Low sex drive and libido

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Hello guys, I have been on no pmo for about 38 days .I had streaks of 44,16,15,26,29… days before but now a days my libido is very low.I get a small urge(soft boner) in the evening after returning from college but rest of the day I don’t get a boner
And I have no motivation to talk to girls at all and yes I am a virgin

BTW I am 17yo and on hard mode

Can anyone help me with this

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@Thedevil Do you include regular exercise in your daily routine? This helps regulate chemicals in the body and brain. (it might help with your evening :night_with_stars: problem.)

Make an effort to talk to girls about anything. Even strangers. You need those healthy interactions. You are too young to be isolating yourself from girls.

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Yea I do workout half a hour for 3 to 4 days a week

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Same problem here man and the worst part is I have a girlfriend who suddenly can’t seem to figure out why I’m ‘just not in the mood’ anymore.

I thought I’d tell her after I’d achieved my goal of 90 days of no PM.

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Tell your girlfriend right away, man. Honesty is the best policy in any relationship, and I’m sure she’ll understand and be nothing but supportive one you do

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You’re in college at 17? Wow! It’s pretty bizarre for a teenage boy to have erection issues.Research how to maximize testosterone levels in many different ways.College students are typically stressed,have poor nutrition and are sleep deprived.All these lower testosterone.

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Imagine what will be the effects on the minds of the teenagers when VR ■■■■ and such truly becomes mainstream. Their entire dopamine reward-system will be destroyed at such a young age.

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Yes,porn is a big issue.it should be banned in the world

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I thought about that sooo often. It will be horrible.
I imagined the horrible idea of the invention of the combination of VR with sex doll.
I really hope we as a society can solve this problem before it gets out of hand

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I don’t banning it will work, did it ever work for piracy? More people should be made aware of this issue, like cigarettes.

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Hmm I guess you’re right. Guess I was just scared that she’d think I was some sick fuck but it doesn’t matter! I’m gonna tell her

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Yeah, I was worried about that when I told my girlfriend too. But she’s been nothing but a massive help to me all throughout this process, even through the multiple relapses. Good luck buddy :smiling_face: