Yes, I am male.
It’s very, very good of you that you want to stop this bad habit. I don’t smoke or drink either, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that I have an issue with pmo. In one way, this is good news though. You only have one thing to get rid of. Imagine how much more difficult it would be if you were drunk all day. I don’t think it would be easy to abstain then.
Luckily, we are not like that.
I am 18 years old now, and I’m a virgin as well. It doesn’t bother me that I’m a virgin. It’s really not the be-all and end-all. Whether you have had sex or not does not determine your worth. I understand your cravings, but you must learn to control them. Your mind is a muscle, when you use it more, it becomes stronger. Every time you resist an urge, you train your mind muscle. In the past year and a quarter, I’ve been doing nofap, and my sexual cravings have mostly been brought under control. My performance at school, and overall happiness has greatly increased.
Controlling this sexual energy is the key to success in life. If you cannot control it, the next woman you hook up with will know that you need her. She will use you, and cheat on you. You will always be there, disposable, and ready to be used whenever she wants.
When you are able to control your sexual energy, and don’t let women take it away, you can use it to achieve anything. Women will no longer walk over you, because they sense that you don’t need them. They want you. You are not craving them, you have your own business to do in life, and women come second to your own goals. Find a purpose in life, and pursue it. Think about this for a long time. I haven’t completely found mine yet, but it will come.
Learn to control your sexual desires, and become a real man. A child is someone who sees candy and cannot resist grabbing and eating it. A man is one who can control his own actions, and therefore does not masturbate, or need to have sex.
Trust me, a relationship, however healthy it may be, will not solve your own problems. Learn to love yourself, only then can you love another.
If you do this, and take the journey seriously, you will no longer be a 24 year old boy, but a 24 year old man.
Here’s a video to help you out:
Go out there, and achieve greatness!