go on

2 Likes

Day 1 completed
Sitting alone in room after full day of work , enjoyment . It was raining here. So weather was chill.
Getting little urges to watch something but my will now is strong. Will meditate before sleeping . May be study too.
Good night

3 Likes