Gkhaal's diary - Nofap vs ejaculation

I am doing this no fap thing again. Its going very good. I haven’t masturbated or watched porn for 4,5 days now. But I did have sex today. In my mind sex =/ nofap. For me having sex and ejaculating is acceptable for men because its real, especially if its with someone you love. So when ill have sex i wont reset the timer, because the timer for me represents how long i haven’t masturbated to porn, or just masturbated, not how long i didnt ejaculate.

What do you guys think? Am I making sense?

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You are making sense to me. I am doing the same.

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You’re right. It’s totally different sex and masturbation :+1:

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Same for me.
I think, that I would like to get rid of the unnatural behavior of watching porn. because that is what’s destroying our life.
For me personally it also depends. I think going to a brothel would feel like cheating. But especially sex with someone you love is perfectly fine

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I agree
It’s not the same thing and you should definitely do it. The only thing you should keep in mind depending on your situation you should be extra careful after sex because during rewiring process you’ll be more prone to relapses…
Just saying…

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it would also be really interesting to hear the opinion of someone who goes for the hardcore mode with no porn no fap no sex
don’t be scared off just because all the posts go in a similar direction

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