Relapsed at day 75 💔

Everything was going good man high energy, attraction,and all. A thought came regarding social media . I was not using it from 2-3 months ( because of my streak).
I installed and started using them.A post came of a half naked lady. Another came and she was showing her cleavage.i know it is my fault I agree and I take complete responsibility and accountability of it.But I didn’t even touched my “D”. After watching that content just after 3-4mintues I ejaculated automatically.Now please tell me what kind of disease is this?Am I impotent now? Is this the end of my life? Is my sex life completely destroyed? Pls tell me if anyone can . I m already under stress because it destroyed my streak of 75 days​:broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart: I was very close to break my previous record of 123 days maaan​:broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart:

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As far as I can read your post saying that all the benefits showed up means you are sexually potent. And images of women half-naked, can’t make you ejaculate.
Brother I think you should open up to us and share the truth that you had actually lost to the urges and masterbated.
If you really didn’t masterbate then you should seek a doctor regarding this. Also do keagels exercises it helps to avoid such involuntary ejaculations.

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I think this is a kind of premature ejaculation…
It happens when you sleep on your belly posture… And when you are highly sexualized but you don’t feel like beating… you end up ejaculating prematurely or automatically…
Do some kegel exercises,
Do not sleep on your belly posture (It is a disaster for men)

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Bro I swear I didn’t even touched my “D” but those erotic pics were more than enough. They were enough to make a person mad. They were positioned in that way.

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What is its cure?can u tell me pls

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It might be precum @GOGETA , it happens during sexual stumulation, It never happened with me but I have heard about it from some people here. You are not impotent man, don’t worry, it’s fairly normal I think. Now you learned your lesson, insta is a curse, you didn’t mention insta but I reckon it was insta as similar thing happened with me in the past, jump back on a new streak, you have the right strategy, keep going.
God forbid but next time if you face such kind of situation, look away immediately, take deep breaths and move on, it won’t happen.

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Damn if it was precum then why I resetted my streak bro​:joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy::joy:

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Hmmnhmmmnnnmmmnn how did I not think of this

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So was it a precum or not I mean precum has happened with me and it is natural process to make your dick lubricated before sex so it’s nothing wrong with that but if it was full cum then I have no idea

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I appreciate you
You can defend 75 days
Not like me. I fail and I just 37 days.
still can’t get past that day

Please help me,what did you do during those 75 days?

@GOGETA i think your condition is similar to pre mature ejaculation , that happened some time when a person (who suffer with it ) having only sexual forplay with girl and ejaculate without having sex or less than 1 minute having s*x , it is basically happened because of over stress and not having sex or masturbate for long time . So if you have long streak avoid such irotic content , mediation can help in it otherwise u should consult a doctor ,it’s not a big problem it’s curable with exercises , meditation and avoiding stress.

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What is its cure buddy? Does masturbating help me in curing this? Or

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What kind of exercises bro?

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Pelvic floor exercises and kegels exercises are best for it. Squats and lunges also help in preventing such ejaculations.

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Bruh I have relapsed but still I m having those benefits :v:t5:

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Bro you retained for 75 days and you released once so there was some saving of sperm.after 75 days retention, 1 day ejaculation may not totally ruin you but it will surely drain you a bit. You are having those benefits because of the sperm which you saved in 75 days. Never relapse again by these tricks -
Don’t stress yourself
Stay away from perfectionism
Don’t think about small edging
Transmute your energy in several tasks
Don’t be sedentary and go out of your house
Get rid of the beauty fallacy and stop perceiving women’s parts or gestures as arousing or sexual.
Live the best of your journey and don’t focus on an aim this means live your day 1,2,3 etc. And not look upto day 90 or 1000
Realise that you are not getting any joy by draining your semen so stop believing that by doing it you are getting some pleasure.
At last stop fantasising, fappers fantasise and live in a world of their dreams which are in thier dreams only whereas winners, retainers make this world a world of their dreams and then live in it.

Hope you win bro you can surely recover soon and make a streak of 100
Keep up !!!

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Thanku bai bhot bhot dhanwaad veere

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There is no study about masturbating as a cure of it so I can’t say about it , masturbation give you more stress so avoid it. @Jaskeerat mentioned you some exercises they can help you . One more thing is meditation ( inhaling - outhaling - long breath ) studies shows that meditation can slow all imbalanced activities even blood pressure ,heart beat rate etc. Try it daily 15 minute or more . when you go for real sex ,during that time also long and slow breath can help you .

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@GOGETA I think you should not consider it a Relapse because this is not a normal thing.

You did not masturbate or touched your D.

You did not see porn.

But
You could say you slipped and watched suggestive sexual content and you unfortunately orgasmed without your will just like in a nightfall.

If you had a nightfall you would not consider it a Relapse.
Watching porn and looking at suggestive sexual Content is totally different, there is still a mental barrier that stops you from searching porn.
If you had just saw some suggestive content and not orgasmed, you could have said you were about to fall but did not.

If you don’t consider this a Relapse you could say you were on a hardcore monk mode NOPMO, then you shifted to easy mode and then back to hardmode.

What I am saying is that it is better to forgive yourself this time as it will be easier for you mentally to do noPMO if you think you are on day 75 than if you thought you relapsed and had to start from day 0.

For medical advice, I dont know. Many people have this spontaneous orgasm to sexual content and they are fine. This may be a problem if you orgasmed during foreplay and then maybe you should visit a doctor.
Right now, just chill. Congrats you did not masturbated or watched porn. Just avoid this mistake. Delete social media again. Get back on track. The track starts from day 75.

If a single room of your house gets destroyed, it doesn’t mean you have to destroy the whole house. Similarly, this is not a typical total Relapse. So just chill. Sure you stepped backwards but you didn’t went to day 0. So start again from day 75 and best of luck.

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Thanks a lot buddy but let me tell you truth after this incident my mind was like confused or you can say in hallucination like I have relapsed or not.i was feeling so low and the demon of urges came to me and my mind was like let’s do this completely. So I watched porn ( real) and relapsed.I blame myself completely buddy but really let me tell you a truth that if you said this earlier to me when this happened I must not have watched porn and relapsed again.But buddy you know what my energy is drained because of relapsing twice a day but some benefits are still there.
I deactivated my Instagram account and Facebook account.
Today I have done a hardcore exercise of pushups,planks etc.
It helped me to feel better and rest about that problem I can only say that it is becaus maybe of my slight overweight or low esteem.
Don’t worry bro this time I m gonna reach 100 cuz I have captured my low point

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