Play in the clubs with girls + edge next day motivated by the impresion that womens leave in my mind, bring me to the point that i feel relapsed without really relaps i feel like i messed my way. I lost the motivation, feel no strengt to go up. I thinking maybe just relaps, go down feel the bad that i want beat and win back my motivation the strenght for push back again and see clear the goal again. Anyone had been in this situation?? what to do?
Yes, i felt the same way when i had sex on my previous streak of 21 days. I had sex on 14 & 20th days. Thus, it only finaly leads to relapse.
Rewiring of brain was stopped for 2 or 3 days.
My advise is Just forgive yourself and move on with your streak.
Thx bro , i will try and if i cant i will relaps and start from zero. My fail was that i didnt change some activitys in my life that clarely are incompatible with this task. I must learn to say no to friends, and remove some social app from my phone. Need change my life to better way, more pure, my weekend goal was know girls.
Perfection is something that i personally struggle with, i understand you man but no need to relapse to be honest its just another low on the journey accept it and keep moving