Is there anything wrong?

Hi everyone :slightly_smiling_face:
Hope you are doing great in achieving your streak

I just wanna ask you something which is - If it’s OK to watch videos of girls opening their hair buns and playing with their long hair. Yes I’m a long hair fetish guy. I’m on day 18 ,and for the past couple of days I am watching such video on YouTube. There’s nothing erotic or sexual things here. I haven’t watched any erotic content though. I just can’t stop thinking about long hair.

I just wanted to know if it’s Ok to watch such videos when you’re on nofap

Thanks

Hope you guys don’t call me creepy this time :joy:

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It’s really a huge improvement from your early habits. If it makes you leave your earlier creepy habits then do it for a while. But watch that it doesn’t become the trigger for you to relapse.

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Hey @Roads_to_purity

Just ask yourself why do you wanna watch those videos? where there are a lot of videos which let us improve our skills someway…

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No :hushed: that doesn’t cause any sexual excitation in me. I just love long hair and would want to marry a girl having long hairs

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I get your point but at least there should some sort of enjoyment when you don’t have any friends. I am already doing good in my academic life and career. The only issue is that I don’t have a gf

Do you think if you watch those videos(girl with long hair) it will happen in reality?
I mean long hair girl will marry you
Who knows…who will be our partner for long term

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Some girls do have a long hair btw

Tbh if you come at my age you might be thinking why I wasted so much time… thinking about those thought “I don’t have any gf” Where as you can affirm something else.
Even if you get any girlfriend it won’t make any difference in the way of life you’re living right now.

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Do you go to gym?Going to gym will really boost your confidence in talking to girls. It will also make you look good. Instead of trying to escape do the real thing. Try talking to real women that will help you. Even just as a friend or even if you are nervous just go talk.

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What’s your age ? Why r u saying like that ? It’s perfectly natural to desire for a gf when you r at 24 or 25

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Btw I am 26yr old
It’s perfectly fine brother everyone is different and think different.
Keep Calm and Be happy :slight_smile:

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So do you have a gf?

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:laughing: lmao bro. Don’t watch those videos my suggestion. Talk to girls I know it’s not easy to talk to strangers but talk to girls in same profession as you. If you are in college talk there or if not then you can at least improve yourself . I suggest you workout or running it boosts confidence. Before nofap I hardly talk to girls but now I actually have female friends in college and I have even approached girls. It doesn’t matter if u get a gf or not but u can at least try u will at least get female friends and friends so u can enjoy more . And keep improving

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9/10 things u say are creepy :rofl::rofl::rofl: they aren’t creepy per se… But the way u put it makes it… Its not creepy though… Ur safe

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It’s creepy I think .lmao

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Can’t argue with this… Initially when I went to gym I was like really awkward… But it does boost confidence… I was one of those guys will start planning 30 years ahead even if a girl smiled… That has stopped… All thanks to gym and nofap

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@Roads_to_purity if im being very honest. I have answered as if you were my buddy hanging out with me over a chai and sutta. But if you ask this same question to a girl, she will label you a creep. So context matters.

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If it makes you feel any good, having a gf isn’t the solution. Having the right is important. I was the absolute worst when I was with my ex.

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Yes definitely that’s true… that’s why I am asking here

I really want to improve myself

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Same situation exactly with me …even if a girl smiles at me I make plan of even dating her