I’m at 9 days and counting and I’ve been having overflowing amounts of anger for no reason at all. And it makes me think that I need to just fap to make it go away but at the same time I don’t want to. What do I do?
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This thread might help you…
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Always keep in mind The Anger & frustration is temporary and it will go away.
Just do not edge.
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What If you realised that if you edge you will not get any better, instead resist the 4 second pleassure for long term freedom
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Anger is a very natural part of life, but the problem with our modern society is that we’ve pathologized anger, without taking the time to understand it and work with it.
Think of it this way: Anger is like a smoke alarm. It’s there to tell you that something is wrong, and it’s important to understand why that anger exists. Usually, it’s the product of being mistreated, feeling as though you’ve been done wrong.
When I’ve been angry in the past, it was usually because I thought that I was being taken advantage of. I was bullied a lot growing up, and the feelings of worthlessness and being targeted all the time manifested into anger, a very natural reaction to being wronged.
Take some time to understand your anger. Don’t run from it or demonize it, but don’t lash out either. Masturbation will only create guilt, and the worst kind of anger is anger at one’s self.
PM me if you don’t want to discuss it openly, but we’re all here to support you. Mindfulness might help too.
No that’s a good sign that’s testerone is kicking in keep it up that’s progress
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@jcanela315 Did the anger get better or disappear? Just wondering what you did that you can share with us? Don’t think you need more suggestions.
Remember that pmo liberate a lot of dopamine (A LOT!) and you brain loose his natural way to create dopamine. So your subconscious will try you to fap again to get a dopamine dosis.
Stay focua, don’t fap, don’t edge and don’t watch porn. There is a reason why this app is called Rewire…
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It’s normal keep going
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