No worries brother, this journey is a like a stair case, its just step by step upwards even though we take step backs we still stamd up and continue to climb up.
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DAY 60!
I SEEK REFUGE IN GOD FOR THE REJECTED SATAN
IN THE NAME OF GOD, THE MOST BENEFICENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL
“Indeed, God will not change the condition of people until they change what is in themselves.”
“O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of God. Indeed, God forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."
And return [in repentance] to your Lord and submit to Him before the punishment comes upon you; then you will not be helped.
ON TAQWA
In His Name, be He glorified.
My Dear and Loyal Brothers!
I have been thinking recently of the principles of “Taqwa” and “good deeds”, which, after Eemaan, are taken most often as fundamentals in the view of Quran.
“Taqwa” is to avoid sins and what is forbidden, while to perform “good deed” is to act within the sphere of what is commanded and in the way of gaining God’s pleasure.
Although repelling evil and attracting benefit always take precedence, in these times of destruction, extravagance, and enticing sensuality, the repelling of evil-doing and giving up of grave sins, which constitute “Taqwa”, have become essential and have gained priority.
Since destruction and negative currents have reached horrific proportions at this time, “Taqwa” forms the strongest foundation in the face of them.
One who performs the obligatory religius duties doest not commit grave sins will be saved.
“Good deeds” performed with sincerity among grave sins such as those are successful to only a very small degree.
Also, under these difficult conditions, an insignificant “good deed” becomes like much.
Furthermore, within “Taqwa” is a sort of “good deed”.
For it is compulsory to give up what is unlawful.
Performing a compulsory act gains a reward equal to many acts are “sunna”.
In times such as these, through a small act and giving up hundreds of sins, avoiding a single unlawful act in the face of the attacks of thousands of sins is equal to performing hundreds of compulsory acts.
With the intension and aim of avoiding sins in the name of “taqwa”, this important point constitutes a significant “good deed” proceeding from ‘negative’ worship.
The most important duty of Human at this time must be to take “taqwa” as the basis of their conduct.
Since in the present-day form of social life every minute a person is-confronted with hundreds of sins, for sure, through “taqwa” and the intension of avoiding them, it is as though hundreds of good works have been performed.
It is well known that twenty men can not construct in twenty days a palace which one man destroys in one day.
And while it is necessary for twenty men to work in the face of one man’s destruction, in the face of thousands of destructive agents at the present time, the very great resistense and effectiveness of a repairer like the “Islam” is truly extraordinary.
If these two reciprocal forces were at the same level, the success and triumph in the repairs the “Islam” would achieve would be miraculous.
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Day 61!
I SEEK REFUGE IN GOD FOR THE REJECTED SATAN
IN THE NAME OF GOD, THE MOST BENEFICENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL
His is the dominion
That is to say, ownership is altogether His.
As for you, you are both His property, you are owned by Him, and you work in His property.
This phrase announces the following joyful and healing news:
"O mankind! Do not suppose that you own yourself, for you have no control over any of the things that concern you; such a load would be heavy.
Also, you are unable to protect yourself, to avoid disasters, or to do those things that you must.
In which case, do not suffer pain and torment without reason, the ownership is another’s.
The Owner is both All-Powerful and All-Merciful; rely on His power and do not cast aspersions on His mercy!
Put grief behind you, be joyful! Discard your troubles and find serenity!"
It also says: "The universe, which you love, to which you are connected and which grieves you by its confusedness and which you are unable to put right, is the property of an All-Powerful and Merciful One.
So hand over the property to its Owner, leave it to Him.
Attract His pleasure, not His harshness.
He is both All-Wise and All-Merciful.
He has free disposal over His property and administers it as He wishes.
Whenever you take fright, say like a wise person who believes:
“Let’s see what the Master does; whatever He does, it is best, see it well, and do not interfere!"
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Day 62!
