Hmmm.. why is it different

If two people were having sex in front of me is knock em out and walk away. …
Why is it different on screen?

This situation is very rare…

Because we have got unlimited access and unlimited videos to choose from… not judt two people having sex… eyes jump from one video to other… it needs self control to tackle this.

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Oh bro I completely agree with you on both statements you made. But when our eyes feastboff of these images or mind is so indulged it’s almost as if nothing else is around. The imagination ponders on it’s filth and eats it up. That’s what I want to break away from. It’s filth

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To break away from this…

You need to stop feeding such things to your eyes and brain…

This self control… is not like… seeing porn and controlling the urge and not masturbating…

But its about our control on our eyes and brain so that we don’t get indulged in it and stay away from fantasizing…

Lets take an example…

You search something on youtube, you get the results… next day, you click on youtube… you already see the related videos about what you entered yesterday…

Brain is youtube… it will want things that you feed it through eyes… that’s why it starts imagination process when you abstain from Porn.

What do we do?? We clear the YouTube search history… we clear the cache…and donot feed the same words to the search bar…

Similarly… Clear your brain… clear the thought process and imagination process… (this will take time… don’t expect result immediately) then next step is to not feeding the same filth to the brain…and that requires self control.

That’s it…
Its a long process… you just have to sail through the storms in between… but never look back… because the storm doesn’t remains forever.

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  1. porn is nothing like real sex.
  2. everything in porn is faked to be superstimulus for your brain (artificially enlarged penis, super attractive faces, extreme curves etc.) you will never get the angles you see in porn in real life
  3. porn is planned and designed to be maximum addictive as possible and is executed by professionals.it takes 3 days or maybe a week to make an hour porn movie
  4. coolidge effect and super novelty : this is really interesting. you are seeing millions of girls, most of them perfect 10s to our animal brain, continuously clicking, scrolling. for your dumbass brain, you are a super-stud whom millions of girls are begging to fertilise them, at the same time! what more could it want? could this be any further from your reality?

sometimes you don’t even watch a porno video for even 5 minutes, you get bored and go click the next, this is the most destructive. small scale of this effect is seen when you continuously scroll through instagram, news articles and even posts on this forum. you just keep scrolling, swiping, without really paying any attention or absorbing anything. novelty is extremely addicting for the human primal brain, you couple that with super stimulated sex, bingeing porn is no different than nuking your poor brain to oblivion.

hope this made you understand. porn is designed after proper research, to be exactly what it is, to grip maximum people, to make them addict and make them completely dependent. it is pure evil. internet porn and porn substitutes is the matrix. understanding your enemy is the second step in any battle. first step? it is understanding yourself. :smiley::grin:

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Damn. You just blew my mind. Thank you

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