Intro about me:
Name: Michael
Age: 23
Country: New Zealand
Status: Single Virgin
Long story short:
As a young teen was a porn addicted but now I’m a fap addicted but I don’t watch porn anymore.
What’s this about?
One word = Dating
See I have been going thru massive sexual urges and now I’m taking that as a sign to find a girl and know more about her.
The thing is my past with porn has left me clouded and worried that my confidence is at a low.
I know what I’m searching for in a lady
- Godly woman
- Kind loving girl
- honest to the point that she tells me my wrongs
- effective communication instead of always guessing her needs etc
- to support me in life and to fight sexual desires with the Lord - unless married sex but I am getting too far ahead of myself
And with that list to hopefully to give those qualities to her but mainly come together with God.
I ain’t expecting perfection with the list l have created just to build up on these qualities.
Anyways my concerns is getting the girl.
I am going 100% on faith for God to tell me the one but l too need to play my part being the shy talk less type of guy l am.
Questions I face can be
- Where do I begin to find someone
- when is it appropriate to ask her on a date
- should I use physical attraction to find her first and then get to know her
Also any advice on Christian dating be great. Any words of wisdom please.
My main concern which I need to focus on is not let sexual desires and urges blind me in all of this.
Please pray for me in guidance and support.
I might be dumb worrying about all this stuff but l never been in a relationship and I don’t know where to begin. Anything will help but for now l pray and read Bible and trust God even tho it’s hard not to worry on such things