I lost everything

Woah dude epic wordplay.
Respect++ :clap:.

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thank you so much @The_integrous_one

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@HitMo brother i don’t know why but you look very similar to that of Salil Jamdar (The guy who wrote the Asli Mard series.) Daym brother. You’re a multi-professionalist :clap:
How can one be like u? U are a major inspiration to me and many others. :100:

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Mmmm
I don’t think so, or may be I don’t understand you well when you were talking about repositioning and other stuff

She just chose to pass away marrying another man, it’s her choice no problem, It actually has affected me but ok everyone has his own life , but also I am considered as one of the “everyone” , so my life balance needs to reposition her , it is a clear equality , if i am selfish so she were selfish but recently I’ve not believed that.
every one has his own life , I’ve believed that but don’t use anybody for you own reason.

May be you need to talk to someone, right ? But you need to learn how to listen first , it is Balance (my English vocabulary is bad so try to get the meaning).

I’ve not hated her , just asking a question which is why ? And I need no answer I’ve learnt it , everyone has his own life

I’ve learned to keep distance from people who I’ve decided not be close in the future just keeping contact for work or study reason but no more that , why ? Because I’ve decided that These relationships won’t go farther, so why breaking people?

I am honestly not totally believing in "everyone has his own life), my own Life is for anyone, i love helping people, but just leant to keep possible distance

Hope you can understand my perspective

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Thank you so much @prothekter_aden
I am glad that someone is taking inspiration from me and that is my success.

It is only because of the Grace of God/Guru ji😃

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Thats so humble of you. :clap:

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No brother, don’t take it as answer or i am not saying that you hated her but it is just a point explaining love and you know better how much you love her.

He quoted it because these lines deeply touched his heart…

no other reason…

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You are correct. I believe that this is good advice for anyone, any time and reminded me of my own resentment at a particular rejection. I caught myself and came to the same conclusion so thought I would take my hat off to you.

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With all due respect, my comment about attitudes to women was directed towards you. You used the phrase ‘fucked by another man’ to describe what is, for all we know, a perfectly healthy marriage. The OP didn’t use this language to describe the situation. You did. I pay no heed to the politics that you allude to and did not have that in mind when I made that small criticism. My point was that it is porn that makes us see women as merely something to fuck, although, I concede that some men hold this view without porn. The OP is not looking to fuck. He wants a loving partner. That’s my impression, anyway.

I must also take the opportunity to thank you for gratiously posting my reply. I am grateful.

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These are not my words. Just a sentiment that I agree with. It may or may not apply to you. I did post quite a long reply giving my own interpretation of your account. I stand by my main assertion. Your disappointment has become your excuse to stay with porn. You can’t lose one without the other.

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Yes I wrote that to show him that she isn’t only walking hand by hand and eating together with her husband but also certainly they have happy sex life. I wrote that to help the author of that topic to forget that girl and help him find another one to create happy relation with another woman. Yes. Becouse we all need each other and we get married together, have sex together and nothing wrong with it. It was and it will be. Contact with that married girlfriend is useless in his case and only will be making him more suffering and not focusing of his own life. I know what he is talking about becouse when I was younger I suffered becouse of similart story and making friendship with that girl not gonna help him at all. Besides that sex is pleasurable to both woman and man equally. So when she is married she for sure is happy becouse of having sex with someone she chose. And the author of that topic has to deal with his own emotions, do no fap, forget that girl and focus on his development as a man to create a healthy relationship with a women who will be chase him becouse of who he is. Relationship is not only about sex but also a happy live together.

Ok, my friend. I know what you think. I want to know what the OP thinks.

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I’ve had my heart broken many times. It’s really sad, and the hardest part is that we don’t want to let it go. I just could heal after having the courage to let it go.

This is my own experience, but I had to stay away from my love interest to completely heal. No seeing,no talking to… That’s the way that I could do it. Maybe it don’t have to be this way for you, if you think you can manage keep contact with her and still move on, by all means do it. I couldn’t.

And even after cutting all ties, still took me years to let it go… 4 years? More?

It is indeed a hard road, not going to lie. But eventually you do it. And then you realize you can look to photos, read emails, and even talking to her, and you won’t feel that interest anymore. It’s completely gone.

So, what I am trying to say is: it is possible to move on. But you have to want it. You have to find the courage to leave this behind you, and look for the future.

Today I have a girlfriend. It’s not any of those I loved in the past. But it couldn’t be better. We get along really well, and we make each other happy. I hope you can find someone to love soon enough, my friend.

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