Remember this and show your beast mode …
Do or die situation 
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Ok brother… I trust you… please keep your promise…
Bdw… I don’t completely agree with this method of motivation for NoFap but I do not want to give some advice to you…
All I want to see your streak of 21 days now… no matter how you reach there… just do it… so I am going to watch this daily… all the best brother… 
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21 days!! Strict NO PMO 21 days!!
Get back on track.
WE ALL ARE WITH YOU.
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Ya brother Saim we all are always with you if you need any help form us tag anyone among us. We will try our best to help you.
Actually brothers he relapsed because he is very stressed and these days are very tough for him. He is messed with his life these days and so he has lost his reasons and he is confused. My every elder and mature brother has shared their thoughts. Hope these valuable advices help you.
Remember Saim ** Tough time do not last it tough people do. **
May the almighty God grant you the enormous strength to fight these circumstances and also show you the right path. I will pray that you come out of these tough times like a warrior. Stay strong brother 
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I am wondering … what surprise would be in your photo 
From my experience…
One free advice… dont make promises…
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Thanks everyone for supporting. I’m always so glad to be a part of this amazing community.
I know it’s not always good to make promises but I couldn’t find any other options. I’m tired of relapsing again and again but I didn’t find any reason or drive to do Nofap. I thought about this before doing, and I already have promised you all. Now the only thing matters is to keep my promise, complete 21 days.
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Hell yeah that’s the spirit brother.
Keep going forward in life and don’t look back cause you’re not going that way.
Just feel the energy and focus on goals
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You won’t get that surprise bro. Keep watching. 
I couldn’t find any other options. Completing my promise is only matters now, I’ll hear your experience after 21 days.
It’s sooooo funny. I’m still laughing. 
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See
Fear and hope are the two biggest drives to do anything. They both are necessary and sufficient.
Fear of bad future and hope for a better future
So posting your photo is fear of embarrassment or fear of personal insecurity( you think so, I mean , you could have chosen better fear, well , my fear is Death. I belief in 1 life. And life is so short)
So what’s your hope?
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He is right. I relapsed 3 times at 28 June. Didn’t sleep the whole night. Woke up late in the morning and saw my grandmother was having breathing problem and she died within few hours. Next day I got the report of covid19 test and everyone in my is affected by corona. No one could come to our house to support us for lockdown.
I’m not excusing. I’ve the responsibility of my life in my hand, I could be more strong. But I was feeling nothing from inside. ( I’m fine now)
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My hope is, I’ll have a bright and fresh life which i never experienced fully bcz i’m addicted to it from a very early age. Before realising what is life, I realised what is p*, what is filthy.
I tried this before. But when the strong urge comes I forgot it or it didn’t work. I used to say to myself that death is far. So, i need some recent fear, which will happen just I relapse. So, I’ve choosen it.
( And I said 21 days, not forever)
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I’m sorry for your loss.
So the fact that you are relapsing is a decreasing your immunity… So the best thing that you can do is to avoid further relapses.
The death rate is only 3%. The percentage is very less for your age group. @Saim. So the chances are practically high that you will survive. And there is a hope that your family will be saved.
Hope for the best. Prepare for the worst…
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You need to imagine like bright means how bright. Fresh means how fresh. What is your metric for measurement
. Man ,you are Covid positive and you are saying death is far. This is how terrible death is.
I fear death cause it is Uncertain. And death is final and ultimate. Beyond, death there is nothing. All you got is a very limited time .
Same for me. That’s why I think about it daily. To realise how limited time I have to do something valuable in life.
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Yes brother do or die.
Thanks brother. It will give a great accountibility. You are one of the most influencial and respected companion, I won’t break your trust.
Yes brother I’m have started my marathon on my track. Thanks.
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I added you man @Saim. I keep my trust in you. As @anon98741803, don’t fear about covid-19. Iam sure you’ll survive. Especially for people at your age death rate is very very low.
In my opinion giving promises is good bro. More than the promises to this community, you should keep the promise that you gave to yourself. That is the only way to become and an honourable man.
The promise you give to yourself is the most important.
I’ve always promised to this community.
Still Iam promising to myself and here.
I’ll choose death instead of going back to porn! If my friends try to make we watch that filth again I’ll give a hard kick on his stomach. I’ll do it. I don’t care about the fear I may feel!
I’ll always remember what my brother @strongwillpower has told: they are not paying for our food. They are not paying our bills. We don’t have to do anything for others!
Porn is posion bro.
We’ll do this together.
Iam with you.
I promise you. I promise myself. And I value your promise to me. Iam damn sure you’ll keep it man!!!
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@Saim I believe you.
You are facing great difficulties.
Butbit is not good times that make great men.
It is bad times that make the best men.
