What’s the big deal? I have seen many people here hating him without any particular reason just because he talked about Female attraction and all shit.
But to be completely transparent, it’s a benefit in long run and it is completely natural to talk about sex and all. If someone feels talking about this normal there must not be any barrier.
Brother @Consumate if someone feels your post to be tempting , just put Trigger Warning above & I apologise for the lack of maturity in the forum.
Thank you. I hope I made it clear that yes, this is a thread dealing with female attraction and inevitably sex.
Ultimately I don’t think anybody should be “triggered” by any sexual content, and work to reach a place where you’re able to face anything in the world without being shaken from the path that you choose.
I’m very serious about not flapping and avoiding pornography, but I do practice non ejaculatory sex.
By no means perfect, but I have developed a fairly strong discipline doing it my way, and it’s an option for guys who aren’t interested in going monk.
I’m also fascinated with the spiritual / attraction side of things.
Day 31: Appart from being sick the last few days, energetically I feel as powerful as I ever been. However, I have not noticed anything incredible happening like on my last 30 - 60 day streak.
One interesting thing that happened today is cars stopping for me to walk across the road, and I mean stopping in the middle of the road where they have the right if way, and with no cars behind them to let me pass. Interesting.
I’ve also been relentlessly hooking up with ex girlfriends. In fact I’ve done sexual stuff 3 days in a row with different ex’s (while retaining) and maybe this, along with being sick has taken some of my mojo.
Hopefully I’ll be better by Saturday and can hit up the club to see if any fun shannanigans are to be had. Like mentioned previously, the “fun” stuff tends to happen for me from 30 days onwards, and so far, while eye contact is getting better, have not seen anything out of the ordinary.
It’s happening again guys!
Just had a beautiful girl all over me. It was at a social night where I knew her friends but we met for the first time. I could tell she was nervous around me and reaching out to speak to me. Lots of others there, but she singled me out.
I didn’t ask her out there and then, and looking back on it, I think that was a mistake. It doesn’t show confidence, and means I’ll need to work up hill a little again next time we meet, but I think it’s a live one.
Will keep you updated.
She actually wanted to have an insta date, but I made plans with my ex that I’m about to go see 
Day 33
Not attraction related, but I had dinner with one of my ex today, and I’ve decided to fast every week on Saturday. So she ordered a burger, and the burger comes out with one ingredient missing. She goes and tells them, and comes back with that burger saying they will make her another one.
So we ended up with two (good quality) burgers, one of which we threw away because she wouldn’t be a le to eat both of them.
Just funny how the universe starts tempting you when you start doing something…
My parents invited me to dinner also, and at first I said yes, but quickly changed to tomorrow because I knew they would make loads of food fod me.
On the attraction front, I’m getting major smiles and “oh shucks” responses from women, but none that have developed into anything yet. Day 35.
What type of fast are you doing?
How old are you, if you don’t mind me asking.
Doing a full fast from Friday evening to Sunday now, last couple of weeks.
Will be 40 this year.
40 days in, and feeling like I’m reaching the peak of my power.
Strong eye contact now from girls everywhere, but I really want to see if I can reach a point where they take the initiative and start approaching me.
I know this isn’t at all what to do to meet women as their energy is generally passive, but it isn’t always that way (think boy band concerts etc.)
This is an experiment after all. I feel like there is another 5 - 10% of something that will get me over the hill.
Maybe a change in lifestyle somewhere? Or waiting out untill 60 days. I’m open to suggestions.
My current routine involves daily stretching, Qi Gong and meditation.
You can do workout like push-ups, squats and other weight training to gain strength and confidence.
Day 42: Dry fasting today, from Friday until Sunday, and it’s actually pretty awesome.
When it comes to attraction, I’m still getting the great smiles and eye contact. Yesterday I made a comment next to a girl in the supermarket, and she started enthusiastically chatting to me.
I wasn’t that attracted to her, so didn’t get her number, but that’s pretty close to a girl outright approaching me? Not quite there yet tho.
Let’s see if fasting does it. I’ve read good things about it on forums.
Are you fasting for two whole days? Or breaking fast at evening for two days?
I start on Friday evening, and go until Sunday morning - midday, so around 36 hours.
It went good, but I could not sleep last night! Will do it again tho.
insane.
fasting is brilliant for the hormones. I am not in a position to do continuous extended fasts (since I have a athletic lifestyle with lots of work commitments as well) but I do daily intermittent fasting of 12-16 hours overnight which helps.
The dry fast was amazing, apart from not being able to sleep. My skin was glowing right after, and I’m already looking forward (kinda) to doing it again.
Day 46: meh, feel a bit cut today. Here’s what happened.
I was at this causal group meet up thing. Since I was on my way to work afterwards, I look pretty daggy, including my hair, style and maybe hygiene slacked off on a bit.
The moment I arrive, there was this cute girl and she was all over me at the start, following ne around and talking to me, untill…
This conventionally better looking, better dressed younger guy shows up 
She was over him after that. Because she was outgoing (and drinking) it was obvious to see the shift, now, I won’t lie, it did throw me off and I felt pretty bad. Still a bit cut, but I had my little cry and ended up having a good time anyway.
It feeds into my theory but, that no matter how much attraction you have, women need a green light for the conventional stuff.
The energy is there to help you overcome the conventionally, but in the end, unless I can find the secret hack (if it even exists) to make the energy even counter that, conventional looks etc seems to win.
It’s a sad fact, but I saw it first hand.
I’m also a bit unhappy with myself about how thrown off this girl made me. I think it was due to the sudden shift, going from showing me so much attention, to completely cutting it off.
That’s definately a me problem, and I’ll keep looking for the secret sauce too.
Might get another chance to meet this girl in a couple of weeks. Let’s see how it goes.
I had some time to reflect a little more on what happened, and it reminded me of something similar overseas.
I approached this girl, but was very nastily rejected. It doesn’t happen a lot, and I didn’t do anything that justified that reaction, and was having fun before that.
My option was to sulk, but I remember making the conscious decision to completely out it out of my mind and have fun like it never happened.
I ended up having one of the most memorable days of my life, and ended up hooking up with another girl later that night!
There really is a lesson here whenever a girl manages to throw you off your centre, to consciously put it out of your mind.
It’s a waste of energy and time trying to figure out the “why” of what women do. Just keep moving, it’s the best option.
Day 47: lots of crazy syncronisities now, both in regards to women and general.
First off, I had a very cute girl chat with me at the pool while we were sitting in proximity.
Yesterday I saw a girl I really liked that I probably haven’t seen for a year, and who stopped communicating with me. I didn’t say hi or wave or anything because I left the conversation open for her to reply, and she has not. Let’s see where this goes.
And just no I met a girl I haven’t seen for years. She was married and divorced now, and she came all the way and sat across from me at the restaurant.
The conversation was nice, and we exchanged details, but I feel like I’m energetically self sabotaging… I don’t know what it is. Something in my energy is a little off to the point where I attract girls, but then slowly the connecting fizzles.
Any ideas? Something in my energy or mannerism. Was much better dressed, clean shaven etc. today.
Anyway, sorry for the long readout. The attraction is there that’s for sure. Almost day 50 and have a few days off work now.