I need an accountability partner

Thought i could do it on my own but rn im struggling to keep myself from ending it all. Im so depressed rn I’ve fapped so much and i just need a hand. I dont wanna keep telling my gf about not feeling good n shit it hurts my manhood so fucking much. I wanna get better. I just need help. Someone in the US. Even better if ur in Missouri. I’m completely depleted but i swear I’ll do my best to help out any way i can. I’ve had good streaks and over a years worth of nofap exp. Just rly struggling right now.

Hello there. I understand part of what you’re going through (obviously), but talk to me. Tell me what you’re feeling. Let’s get into this. I don’t want to see you end it.

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I feel super weak and depressed. Everywhere is fidgety and i have an urge to just dig my fingers thru my face skin. I dont wanna move i cant think straight or positively. I just feel so done

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You’ve made a mistake. Hurting yourself is not going to help, don’t go down that road. Try your hardest to be positive… It’s good your telling someone about how your feeling… Just calm down and try to pray and think about a solution to your problem, that is the only sensible punishment you should give yourself. Plan your day out and repetitively follow through, it really helps.

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I understand that feeling. I have been there too. Especially if I really got a streak going, only to fall again…it can be crushing. Don’t let your failure define you: Define yourself. Set your goal for who you want to be, where you want to be, and don’t be afraid to reach out for help. Pride is for those who don’t understand loss and failure. I’m here if you need to talk, ona.

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lets talk man. it would definitely be helpful for the both of us whether ur doing good or are struggling

I get it
In which boat ur but always remember u are the captain of the boat :sailboat: sail it in a positive direction and it is good u have someone’s shoulder in thick and thin
Hardest choice requires
Strongest will

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So, I have been good for the last…almost a week now. Although the counter only counts from when you started it, so we’ll just use that. Regardless, there are going to be good weeks and bad weeks, right? Events in your life will seem to just fall into place some days, and on other days it will seem like everything is conspiring against your success. So the question is: Do you allow these things to dictate whether or not you will fall that day, or do you get your mind set to a goal. One day, three days, a week, two weeks, etc. Do you still into your mind where you want, no, where you need to be and hold onto that? Do you look at the impact of porn on your own mental state, your opinion of yourself? How it affects your relationships? Do you view it as an enemy trying to kill you? Or is it your captor, your task master, dictating your life for you?

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