Sex and sperm, the truth

Reading the posts here makes me conclude that all of u are in ur teens :grin::grin:.
PS. Its a joke.

What if my girlfriend is sucking my penis or jacking it off, should I consider it as a relapse or just a break from Nofap because I am not watching porn and getting the orgasm, it’s an actual human being who’s doing it.
So should I consider it as a relapse?

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Ok, explain me monks, I intuitivly know that it matters a lot, there may be no scientific proove for that but there is also no proove that it does not weaken you. All of those kundalini rising force descriptions makes me wonder about it. Among jews there is a tradition of circumcision, and guess who is rulling the world… In my opinion, sex is priorly made for us to reproduce, secondly for enchancing the bond beetween people :stuck_out_tongue:

I think everyone should try nosex vs nofap by itself and then make opinions on the subject

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Thats not a relapsed broh, get masturbated from other people is not a relapse

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If you are abstaining from PMO, yes it can be counted as relapse.
But if you do NoFap easy mode, it is not considered a relapse.

But it is much better since you relapse from an actual girl’s sensational action.

Thanks @Aladdin and @Ddann for the verification.
My girl won’t be mad at me. :slight_smile:

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From my personal experience of 2 years of sex and 11 years of masturbation.

Sex and Masturbation has same objective:
Orgasm.

Every time you are doing Orgasm whether via sex or masturbation, you are only losing your Life Force. In simple words , making yourself weak.

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Sex has many benefits, yeah maybe that’s what they told us to keep us weak, haven’t you thought about about that?

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:joy: conspiracy theories. i’m intrigued!

i don’t care anymore. i just really hope that people new to this forum 1) aren’t scared off by this extreme point of views 2) think that they have to believe this

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We just need to use proper terms, NoFap is something different than NoSex or MonkMode, which is the most extreme way of doing this shit and effects may be far beyond expectations

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You seem to be more into indian philosophies. Don’t get me wrong I am an Indian too but I am an atheist. But I nitpick the parts of religion which I find scientifically correct and would help me in self improvement.
For eg- Meditation and joining hands and placing the tip of my fingers between the eyebrows while meditating.

But religion has a ton of illogical scientifically disproved stuff and that’s why I don’t follow. And having sex releases sex hormones such as oxytocin and vesopressin which makes us happy.
Masturbating daily and weakening my dick is bad.
But occasional sex should not be bad.
Yeah if you’re having sex daily, 3-4 times a day, then that’s a problem !
The coolidge effect will come into play and you’ll lose interest in your girl.
I use the scarcity principle with my girlfriend, I make myself and her crave for sex till the point we can’t control ourselves.
And we have the best sex.

I am not trying to trigger anyone, I am just sharing what I’ve learnt.

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If releasing sperm is bad for you. we wouldn’t have wet dreams.

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having sex is a basic need for a human being. just like eating. drinking. breathing.

sex and orgasm is bad for you when you practise it in a way that harms you.

anything can be bad for you if taken or done too much.

there is good in this world. the world and what is in it is not all pain and suffering. take the good in the world and leave the bad.

but consuming every good in the world will have some sort of negetive side effect. like being fatigue. or spending money. or pooping after eating. etc

but for those who belive in a Hereafter. the herafter is where good things is consumed with out any negetive side effects.

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Wet dream is something different, it does not influence you when you wake up, your streak is still valid and you can feel that. Again, there is no proof that holding semen in your body DOES NOT have wide, certain impact on your life, also there may be no proof that it has, but many ancient belief systems point on that thing so… I base on my own experience and I know that when I abstain totally from any sexual activity my brain makes a lot of changes - it looks for a new ways to feel relaxed, happy, looks for new kind of excitement, cries for anything to get some pleasure, feel better - orgasm is a cure for everything (but lasts way too short), and I encourage everyone to see what happens if that cure is taken away for some time,

For me NoSex is far more beneficial than NoFap and I feel my brains transorming faster and don’t need much proof from science in the same way i know many other things about my body, it just speaks to me itself ( I am more science guy than spirit, but when sciencie does not know, intuition and personal experience must act)

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OH CRAP!!! MY UNCONTROLLABLE LIBIDO MADE ME RELAPSED!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO? THIS IS ALREADY MARCH AND MY WORK IS ALREADY OVERWHELMING!!!
OH CRAP!!! HOW CAN I REBOOT AND SURVIVE IF I CAN’T EVEN CONTROL MYSELF??? What should I doooooo???

What should I dooooo? I relapsed again. I wasted my precious energy. What should I DOOOOO???

live with the knowledge that your life is shorter now :smile:

stand up, remove the dust from your cloths and try again

If you cant control yourself, then learn how to

Do you have some tips of activities that would prevent relapse?