I really want to jack off right now

Need Advice
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I haven’t looked at porn since May of this year, the day my LDR girlfriend and I started talking.

However, I have since seen her in ways I should not have and still whack off a lot…

Y’all, I am so tempted to beat my weiner right now.

What can I do?? I am on day 3 and I don’t want to jack off anymore!

I will be meeting this incredibly bautiful, drop dead sexy, affectionate, loving, and hospitable woman in December. I don’t want to have sex with her until we are married so I am REALLY trying to quit jacking off with her and by myself. I say with her because we both kind of fell by the way side one day on cam and its been difficult to control ourselves sometimes…

Right now there’s no chance of us masturbating together, she’s having that time of the month and just had surgery.

But I am still very tempted to even look at her innocent/nonsexy pics and beat off to them! That’s how freaking hot she is!

For context she’s Filipina… So you already know she’s freaking hot and freaking awesome.

Ideas? Thoughts? HALP!

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@IAmAMan Think about something else. Start an activity that will keep your mind busy.

Do you have fantasies? Those sexual dreams will keep you in that mood. Thinking about something else should make a difference. It’s a little thing but it’s huge for us who masturbate alot.

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Hey man come to terms that it’s okay to have sexual fantasies. Just treat them like any other thought. If you find they’re intruding, as these sort of thoughts do, it’s time to initiate coping mechanisms. Find things you like to do. What hobbies do you enjoy? What important things do you have to do? I love how you are honest with how you feel. I’m glad you shared how you’re fighting yourself that means there is a good wolf in you fighting off the bad. Feed the good world and starve the bad and in time the good will always win. My sharing code is e13b3d. Get in touch with me. If you need someone to check up on you and if you have trouble anytime, message me. Let’s fight this together!

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this is my code.

Thank you friend!

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Let those feelings go my friend… I too have those thoughts when I’m jerking off… I still think about my ex during those sections. I still think about my Ex’s. But now after practicing meditation :man_in_lotus_position: there is a sense of calm and quietness. I can see my thoughts and feelings clearly. Learn to recognize them and let them go, practice mindfulness .After all everything are juat thoughs in our mind. It will surely take time so give medication a try. It really helps.
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