Help me guys ......Guys I m so addicted to porn my cheek bones are coming out and looking like a old guy ,,I m just 21. I want to be a writer but I always find myself procastination and masturbating daily which reduces my creativity.. :(

Why I want a companion - * I am new here… I am not sure I can do this alone overcoming my addiction

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What you need is sexual Transmutation which means Transfer of sex energy into your work. Instead of giving your sexual energy/sexual urge a physical expression(sex, masturbation) Use this urge into your work :running_man::weight_lifting_man::horse_racing::skier::motorcycle::medal_sports::cricket_bat_and_ball:

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Like you, I want to draw as a hobby of mine, but this PMO drained my creativity too and worse, made me hate what I drawed, basically I reached a point that I was thinking I could not draw anymore because of it was destroying me.
But now I can draw some simple things.

What I did is CUT ALL PORN FOR GOOD FIRST.
It will need determination, but things will go better after that. I had tried many times cut that for good, but always got back because some trigger, until I identified and avoided all them.

So, recognize your triggers and avoid them, difficult them.
Put another good things to do in that time, make a list of things for you to do when you are bored etc. and do that when urges come.

When urge comes, do not think about that and just do something in that list, or go have a walk. Just do not isolate.

Discipline is needed for it work. We are in this together! :+1:

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The reason why you are soo addicted is because you have this ernegy that wants to travel up to your head that’s what it is creative ernegy your life force but instead your lust comes in the way and seduces your creative force and does not give it a chance to rise up into your brain from your guts. In order to overcome that you must be honest and admit to your self and start fighting the urges yes! Fight them it will start with 1 one day 2 a week month and soo forth before you know it you have the motivation to write again trust me suffer now and enjoy the fruits that comes when you quit porn.

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Yes you are right… I m just using the energy in the wrong direction

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Thank you for clearing things up… I will suffer now and enjoy later. #motivation :muscle:

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Thank you for your advice… I will play online games when I feel those urges. :blush:

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Urges are just really ernegy begging to rise up that’s all

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bro i was also addicted to porn very much ! but u have to fight it with all your guts like as ur life depends on it!
we all are here to help u ! stay bless man

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Thanx @udi I will try my best.