It’s been 40 days since I started no fap. My girlfriend birthday coming up. She want me to have sex with her on that day. wat I should do? shall i relapse let me know… UP for Relapse… DOWN for continue.
for me, having healthy sex (without any porn thoughts) is absolutely no relapse
Yeah , absolutely I agree with @neveragaintw, the main aim of no fap was to stop porn and masturbation, getting a real life is the motive, and boy you are successful in it. Go ahead,
It’s all your belief. I believe that sec before marriage is not okay. However if she is okay and you can feel okay with having sex, by all means go for it
Having sex is not considered as relapse; just don’t over do it.
Do everything by, with and from Love!
@yuvraj.naidu555 if you have never had sex with her don’t do it. It will change your relationship with her.
If you think it will become a problem because once might not be enough it would be best to pass on it.
Build a relationship with her without sex. Plus if you are on this nofap journey you won’t miss anything if you pass on . Stay strong!
I think having healthy sex is fine and does not count as a relapse… Go enjoy yourself dude… sex is also one of the initial drive for a man. However doing it more or overly pleasuring yourself is were the problem is or can be