I had sex with my wife after 32 days.
Is it relapse? I’m feeling like my all body energy is drained, feeling guilty .
Please advise …
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As long as it was consensual, it’s not a relapse. Of course it also depends on what your trying to avoid. If you’re trying to overcome masturbating and pornography then no. But if you’re also trying to overcome an addiction to sex, that’s another ballgame. Stay strong brother you’re good
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no dude, my opinion tho, life is to have sex, it’s good enjoy it, when you masturbate that is relapse, but when you had sex that’s what make life enjoyable
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Amen. Never ever feel like having sex with your wife is a relapse (of course as long as she is concentual). Really it helps you to relate your own urges if they’re not just based on you. Sex is good and women need it just like men. With with your wife to find sexual fulfillment. Stay away from selfish fapping. Sex is about making someone else feel good. PMO is only about you.
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Sex is normal and fine, just don’t watch porn or marstubate
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Since i am a married man. Hence i can tell you my opinion on this matter.
Yes, its a Relapse.
Your body has confirmed it.
If your wife wants sex, then you have only one option left that is Karezza
Karezza is a sexual act in which we have control over our orgasm. Simply, Sex without ejaculation.
Chances are if you are in love with your women and you both move your body in harmony together , you may increase your energy.
Warning: it is very difficult to not ejaculate while sex. If you master it. Your will power and motivation will stay intact with you.
Definitely it was consensual.
I’m trying to be a Brahamchari for 1000 days.
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It is not possible for me to have sex without ejaculation.
Impossible = i am possible.
I’m curious as to why you feel it’s a relapse. I too am married but I don’t think it’s right to put a sigma on having sex with your wife. As long as the goal is not your own selfish desires but helping grow your bond together, show love to each other, and feel fulfilled.
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I am thinking of it as relapse as it depletes semen from the body. I fully believe in Semen Retention and Transformation of energy.
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I guess if that’s your goal. Not sure what the end game to it is. My goal is to hopefully have another child at some point. So I’m definitely not gonna be counting sex with my wife as a relapse.
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We all have different goals. So,
We should respect each other for that.
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I think we handle mainly two things in this forum.
- cure of a porn and masturbation addiction
- semen retention
if you wanna cure your PM addiction I can see absolutely no reason why you shouldn’t have sex as long as you don’t think about porn during sex and you don’t wanna do some porn things during sex (and you are not using sex instead of porn like “damn I feel so bad, I wanna have sex”)
If you wanna do semen retention, sure it is a relapse.
But I don’t think that these two points are connected. Dopamine is not a devil, only if used wrong.
A third topic would be sex addiction but I haven’t heard of people in this forum, that they are sex addicts (makes sense since it’s a porn addiction forum)
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What is the deal with semen retention? That’s a new concept to me. What’s the supposed benefits?
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Guilt is sign of you are not completely recovered so consider it as relapse
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Its all on youtube bro.
basically it is the idea that you loose energy because you waste sperm by ejaculation. the thought is that your body could reuse this energy if you keep your little swimmers inside and you could grow above the ordinary human level
(if you ask me, i don’t believe it. but that doesn’t matter to much.)
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I would only count it as relapse if you didn’t follow the golden rule: Ladies First. It doesn’t have to be done by dick alone, just as long as she comes first. This will motivate her to return the favor, so don’t deny her the pleasure of giving you an orgasm.
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