Obsessed With Circumventing Porn Blockers

Hi. I’m 33 and married and have never been able to last longer than a week or so without fapping since I started at 16. As I’ve gotten older my obsession with fapping has declined a bit, and I am almost as obsessed with restricting my access to porn as I am to watching it…which almost always ends in fapping. Problem is, every time I add another website, keyword or category to my block lists—and feel great when I do—the next night I become super determined to find some website that isn’t blocked by OpenDNS/router parental controls/browser porn blocker…and I often succeed (after wasting so much time digging for it). I’m thinking this is more of an OCD problem than it is a porn addiction, since my satisfaction largely comes from beating my own preventative system. If I do not have any internet access available on my phone or computer, I noticed I have much better control of my fapping urges (FYI I’m an observant Jew and hardly ever fap on holidays when using electronics is prohibited). Any advice as to how to overcome this silly activity so my faps will be much less frequent? Thanks!

:smile: I guess I have a similar problem. In my case I wanted to test if I can go around my intricate blockers. Like a challenge. After I found a way around I spent hours to find a even better way to block everything

I always had the feeling of a door with the sign “staff only”. The urge to do everything to get behind :sweat_smile:

I realized that I just can’t have a porn blocker on my phone. The more I restrict myself, the more cravings I have.
I now have K9 on my laptop and a phone without any restrictions, which makes it much easier for me not to relapse

Haha, same here! I’ve used OpenDNS and other apps all related to my eros habit :smile:

As it’s obvious to me you want to move on,
Get rid of them and commit to move on,
And start fresh from there!

Don’t cross tangle things.

Keep stuff simple, make a decision and commit to it

We fap for many reasons and if you are committed to stop this act you need to know why are you fapping,and also what is the most factor that is driving you to fap(ex:model pics on instagram). Then your battle starts by eliminating those two factors and then your a free and happy man