Guys. I am back here.
I have a confession to make.
Many of you might be thinking that I am doing well and am possibly even free from this addiction.
But it has gotten worse. To be honest, the last few days I have been masturbating every day and even multiple times during the day.
I have realized that I cannot do this. I have wasted my entire life masturbating. I could have been so much more. I could have achieved so much more. I have tried to quit. But failed.
Maybe I did not try hard enough. Maybe I did not want to be free. Maybe I did not want it bad enough. But now I do not even feel guilty about fapping. I do not feel the drive. When I feel urge, I just go there and fap.
This is the reality of my life. Few years ago I realized that I was an addict. I was already losing my hair. But it was very slight and I was skeptical if it was due to fapping or just generally. Today I can confirm that I fapping has caused hairfall. I have lost all my hair. On longer streaks I experienced slight hair growth as well. I am pretty sure I will be bald in a year or so if I do not stop with it. I have lost all the hard earned muscle that I worked so hard at. My memory is poor. My concentration is poor. On the outside people consider me as a hard working and sincere dude. And many even respect me for my work ethic. But the truth is that while people are thinking I am working hard, I am probably masturbating half of the time. And I have not been able to quit, This is bad. But I do not feel bad at all. I do not know why. I do not feel guilty. Perhaps this is the danger of fapping. It makes you complacent and lose your drive.
I have huge aims. I know my potential. And I am not even 0.00001 % of my true self when I am fapping. I have seen that I can do great things. I see other people younger than me reaching great heights and I realize I could have been there. But I wasted my life. I am already 27 and will be 28 this year. I am below average now. I have Erectile Dysfunction and I do not have skills to attract women. I am not disciplined on my goals. I do not know if I will be able to do anything significant the rest of my life. To be honest, I am disappointed with myself. I wish I stopped after the first time I fapped and I realized that it is not a good thing. I always knew it was bad. But I got hooked to it. It is worse than a drug.
Now I could go on and on saying all the negative things about PMO and I should. But what’s the point ? I am hooked to it.
But the truth is that it is my fault. It is my decision. Every single time I take a peek or open up those dirty websites. It is my fault and that is the worst part.
Now I know that writing on this group did help me. But again I do not want to be dependent on any thing external.
I just came here not to disappoint anyone. But to announce that I am not giving up.
Even if I have to suffer for the rest of my life, I will strive to be a Brahmachari. Because I know that once I am successful I will be the GREATEST ever and I am not saying it to boost my ego. I want to be the GREATEST because I want to serve the world. I have specific plans and ideas that I want to realize in this world. And for that I have to improve my level and strive to tbe the greatest otherwise it is not possible to serve.
Here is my announcement today :
23rd FEBRUARY 2021
I ANNOUNCE THAT I WILL NOT WATCH PORN, MASTURBATE, ORGASM OR EVEN THINK OR TALK ABOUT WOMEN, I.E. FOR 3 YEARS STRAIGHT I AM GONNA PRACTiSE STRICT CELIBACY.
I HAVE ALREADY STOPPED EATING ONIONS AND GARLIC. I AM GONNA FOLLOW 3 YEARS OF FULL CELIBACY TILL I AM FREE FROM LUST AND CAN FOCUS MADLY TOWARDS MY GOALS.
I KNOW THIS WILL BE SUFFERING AND I AM READY TO ENDURE THAT.
That’s it. I am leaving. And I will only post on this forum after 3 years to announce that I am successful.
I know I have said it many times before. But this time IT IS SERIOUS.
What other option do I have ?
I know the consequences !
IT IS MY FAULT.