I SEEK REFUGE IN GOD FOR THE REJECTED SATAN
IN THE NAME OF GOD, THE MOST BENEFICENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL
The Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) said, “O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse, masturbation, LGBT, etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.”
The Prophet only tells two ways:
1. Married; or
2. Fasting
If there really is another way …
Surely he will tell ! because …
The Prophet said according to what God taught !
Not based on his desires !
In conclusion there are only two ways …
There is NO THIRD !
I see most young people now difficult to get married because of many factors …
Then the only way is FASTING !
You can try various kinds of fasting …
Starting from the simplest …
to the most difficult (fasting Prophet/King Daud/David peace be upon him )
Choose what suits you !
Don’t you say …
I fasted but still do PMO !
But say …
Already fasting still do PMO, what if not fasting ?!
O friends, all takes time …
Be patient in fasting …
Everything will be fine in time !
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65 Days!
I SEEK REFUGE IN GOD FOR THE REJECTED SATAN
IN THE NAME OF GOD, THE MOST BENEFICENT, THE MOST MERCIFUL
“Indeed, God will not change the condition of people until they change what is in themselves.”
Has finished reading the book of:
Being Hungry Makes You Healthy
One meal a day and ...
you'll look 20 years younger!
by Yoshinori Nagumo, M.D.
When you can apply what is taught in this book [with God’s permission], then …
You can be free (99,99%) from PMO [with God’s permission]
Peace be upon all of you
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“You can never fight the world, if you are in a fight with yourself, you need to win that fight first”…
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i am back on this app. I had uninstall it for so long. Now again needed a help. It’s a war of lifetime. Untill you reach your grave, you will have to fight both the shatan and your own nafs. We will fight and we will fight hard like a Mujahid and we will win inn Sha Allah. May Allah help and protect us.
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Fasting helps alot. Let’s fast in the month of shaban in the honor of Ramzan and to weaken our nafs.
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“Indeed, God will not change the condition of people until they change what is in themselves.”
“O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of God. Indeed, God forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."
And return [in repentance] to your Lord and submit to Him before the punishment comes upon you; then you will not be helped.
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Sometimes you need to burn the bridges to stop yourself from crossing them. Sometimes you should burn the boats like Tariq Bin Zeyyad, to focus on the front and kill the possibility of moving back.
Give your Smartphone to someone else when you not require it. specially in the night. put your sim in an old nokia photo to receive important phone calls. You can get it back if required for using internet for some time.
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“Raindrops are small but with incessant pouring they become big rivers. So can be said of consistent efforts to reach our goal”…
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Asslamualikum Brothers
Ramzan is a golden opportunity. shatan is chained and nafs is mostly weak. u only feel the urge in the late night and in the morning. control these.Avoid edging. Avoid everything that leads to masturbation. Avoid Movies and Photos of girls. Don’t think about it. Thoughts lead to action. Lower and protect your gaze while out of home. Recite Quran alot. Recite it as much as you can . Quran is the best way to purify yourself. Reduce the use of smartphone to the minimum and do alot of zikr of Allah in the time you will avail. Believe that It is the best opportunity to get rid of this menace. Not just for this month but for complete life. Ask Allah for sabr in this regard after offering 2 rakats of prayer. May Allah be with us all.
Believe that if you will walk towards Allah, He will run towards you. He gives guidance to those who desire guidance. Allah Hu Akbar.
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Focus on the rewards that you are getting in this life and hereafter by avoiding this sin.
It makes you powerful, motivated, confident, happy, talkative, comfortable, easily amused, energetic, ambitious,etc and gives you will power with the time.
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Ramzan Mubarik brothers
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Avoid eating lots of dates after aftaar. It may boost your testosterone levels and increase the urges afterwards.
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Aoa Brothers
Stay steadfast. After sometime your mind will retune itself to think about positive things. Ask help from Allah and stay away from smartphone and other temptations.
Affirmations (#Copied)
- I am the architect of my life I build it’s
foundation and choose it’s contents. - I am full of energy and overflowing with joy.
