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Alright guys so the famous Canadian psychologist Jordan Petersen once said that the best way to get over an addiction is to find something better. Well I was addicted to porn for awhile, I am now trying to get sober, and I realized that one of the thing that I was addicted too was evidently sexual pleasure but also human intimacy that things like chatrooms helped me with.
I now realize that I think obe of the things that would help me in my fight against porn addiction would be to finding a not only a sexual partner but an intimacy partner. Do you guys have any suggestions for this sort of thing? I’m a 19M who is straight, bi-curious, on a college campus. Would love to hear your input!
You know what, these comments have actually helped me. Because they made me realize that I wasn’t craving sex, I was craving human connection in a romantic way. I was craving love. The way I simply choose to fill that void that was left by its absence was with porn. At first I thought everyone was just trying to be judgemental, but now I see it.
I personally believe that you should abstain from sex until marriage. By waiting, you show each other and yourself that sex is not the foundation of your romantic and beautiful relationship. I hardly want to even reply with this because clearly I’m on this app because I have issues too. I just think it’s a universal, tried and true method of courtship.
It’s kind of like the parable of the workers in the field (Matthew 20:1-16).