This is Green Lantern’s Jounal.
I usually post about my day in the 90-day hero challenge. I may do some posting here, actually in writing this, such could be an opportunity to work on condensing my text to digest more easily ie. TLDR.
For now, the main use of this journal will be my spiritual wife’s (married just not legally) and I’s argument free challenge.
I took inspiration from both the 90 day hero challenge & mini challenge. For ranks, I used runescape trees lol…(Glad I quit that 13 year addiction. Doesn’t mean I don’t make references still though)
JUST SAY ROWLET
(rowlet is our safe word for I need to go to other room and relax)
𝗧𝗼𝗽 𝟯 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝘆 Love Bug ( one of many nicknames for my spiritual wife) 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝟭 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 (𝗶𝗻 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿):
- (Will fill when I find she doesn’t feel overwhelmed with life
𝗧𝗼𝗽 𝟯 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝘆 May Bug (me)𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝟭 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 (𝗶𝗻 𝗻𝗼 𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿):
Love Bug will lower her drawbridge (more commitment) inch by inch allowing me to worry less about her leaving.
Realize that Love Bug loves me very dearly & wants to be together forever. This is done through unclouded thoughts and more awareness of the present moment and interaction.
We will be stronger together as a team allowing us to have more fun & enjoyment playing pogo together, going to concerts, vacations, alone time, every day life.
Strengthen my love for love bug due to less anxiety & higher confidence in her, us and I.
Be able to achieve my health & business goals with ease, due to having a calmer mind.
𝗥𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆 𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗶𝗲𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝟯 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀, 𝗮 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗶𝗺𝘂𝗺 𝗼𝗳 𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗮 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸.
𝗗𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗶𝗿 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗸𝘀:
A. 𝗔𝗰𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗱𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗲 𝗶𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗹𝘆 𝗯𝘆 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 Love Bug: "Rowlet” (Rowlet is our safe word for when I need a little space as I’m getting agitated & need to calm down)
B. 𝗔𝗰𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗶𝘀𝘀𝘂𝗲. “It’s okay. It’s normal. Everyone has potential, but, it is our actions which count. I don’t need to feel ashamed or guilty for what led up until this point.”
C. 𝗔𝗰𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗱𝗴𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗱𝗼𝗺 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲. “I am free to choose whether a heightened situation goes sour. My choice is for this situation only in this very moment. I don’t have to worry about next time because I have a choice again then too.”
D. 𝗖𝗵𝗼𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘃𝗶𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗽𝗶𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗶𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲: “I choose my vision where Love Bug & I enjoy day to day life together, get enough down time, go to events together, and slowly grow old together.
𝗗𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝗯𝘆 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝘀𝘂𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗼𝗯𝗯𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗱𝘂𝗰𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆, 𝗲𝘁𝗰.
Choose positive activities you will engage in whenever you’re feeling negative emotions like stress, anxiety, distress, discomfort, sadness, anger, boredom etc. Possible activities include: listening to good music, working on Fiverr to-do’s, ASO, appsgeyser, website, sitting outside on porch or balcony (dress appropriately), taking some deep breaths, smiling, laughing, reading a good book, watching your favourite movie, series or a documentary, going for a walk, meditation, getting some healthy space, journaling your thoughts etc. No matter what emotions you feel as a result of life’s struggles, arguing is not the answer. Arguing is not an option.
𝗟𝗲𝘁’𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗮𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 | 𝟵𝟬+ 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱𝗻’𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗼𝗼 𝗯𝗮𝗱 𝗲𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿
🤷 = No
𝗗𝗮𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗣𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁 𝗦𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺
𝗧𝗼𝗴𝗲𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 (1 week max = +675 each):
𝗡𝗼 𝗔𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗱(𝘄): 25 coins (+500) each
𝗔𝗿𝗴𝘂𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁: Each -25% coins
Love Bug (𝟭 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗺𝗮𝘅 = 71+ 𝗰𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘀):
𝗚𝗲𝘁 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗳 𝗯𝗲𝗱: 3 coins
𝗕𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳: 5 coins
Get groceries 15 coins (+5 bonus for >1 p/w)
May Bug (𝟭 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸 𝗺𝗮𝘅 = 𝟵𝟰 𝗰𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘀):
𝗘𝗮𝘁 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵: 5 coins
𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘆 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗺/𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶: 3 coins
𝗚𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗝𝗲𝗻 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘀𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲: 4 coins
𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝗦𝗮𝘁 𝗼𝗿 𝗦𝘂𝗻: 10 coins
𝗦𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗥𝗮𝗻𝗸 + 𝗕𝗼𝗻𝘂𝘀𝗲𝘀:
x3 coin bonus
(R11)𝗠𝗮𝗴𝗶𝗰: 𝟴𝟭 - 𝟵𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x2.15 coin bonus
(R10)𝗬𝗲𝘄: 𝟳𝟭 - 𝟴𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x2.05 coin bonus
(R9)𝗠𝗮𝗵𝗼𝗴𝗮𝗻𝘆: 𝟲𝟭 - 𝟳𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.95 coin bonus
(R8)Eucalyptus: 51 - 60 days
x1.85 coin bonus
(R7)𝗔𝗿𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗣𝗶𝗻𝗲: 𝟰𝟭 - 𝟱𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.75 coin bonus
(R6)𝗔𝗰𝗮𝗱𝗶𝗮: 𝟯𝟭 - 𝟰𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.65 coin bonus
(R5)𝗠𝗮𝗽𝗹𝗲: 𝟮𝟭 - 𝟯𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.55 coin bonus
(R4)𝗧𝗲𝗮𝗸: 𝟭𝟭 - 𝟮𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.45 coin bonus
(R3)𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄: 𝟴-𝟭𝟬 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.35 coin bonus
(R2)𝗢𝗮𝗸: 𝟲-𝟳 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.25 coin bonus
(R1)𝗦𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴: 𝟯-𝟱 𝗱𝗮𝘆𝘀
x1.15 coin bonus
(R0)𝗦𝗲𝗲𝗱: 𝟬 - 𝟮 𝗱𝗮𝘆(𝘀)
x1.00 coin bonus