I’m a 17 years old brazilian teen who wants to quit pornography and live life as it should.
I’ve recently realized the truth about pornography and decided to change my life once and for all. But, as I’m not made of iron, after a couple of days I fell for it and was forced to relapse, and again it happened. I believe that I’ve failed many times because I can’t truly understand the limit between being safe from the addiction and failing. I always ask myself at which point of the urge do I have to relapse. Is having a boner the limit? Is watching porn or a sensual/sexual material, even if not intentionally (let’s say that suddenly in a ramdom social media appears a mature content photo or video or something close to it), enough to reset my progress? Or even an imagination or urge from a dream or a ramdom thought that came out of the blue is considered enough to relapse and start all over again?
Or if there are no rules for it, at least are there any factors that I may consider to “jugde” if I must relapse or not?
By the way, as I’m not fluent in english I’ve problably made some mistakes, so just ignore them, if possible (or if you feel like correcting me, go ahead), if not, ask for clarification.