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Consecrator · January 27, 2020, 11:42am

By the way, I too relapsed today on day 33.

SelfMadeNinja · January 27, 2020, 11:44am

Thanks for the kind words brother, @Consecrator self respect for me is something like what I start feeling whenever I’m off PMO, Off Smoking … I’m a little more aware of my surroundings and then It flashes on my mind like I’m suddenly super smart that “ohh damn…! That day she humiliated me in front of her roommate” I couldn’t fathom…
I talk very very politely to girls. And these girls like guys who are like jerks sort of always saying " tu, teri aukaat . . Tera baap…" like this… I spent around 2,80,000 Bucks on my ex last year… got me nothing now… because splitting up didn’t matter… I was okay with that … real issue was that she kept on saying that we’re still great friends and sh*tt. Asked me for a Series 4 watch, I bought it 3 days ago… today only… I somehow was able to read her WhatsApp messages as phone was unlocked on the cafe table and she went to wash hands… I saw how she’s already been in a relationship from last year September or so… I was dumbstruck… as We were not separate till November.
My god…! A kick in the gut would feel better than this bro…
Almost 4,00,000 bucks and 1.5 years of hard work later, I’m wiser than before… and finally away from that toxic person

@HappySoul @ERNOL

Consecrator · January 27, 2020, 11:49am

No disrespect to females but honestly, they have got nothing more than pussy to offer in relationship. They always have a back up boyfriend, that’s why you see girls easily move on after breakups. Spending money on these gold digging bitches ain’t worth it. They do nothing for us in return other than sex. Also, an unpopular fact is, sex is something which both a man and a woman offer to each other, NOT what woman offers to a man.

Consecrator · January 27, 2020, 11:58am

@SelfMadeNinja this is mgtow in a nutshell, my first post on Instagram.

SelfMadeNinja · January 27, 2020, 12:13pm

@Consecrator, bro I’m feeling what you’re saying but see , they are just so good at their game, that I still cannot hate her and it’s really winds me up how she’s made me a lethargic and dependent man. I was on my way to give UPSC but due to my excessive efforts on her, I failed in study + work thing and just simply passed the time at office and gave entire evening shopping for her, taking her to dinner, going to h & m , veroModa, malls, and pubs so that she gets a good time. (Never new about so many brands of clothes, shoes, alcohol until I met her) In return I got some s*x but that also stopped later and I was limited to basic package, hugs and kisses… which got really rare too… .
Whenever I tried to do things my way, or went to play football with friends, she’ll call me non stop and ask me to be there for her for some crappy reason… later it would be nothing… she didn’t allow me to make any new friends and old friends who were trustworthy are in US and other cities at this moment. So,I was stuck.

every argument, she’ll win somehow and I’ll end up being the culprit she’d make it look as if I’m trying to force her to even hug me despite her desire
I don’t know how she did that but it’s some SUPERIOR MANIPULATION SKILLS that all intelligence Community should learn from…

*Meaning of the girl’s line in pic- “you’ve started irritating me” sinG/cosG = tanG ( means irritating)

ERNOL · January 27, 2020, 12:47pm

I think we all need to calm down a bit.

btw MGTOW can create some toxic men too. I have seen all sorts of things at this point. I am not making sweeping generalization obviously.

I will agree it can be hard to find the right woman since these days many women(& men as well) don’t give damn about being a decent person let alone have morality. But so what? I’m not gonna give up! I want to find the right person.

Sad thing is this is where many of us make mistake:

“Do not give your heart to someone who doesn’t deserve it.”

The Golden rule.

SelfMadeNinja · January 27, 2020, 1:45pm

It’s better to invest my time in meaningful relationships with friends as well as girls but I’m going to be damn well careful not to get into those emotional traps. I’ve been lied to, cheated upon… manipulated by girls… for long. Only one or two girls were genuinely good to be with me

I said that in earlier post,

I talk very very politely to girls.

I said that too.
Now coming to @Consecrator’s comment, he also said
no disrespect to females ,
I agree with @ERNOL
We’re here to get help and help others, PMO, addictions, issues with girls, are all somewhere intertwined in our funny little brains. We shouldn’t be angry and bitter like those feminists are. I also think that every woman/girl we meet deserves to be fairly assessed before we call her names.
Further, no PMO, and meditation and little bit of smartness from our side will go a long way in keeping us away from wrong kind of girls.
No offense to any female in general because our mothers, sisters, daughters are all in that same gender. We wouldn’t want to make allegations. @Consecrator , it seems, you have also faced similar problems as mine. But brother, we’ll not lash out. Better to be Sherlock from Scandal in Bohemia rather than that sad guy who was writing songs for Irene…
It’s tough out there… but we’re tougher. If all the
problems come at me, I’ll take all of them.

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ERNOL · January 27, 2020, 4:58pm

That’s the point. You’ve got it, brother.

HappySoul · January 28, 2020, 7:14am

@SelfMadeNinja please do not share posts by female celebrities. Or at least, hide the names.

SelfMadeNinja · January 28, 2020, 9:13am

@HappySoul
Hahaha… Didn’t know it was a celebrity or something. Just found something useful on the net and shared it. I don’t think anyone of us would publicize it outside this forum. Also, it was a public tweet, so… all people know about it already.
Anyways, still thanks for letting me know, I’ll keep it in mind.