Brother @anon98741803 i can understand your pain, we rewire companions are going through same pain and feeling, we can understand each other, we all were/are addicted, the only difference is everyone has different level of addiction, some are fighting with whatever they have got, some are not… It is we who have to decide how much effort we have to put in order to come out of this addiction…
Reading your diary really gives a clear idea how bad you want to get out of this trap… You’ve got it all brother, you even achieved 33days clean long time ago, you are much wiser now and you are not alone,
we can fight this together…
Remember we are with you in your journey, we can cheer you, help you but this fight is yours, only you can make yourself win… I hope that you come out of this and I believe you will… Stay strong brother, share your urges…
Also I would recommend two more apps apart from rewire to download… They are
Past is past brother @anon98741803 Now you have an excellent opportunity to get back up and achieve great things. Sit down and write your goals. Become very serious about achieving that. As our brother @selfconqurer said you are not alone. We are all with you. And this time there is no compromise. We’ll win. Iam 100% sure.
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You can try this out brother, only then you will gain experience by yourself.
From my experience brother… Try to do regular activities too(which are important for you and your family members) with your work.
Don’t take it like a machine thing… Also brother…if you follow a schedule like WORK…EAT…SLEEP then also your efficiency of doing work will degrade(menatally you cannot control the things inside you… IT IS FROM MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE… I LOST MY TEMPERAMENT and control on my focus)…
What I learned that the key is to be in discipline… make a schedule including things like exercise…meditation… reading learning… also include some rest time as a reward after work session…etc. and plan everyday everything… and discpline. HUMAN BEING IS A SOCIAL BEING…not a machine…that is why also so many things which are not related to our success also important in our life(like giving time to our parents and help them).
This time brother, there is no compromise with greatness. We’ll either achieve greatness or we’ll die becoming a failure. Becoming a failure and living an average life is equal to living dead.
Be very serious. You are one of my most valued companions in here. We’ll stop only after reaching a fucking 1000 days streak. I’ll be there with you!
I’m a bit confused. Can you guys please help me out ?
Say, Samuel and Thomas are two porn addicts. They do PMO everyday. Let’s suppose both are addicted to same extent.
Now suppose I educate them about NOFAP and its benefits, motivates them and give them 180 days each to change their own lives.
Case 1
What Samuel does is that he doesn’t take this seriously for the first 90 days. He faps every single day. Later Realises his mistake. And takes this NOFAP challenge very very seriously and hits 90 days NOFAP streak in the remaining 90 days.
So basically , first 90 days he faps. Then hits perfect 90 days NOFAP streak in BEAST MODE.
Case 2
Thomas’s approach is different. He takes this NOFAP challenge very seriously from the beginning. But he has a habit of quitting on every 30 th day. He consciously quits on his own will.
So basically He remains on BEAST MODE for 29 days, 1 day only MO. Again BEAST MODE for 29 days, 1 day only MO and this continues for 180 days.
So Now the question is Who is more successful in your eyes?
Brother this question is confusing me . Since Samuel will fap regularly for the first 90 days, he’ll fuck up everything. His addiction will get stronger and stronger and it’ll become harder for him to recover.
Whereas Thomas only do MO in every 30 days for 180 days he is in a better condition. Since ■■■■ is not there and he would be the one who relapsed less.
So Thomas will conquer the addiction faster.
Samuel addiction will get stronger in 90 days and when he really get serious after that he’ll have a lot of failures and it would be hard for him too.
But Samuel did
He left PMO once and for all, at the end of 90 days. Many of us adopt same strategy. One day you declare you abandon everything, never to turn back, and many many are successful using this method as well.
The only reason i would choose Samuel is because he achieved what he wanted regardless of whether it’s more beneficial or not .
If you say Thomas took the conscious decision to MO once after 29 days then I would choose Thomas (probably cause I believe that once a month is healthy, however I’m really not sure of this belief).
Also , I didn’t make a choice coz it’s a very close call , so I refrain from choosing xD
So I chose Thomas after the edit mostly because I feel that doing something once a month isn’t an addiction… Rather could be beneficial , if he believes he has a strong will power to not relapse more than once:+1: however anyone who has already been a pmo addict should not be recommended this path of thomas.
I voted for samuel for his 90 days clean continuously… BDW in my opinion…these both cases are quite same… MAIN QUESTION IS what us the definition of succes for everyone here… and second is… success in context of what??
if you say successful in No Fap then it is samuel becoz after as 180 days he will be more stronger and determined than Thomas( but it is also not exactly true… ONE CAN FALL ANYTIME AND AGAIN CAUGHT BY CHASER… IT DOES NOT DEPEND ON STREAK) but still if you assume ideal confition of NoFap that after 90 days one wil become rewired completely. So according to this Samuel is successful… becoz Thomas is still in addiction only his cycle of Fapping is 30 days…if he tried to increase more than 30 days then he will suffer urges and had to fight even after 180 days.
Actually it’s totally depends on what the current situation of both . Just consider that both are addicted to PMO from recent years then
For me I think Samuel is more successful . Why - That is because If i were there in the placed of these two what i prefer is Samuel - Starting 90 days doesn’t holds good for him and that’s fair for any person who try to attempt the Nofap journey
Nofap journey isn’t that much easy as it looks in the starting .
Samuel already tried and bounces back after realise his mistake and this time he is more stronger than before and comes with more stronger determination , because of which he attained the 90 days streak … so if a person make a commitment to himself and control for 90 days … I think he can continue his streak for much longer time . His brain is completely rewired and that shows mainly in his personal life and his career.
And if I were there in place of Thomas it seems harder for me to attained the next 29 days streak after MO . and still if i continue …that after being into NOfap journey i think M is just a shortcut that what i did not prefer now and I think MO still peaks the dopamine level up and that makes harder for him to rewire his brain completely. As he was also addicted to PMO from last few years .
It totally depends on where they stands in their life .What’s their purpose in their life .
Exactly, samuels last 90 days big streak will make him a great man. He will burn like fire.
Opposite side the non sense Thomas is consciously fapping after 29 days. He is a veryy very bad guy. But samuel realised his mistakes.
In this game samuel may be a looser, but in future samuel will get success.
. Since Samuel will fap regularly for the first 90 days, he’ll fuck up everything. His addiction will get stronger and stronger and it’ll become harder for him to recover.
however anyone who has already been a pmo addict should not be recommended this path of thomas.