Hey guys am 21yrs of age and I have known nofap for a while now my longest streak being 21 days last year… after that its just been relapsing going 1wk tops !!! Am still a virgin and that’s been my fear !! That I may never have sex !! Don’t get me wrong do talk to girls but when it came to intimacy I just feared… So I would go to porn and tapping as my escape !! I’ve always wanted to have a girlfriend who would genuinely love me but I haven’t !!! This is my day one now . I have purged all porn materials and I really want to get my shit together !! I want to go hard mode 90days but I don’t know if this is the write thing to do or I should just go and actually get a girlfriend and have sex !! I need help what should I do ??