@Bilal_M @samichamp95
I added you. Welcome aboard.
Iāve heard it many times but this line just hit me now. Especially the getting out of your comfort zone part.
Itās not the danger, itās the safety of the comfort zone that kills.
@Bilal_M @samichamp95
I added you. Welcome aboard.
Iāve heard it many times but this line just hit me now. Especially the getting out of your comfort zone part.
Itās not the danger, itās the safety of the comfort zone that kills.
When an elephant is captured, itās feet are tied with metal chains to an anchor. The elephant tries its best to break them but fails. Then the metal chain is changed with a shorter one to limit the elephantās movement. Soon, the will of the beast is broken.
When the elephant stops resisting and gives up, the mental chain is replaced with a weak rope. But the elephant does not try to break free. In the mind of the elephant, the rope is stronger. Elephant is mentally a prisoner.
Similarly, we nofappers think the urges are stronger and we are mentally prisoners. But the dependence on porn and masturbation is not physical, itās psychological.
Lets change our mindset. Letās break free from the mental shackles that limit our potential. Letās move out of our comfort zone a little everyday. This fight is all mental. Letās develop an unbreakable mindset and take back the control of our life.
Willpower is like a muscle. You have to develop it everyday. Itās not going to be strong initially but if you keep exercising, gradually it will start getting stronger and stronger. So the goal is, we have to just not relapse today and we have to make our today better than yesterday.
Start leveling up guys. Start focusing on self control little by little everyday. Start improving focus in SALAT. Start reading or listening QURAN. Start EXERCISING. Start feeding your mind POSITIVITY!!! So when Ramadan arrives, we are ready.
All my Muslim brothers who havenāt joined, pls Join this challenge to make your Ramadan awesome.
Name: Rownok
Sharing code: bulizq
Age: 25
CS: 1 day
HS: 6 days
Tip: Not an expert, but keeping myself busy seems to work
Iām fed up with the life Iāve created for myself. Iām on a path of self destruction. Wasting away my potential. Right now, Iām at the worst shape of my life mentally and physically. Chaser effect, laziness, no selfbelief, binge watching series and movies, binge eating fast and junk food, I am destroying myself. I have porn and masturbation addiction. I have movies and series addiction. I have food addiction. I am an animal right now. And I hate myself.
We say sexual urges are animalistic desires. But have u ever found an animal who is a sex or masturbation addict? No. They do stuff according to their normal nature.It is we humans that go against our nature.
This social media and free entertainment has made us humans weak and worthless. Most importantly, all this hypersexuality and presentation of female as sex objects not only degrades women but has also made men slaves of their own desires.
If you have been following me then u know how I am in this chaser effect and how I post every other day that this time Iām quitting for sure. Iām not ashamed of posting again and again. But Iām ashamed in my own eyes for not being able to get out of this chaser effect.
So Iāve decided yet again.
This is it. Iām going to correct my ways. Iām going sober. I wonāt PMO. And I wonāt waste my time on movies, animes and series either. I obviously need fun in life but entertainment from screen is not the only way. So yes, Iām quitting screen entertainment too.
I will start running too to lose my weight from tomorrow. Tomorrow after Fajr Salat in masjid I will go running then I will read Quran and meditate. This is my first task. If I donāt post tomorrow that Iāve done these task then Iāll be ashamed of myself. Iām going to make myself into the most toughest man. I will survive through flatlines and withdrawals. And I will try to exercise everyday to strengthen my mentality. Pain will be my constant companion and discipline and persistence will be my targets.
In Sha Allah
I will post everyday with tasks fulfilled. Iām going to change. Letās change together. Who is with me?
Assalamualaikum,
Starting again,
Please add me.
Code: rarne1
Name : gokura
Age : 30 yr
CS : 1st day
HS : 150+
Wake up at 4:40 am
Namaz Fajr in masjid
Exercise/Running
Listen Quran
Meditation
No Screen Entertainment
No Social Media
No Junk and Fast food
Study
Sleep before 11am
Name : Naaz
Sharing code : @wh4jw6
Current streak : 38
Highest streak : 55
My tip is to always focus on the feeling of relapsing rather than the fake short pleasure of it.
Count me in king.
Wake up at 4:40 am
Namaz Fajr in masjid
Exercise/Running
Listen Quran
Meditation
No Screen Entertainment
No Social Media
No Junk and Fast food
Study
Sleep before 11am
Kindly count me
I am exciting to engage this challenge
Sharing code : lmbhdu
Current : 50 days
This period of time i have no tips for my journey
about zekr ( not commitment but I want to be )and Night prayer (taraweeh) I tried in Shaban month maybe (3 days , sleeping 8 am and wake 2 am to pray it but I am not commitment too) this is my first time that I start with Shaban ā¦
About reading the meaning of Quran ātafsirā(this is was new for me too )
I want to be commitment and to schedule all of this ā¦
Thanks
stefansalvatore (Canāt share real name, just username)
25
Current streak 1 day. Highest Streak 180 days.
Best advise: Never skip Prayer
Ramadan is Fasting. Itās the biggest weapon against sexual desires. No food and no water, focusing on spirituality and self controlā¦ So @Pablo, It is the best and most effective way to do nofap so IT IS ABOUT NOFAP. Thatās why I made this challenge for my Muslim fellows and thatās why they care and they are joining for nofap.
Bless you.
Thatās what I saidā¦ We here for nofap too. And Ramadan i.e fasting is best way for nofap.
@Pablo
Also, Ramadan is not paganism.
Pagan is derived from the Late Latin paganus, which was used at the end of the Roman Empire to name those who practiced a religion other than Christianity, Judaism, or Islam. Early Christians often used the term to refer to non-Christians who worshiped multiple deities.
Islam practices monotheism and paganism practices polytheism. They are opposite. Ramadan is part of Islam and is far from paganism.