Is getting a bj or bj from a female a relapse?

emoro0220 · September 4, 2019, 3:18am

So … This weekend I had gotten a hj from a good female friend lol… but I don’t really consider that a relapse for ME PERSONALLY… my reasoning because my main reason I am tryin to beat my porn addiction is becuz u have experienced porn induced ED in the past… so my main goal is get back to being normal. So this weekend during HJ I was able to perform fine… no porn. Didn’t even fantasies bout porn and I was fine… Was wondering if I would restart my “counter” or not… Hopefully… I did have to restart cuz I was still turned on by that HJ that I relapsed with PMO … soooo catch 22

anon13059885 · September 4, 2019, 4:58pm

Depends on what your goal is currently. No P? No PM? No PMO? You tell.

emoro0220 · September 4, 2019, 5:06pm

No porn for sure…to get rid of p*** induced erectile dysfunction

tuku · September 4, 2019, 6:35pm

Haha I am not expert at pmo but it’s a handjob right so what’s the difference? Being done by yourself or by a good friend lol . Just curious.

emoro0220 · September 4, 2019, 9:27pm

Well I have since relapsed myself so I reset counter anyways lol

rowdy_nik · September 5, 2019, 12:45pm

I don’t think it counts for only P. But fits MO. Also what of Nightfalls (only O)

drago08 · September 5, 2019, 2:46pm

yes bro its a relapse … cause nature only recommend the sexual intercourse , all other techniques made by human except sexual intercourse are count as relapse …

Elendil · September 6, 2019, 11:36am

I think you should decide whether it’s a relapse or not. Decide your goals and go for them.
The actual state of mind of yours is more important than some dumb counter. Don’t listen anybody. Make your own rules based on what’s good for YOU and stick to them.

Good luck with the current new streak, my man! Hope you achieve whatever you aiming for with this “thing of ours”

emoro0220 · September 6, 2019, 1:22pm

Thank u all for advice and thoughts on matter. But yes. I do need to make it appropriate for me and. My situation…

chady025 · September 10, 2019, 11:23pm

This guy right here gets it

AdAstra07 · February 18, 2020, 8:29am

Depends. According to Ayurveda , if you want to be creative, pure thought guy or girl or work insanely great then any sort of semen wastage is bad. Steve jobs, tyson, muhammad ali, mahatma gandhi, floyd mayweather,netwon , Nikola teslaetc. Etc. Many great persons didnt fap because single drop of semen is the secret of the creativity. This is your real Infinity stones.

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