I know, we all share our thoughts about pmo and fapping. How bad it is. How much we were attacked by the dragon. And how we have to keep fighting those bad urges. How we have to be strong, enduring the temptations in life. I agree. It’s hard and we have found the right way to change our lives.
But… I also want to be able to be positive about myself. I don’t want to hate myself for the past. I don’t want to beat myself up that i haven’t stopped to pmo years ago. I am 55 now. I wish i knew 25 years ago that pmo is a waste of time, waste of sexual energy, waste of looking for relief and comfort. I wasn’t aware of the way out. I didn’t feel free to talk about it. There were no smart phones at that time. No forum. It was the secrecy of every (?) man. I am lucky to find out now, that it’s possible to change my life.
I wish you all feel the positive effect of the choices you make by quitting pmo. Never give up remembering the compliments you receive. We deserve to be kind to ourselves. We need to believe in our good intentions. Don’t beat yourself up too much.