- I am superior to Negative thoughts.
- I have unique and special talents that i utilize
daily. - I forgive those who have harmed me in the
past,and peacefully detach from them. - I posses the qualities to become successful.
- I get up every time I fall I never lose I either win or I
learn. - I replace bad habits with new and positive ones.
- I am in full control of my life and accept all
responsibilities. - I overcome any obstacles that gets in the way of
my dream. - I am constantly evolving towards the person i
dream to be. - I know life can end at any moment so i make
every moment count. - I allow myself to be happy and inspire others to
be happy as well. - I feel every cell in my body vibrating with energy
and health. - I surround myself with people who help me to
reach my full potential. - I am always becoming smarter and wiser than
who i was yesterday.
1. There is no one better to be than myself.
2. I am enough.
3. I get better every single day.
4. I am an amazing person.
5. All of my problems have solutions.
6. Today I am a leader.
7. I forgive myself for my mistakes.
8. My challenges help me grow.
9. I am perfect just the way I am.
10. My mistakes help me learn and grow.
11. Today is going to be a great day.
12. I have courage and confidence.
13. I can control my own happiness.
14. I have people who love and respect me.
15. I stand up for what I believe in.
16. I believe in my goals and dreams.
17. It’s okay not to know everything.
18. Today I choose to think positive.
19. I can get through anything.
20. I can do anything I put my mind to.
21. I give myself permission to make choices.
22. I can do better next time.
23. I have everything I need right now.
24. I am capable of so much.
25. Everything will be okay.
26. I believe in myself.
27. I am proud of myself.
28. I deserve to be happy.
29. I am free to make my own choices.
30. I deserve to be loved.
31. I can make a difference.
32. Today I choose to be confident.
33. I am in charge of my life.
34. I have the power to make my dreams true.
35. I believe in myself and my abilities.
36. Good things are going to come to me.
37. I matter.
38. My confidence grows when I step outside of my comfort zone.
39. My positive thoughts create positive feelings.
40. Today I will walk through my fears.
41. I am open and ready to learn.
42. Every day is a fresh start.
43. If I fall, I will get back up again.
44. I am whole.
45. I only compare myself to myself.
46. I can do anything.
47. It is enough to do my best.
48. I can be anything I want to be.
49. I accept who I am.
50. Today is going to be an awesome day.
51. It’s okay to make mistakes.
52. I am making the right choices.
53. I surround myself with positive people.
54. I am a product of my decisions.
55. I am strong and determined.
56. Today is going to be my day.
57. I have inner beauty.
58. I have inner strength.
59. No matter how hard it is, I can do it.
60. I can live in the moment.
61. I start with a positive mindset.
62. Anything is possible.
63. I radiate positive energy.
64. Wonderful things are going to happen to me.
65. I can take deep breaths.
66. With every breath, I feel stronger.
67. I am an original.
68. I deserve all good things.
69. My success is just around the corner.
71. I am thankful for today.
72. I strive to do my best every day.
73. I’m going to push through.
74. I’ve got this.
75. I can take it one step at a time.
76. I’m working at my own pace.
77. I’m going to take a chance.
78. Today I am going to shine.
79. I am going to get through this.
80. I’m choosing to have an amazing day.
81. I am in control of my emotions.
82. My possibilities are endless.
83. I am calm and relaxed.
84. I am working on myself.
85. I’m prepared to succeed.
86. I am beautiful inside and out.
87. Everything is fine.
88. My voice matters.
89. I accept myself for who I am.
90. I am building my future.
91. I choose to think positively.
92. My happiness is up to me.
93. I’m starting a new chapter today.
94. I trust in my decisions.
95. I can change the world.
96. I am smart.
97. I choose my own attitude.
98. I am important.
99. I am becoming the best version of myself.
100. Today I will spread positivity.
101. The more I let it go, the better I will feel.
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