I've got some questions related to PMO

[The_integrous_one]

@GOVIND-19

literally haven’t changed at all bro. Same old me, same old method, same old philosophy

I know I know.
Atleast you know what your method is. I don’t know anything at all , I’ve been in between methods, combining all methods out there including yours and been falling facedown

[GOVIND-19]

Consistency is key bro. I have it easier coz I don’t have to study like you. If I had exmas like you I’d be done within a week. So don’t beat yourself up about it. Only you know how difficult it is to be you

[The_integrous_one]

@GOVIND-19

Only you know how difficult it is to be you

I think I do. There’s a lot to resist and then studying makes it worse.
But again the point, it’s a necessity and I am driven to study because I know consequences are gonna be great if I secure good marks.

[the_resilient_one]

@prothekter_aden

Guys, what makes you go on and on each day?

ACCEPTANCE and ADAPTATION.
Accept that you have an issue. Accept that you have uncontrollable lust in you. Accept that you were the victim of this world driven my lust.
Now, after acknowledging your state, Adapt yourselves to fight those issue.

There’s a quote that helped me

If you are born Poor its not your mistake, but if you die poor its your mistake

Its not your fault if you were a victim of PMO, but its definitely your responsibility to get out of it.

NoFap is more of a mental game. What makes me keep going is, I don’t let any sexual thoughts stay in my head consciously. As soon as I realize that I am having sexual thoughts, I remove it from my mind-
Slash that thoughts into pieces, until I no longer think of it.
Your relapse is decided the moment you started dwelling on that sexual thought, enjoying it thinking its only in my mind.

Do you guys HATE ■■■■ and masturbation?

I do not hate but I am angry. I am angry with the people that makes it, promotes it. But on a deeper analysis they are making it because of the demand. Demand is there coz we want it more. So if you want to hate someone, hate the lust inside of you.
And definitely do not hate yourself.

Do you guys actually have a BASE REASON that drives you for doing NO FAP?

Its my WHY . Why am I doing NoFap? The answer to this keeps me going. Remember, the answer should never be a general one, to be a good person, to get that girl, better person…noo…It should be a specific one line answer. That resolve will make you move forward.

Also Knowledge. Get to know everything about NoFap. I believe you should not do anything in Ignorance. In my initial days, I had much free time, so I used to read research articles about PMO and the benefits of abstinence and experiences of people who are addicted from years, people who are free from years. In short, every kind of information I could gather on this topic.

So, now I exactly know what I am doing. There is no doubts in my mind.

I hope this helps @prothekter_aden.

[babi]

At first, there was a drive to stop masturbation and porn because it ruined my life to an extent that, it can not be healed.

Later, it became an habit and a lifestyle. Staying away from porn worked wonders for me. I could feel youthfulness again, less anxiety and depressive thoughts and it has helped in developing my will power as well.

At first, I would thank @Taher for creating this application and addressing the core issues that have ruined our society and weakening the young minds of the society.

This application has brought us together irrespective of gender and helped us stay anonymous.

The thing which helps me get motivation is the benefits that I got doing no-fap.

Also, lastly I would say, I feel like shit after failing. Those thoughts help me motivate.