Imagine getting kicked out of your basketball team…Michael Jordan
Imagine being unable to speak even at age 4 and labelled dumb…Einstein
Imagine having a growth defect where you are extra short cooompared to others…Messi
Imagine when you feel life is going bad…@saim
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Thanks a lot @Tagore and @debellator for your support. I’m a very glad to have companions like you guys. I won’t break your trust.
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3 July, 2020
Day: 0
- Wake up (4.30)
- Morning prayer
- Meditation
- Visualisation
- Affirmation
- Exercise
- Notes( Remembering my whys and plans to control urge)
- Read Self Improvement Books
- Study (2 hours)
- Learn programming (1 hour)
- Learn Quran
- Write journal
- Planning for next day
- Meditation before sleep
- Sleep (10 pm)
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Well Brother - Hello
I Saw this initiative of yours And Do Think It Is Wonderful In Itself.
However Brother - Even tho i dont want to discourage you - I would advise you against this challenge And See Some Other Challenge- And For Some Particular Reasons Too…
First Of All Considering the fact That You Have gone through a lot in the last 2 months - You are indeed A Great Fighter Just by the fact that you have decided not to Relapse… Great respect…
However-Please Do Think Brother, Having Your Photo On This Site Maybe Not A Problem for Now - But Could Definitely Be A Great Privacy Concern Later - People Would Just be Judging You On A Negative side and not see the positive side of It. Considering the fact that development of internet itself if happening - it could be a matter of great Stress Possibly in the near future.
You Can Definitely Come Back And Perform This Challenge When Things Are Going Good.
But Right Now I Would Advice You To Just Try To Get through This Situation With A Positive Mind - It Is Definitely necessary to have a Cool Mind In These Tough Situations - I Cant Even Imagine To Just Be Going Through The Same.
We All Want You To Do Your Best - However This Picture Challenge Is Directly Connected To your Ego Brother- Ego Might Give You The initial Push -I Do Accept, However When You Experience Failure In Any Hypothetical situation - This Ego in Itself Is Bound to Shatter.
Then The Reasons For Starting the Streak itself Might Just Seem Nothing.
If You Do Want To Know The Reason For Not Starting with ego Brother -This is why
My Previous Highest Streak Was Connected with ego too… Only Some People Who Were In This Forum Might Actually Know This.
I Had Put Up The Post That I Would Not Show My Face In This Group Till My Counter Shows 100 Days…
I Had Spent Every Freaking Second Getting Mentally Stronger Than Ever Before - I Learnt New Things Effortlessly - Had A Memory People Might Dream About… I Literally Had Diverted My Entire Attention From PMO Itself To My Academics - Suffered What I Thought Was Worst Situations - My Interaction With Friends Increased - Confidence Skyrocketed - Didnt Feel The Usual Awkward Feelings I Would Get Before Speaking To Strangers- Nothing Seemed Hard
I Literally Had Revised My Entire Language Paper Syllabus In About 15-16 Hours - My Papers Went Absolutely Great…
But Then It Hit - And My God It Came Like A Speeding Bullet
-The Crash Of My Ego-
- The Girl I Had A Crush On Told Me That She had Feelings for someone else, I Had Liked For The Last 5-6 years But Didnt Say Much Just to not ruin our friendship.
- My Life Was Subjected With This Unnecessary Pressure To Succeed By People In My Society itself, I Had A Great History Of Academics - Which However Had Clearly Dropped When I Got Into This Habit - But Only By A Little- So There You Go , The Nerd Who Tops Every Class - Even He Has the fear that this situation might change someday.
- My Reason For A Long Streak - My Crush , My Ego, My Love For Academics Just Meant Nothing- It Just Came Trembling Down Like Walls Of Resistance -Which I Had Built With So Much Freaking Personal Care.
And It Happened - The Relapse On Day 147 - One Of The Biggest Dips Ever Possible In My Life In Terms Of Energy itself.
A Whole New World Of Doors Simply Were Shut.
The Relapse Bound By Chaser Effect eventually led to few more
My Academic performance Suffered Drastic Changes That Time- A Dip Of About 50-60 Points In 20 Days Itself. Motivation Earlier Used To Be Easier - Which Now Dissapeared, Focus Concentration Were Just Not There.
I Then Got A Goal - A Goal Not Many People Achieve But A Goal I Wanted To .
A Medico - From An Ivy League College
A Goal I Consider Is Possible And Which I Shall Achieve
My Body Itself Accepted The Fact That A Drastic dip would take place and It Was Simply not Worth It.
I Am Still Recovering Slowly But Surely - Hope To Get That Good Memory And Performance Around The 30-40 Day Mark. Just Getting Better And Better…
I Just Want You To Consider This Before Putting Up A Challenge Of Posting Your Picture Now Itself- Just Make Sure That You Wont Get Into Any Potential Trouble Brother.
Good Luck , Stay Safe ,Stay Strong - Wish You A Great Life Ahead…
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