Relapsed 12 times in 3 days, feeling like a **** -became the 60 days challenge-

Ah well. Lets go for today, i just relapsed :disappointed_relieved:

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Sure, looks good to me.

@Mousetrap Please don’t. If you are not serious and commit please let us know. That’s okay.

Sorry to say, if you are not serious please say. Otherwise it will impact others.

Well it is pretty hard for me to stop pmoing. And I try. Since we started our challenge I only did it 2 times in three days. It is very good for me.

I am serious, but dont paternise me please.

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Look, I know you are on edge because it is hard to stop pmo and you are on nerve, but we are all on the same side here.

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@Mousetrap @Adioz_aka_Adidas just to confirm when can we start checkin? It would be nice to know where exactly we stands today? My current streak is 3*

@Mousetrap if you are okay we can start from today?

Just tell me and im good. More than 60 days, I can try it.

Yeah from today perfect for me.

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@Mousetrap Great, then as per previous plan let’s stick ,
First we try to achieve 3days → 7days → 15days → 30days–> 45days → 60days.
@Adioz_aka_Adidas brother sorry regarding the timings I could not get it actually. I tried to save but not sure i can save it somewhere. I am in IST zone. What about yours?

I randomly checkin whenever I find time :smile:

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Yeah show me how to start the counter and save stepwise. @Adioz_aka_Adidas

Not sure something like this,

@Mousetrap please add me, sharing code: 0ow5v1
What is your sharing code bud?

My code : 11eily

I already had added you, it strange that it didnt send you a notification :thinking:

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That’s okay. Thanks :smiling_face::+1:
Checkin day 1
https://www.tickcounter.com/countup/214831/wall-e-counter

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I dont know about you guys, but when I am not excited I think about what I am used to watch when I am watching porn and I find it grotesque.

It is crazy what the brain can make us perceive, sometimes.

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Yeah, well it is what cognitive behavioral therapy approach tend to say, and also bhuddism learning. I cant say they are totally wrong.
Rewriring our tought help a lot.

But I think it is also important to find the deep causes of the dependency. Low-self esteem? Unresolved issues?
And also, like you said, the chemical variable. Instant gratification(pleasure) is what make crack addicts so addicted to crack.
Same with pmo. Easy, extremely addictive.
Powerful drug. But this one is free.

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First check point. Long way to go brothers. :metal: Keep going :hugs:

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I am sorry :pensive: let me ping you :slightly_smiling_face: it seems like, I am also unable to dm. Okay, please let me know here if possible

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Okay…thanks brother :slightly_smiling_face:

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Sure, please let me know what I can help you with @Adioz_aka_Adidas

Okay, first thing first you have to go away from the electronic devices. I know it’s hard and not at all easy even most people give up because they can’t really fight and can’t find out a way out of it. As I remember you said, you are staying in IST, so assuming it’s 1am. Go and get some rest brother. Best way to give rest your mind and body. We will figure out tomorrow what to do. Calm your mind and sleep tight.
Remember why we started this journey here? I hope you already remember. And please remember one thing,no fap journey is just a part of life. Don’t be so focused something big you gona achieve. Let it go. You know what happens after watching these right? If you are really ready then get a life and selecting a life partner for life and have real stuff. These are imaginary things and temporary gives pleasure. You decide what is good for you? Actually real battle starts when you find the better way to do the things by take a wise decision. For many days, I thought of loosing myself in this life and journey. But now I am enjoying the journey you know( not by only updating streak / avoiding anyone but actually trying to stay humble and calming myself) there is always a time when you will understand that enough is enough. Initial days it will be hard but it’s necessary now or never. Importantly,you no longer has to fight it or to show to someone. You are journey is already beautiful and you are going to make a better one if not.


#reposting

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