Give your opinion please!

Iam thinking , are we the only people here struggling with PMO and trying hard to get over it ? Or the other people are also struggling like us? They seem pretty chill. Like adult jokes and Jokes about Porn are being so normalised these days. So what’s the truth? What do you think? Aren’t they struggling with this habit or they are just ignorant about it ? Isn’t this habit consuming them? Or they have it in control? I am confused please tell!

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They aren’t aware that they are addicted.

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Also the world today is very hypersexual. Be it social media, webseries, movies, bollywood songs etc . There is no enough knowledge about Nofap and semen retention compared to masterbation.

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People consciously or unconsciously follow Society.
And within Last Decade 60-70% of Internet is now Sexual Content.
So People Follow Whatever they saw in there life.

You got to admit, There are only few who builds something New/Unique in this World.

Pleasure which is achieve by simply orgasm, that level of pleasure is not so achievable by all the Money in the world.
So there is a huge corrupt marketing selling there own pleasure to them.

On the other Hand We seek Beyond this Pleasure therefore We are here.
Though I believe It is not about them; Life is all about ME.
:pray:

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If i see myself i can see my learning ability been degraded by this PMO. Why don’t people question this? Why don’t they ask why iam seeing every women as an object to satisfy my senses? Why the hell are they so ignorant! Damn This Kaliyuga is way too powerful! Everyone eyes are being blinded by the demon of lust and it’s making people go crazy! People now see women as just a sex machine! Really! They don’t see her as another human having her life her problems and what to say about seeing on the platform of Spirit Soul! Only Lord can save us brothers , please chant his name , sing his glories, his pastimes! He is the absolute, he is the most beautiful! To serve him should be our goal!
Iam sorry if i said too much😅

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Not only men objectify women, but women also objectify themselves. I absolutely agree with you bro, chanting the holy name of God is the best thing you can do in your life. :innocent::pray::angel:

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@Human108
Good to see the changes in you brother,

In some days now, I am guessing you will see more bigger picture of Life.
In Spiritual Path I would recommend keep on questioning urself. (Sorry by just seeing ur answer I got happy and saw somewhere myself in you)

Keep following and you will not feel so much of struggle as well.

Good Luck
@Human108

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Yesterday I hung out with some friends from highschool. 6 guys, and we started conversation about addictions. One of them told to us that he’s addicted to drugs and alcohol, in response I said that I’m addicted to porn and masturbation and in some way I understand him. Reaction? Laughing.“PM is normal, we are men ect. ect.” Just this one guy didn’t laugh, and he said that probably except drugs, alco he’s also addicted to pmo. Deeepp said that not all of people are aware of this, 100% true.

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There are so many who want to make a change they’re active on same kind of platforms but some of them are not aware about this

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It looks like you opened his eyes :slight_smile:

Each society is a bit different. In America, it is very normalized and considered even funny and acceptable to make jokes about this, sometimes even in mixed gender company. It has been a common joke even in films directed at teenagers for sometime.

Elsewhere, the situation is better, but it is like much of the world gravitates to the standards of American entertainment.

There is a resistance — in every society people are trying to avoid it, and I think now, more than ever, people resist in America. But, still, the trend is against us.

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Now inspiring from you guys. Indians are becoming like this only. I really feel bad when I compare this so called India with the ancient Vedic India. It has become so bad now. Waiting for the worst.

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Most dont realize that they are addicted bro… Only when they actually try to stop, and they cant, then they know… I did the same thing when I first came across nofap, I was like, lets see if I can stop, then I couldn’t, realized it and took a decision to stop this…

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Nothing will change for them and doesn’t matter believe me , @Human108
Stay focus on your opinions on your start , because thinking of there ways what ever what is ? doesn’t change we are trying to explore our selves …

But I understand you of course

Let me slow down and tell you that
What is matter your zone ( friends or someone you know him … )
In that time we are talking about a real situation someone who is struggling our role is to engage you to engage him or he make an account here :thinking: what ever we are talking for

Problem & solution

But in general , nooo
We have all know that there are somethings we can’t fix it but in each of us in his zone , I think that"s will be fine .
Take it easy man .

Stay_apperciat_your_existance
Your_goals .

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This reminds me a story. Let person A smokes or uses toxic materials , doing this over 10 years. Person B comes start smoking by seeing person A. After a year Person B gets resperation problem. B went to doctor. Doctor says, you have have initial stage of lung cancer. Now Person B goto home and asks God. why?
What do you think God will reply?

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Life is not the same for everyone. Few take things very personally and others lite. You must have noticed, few of your close friends clears in the exam with a greater number of others struggle to pass the exam. Few struggles to get rid of this addiction others never have any issues only, as you said. The point to note here is that they don’t have such issues. You /me have the issue! now the question is so what? What I understood is that, stop stressing the things which have nothing to do with. It’s a good thing, you have already know what is good or bad for you. Now comparing yourself with someone going to ruin your mindset and possibly result must be low self-esteem. Think this way, they are lucky that they never got into the trap and you were lucky because you still have time to change for a better version of yourself. I think I exaggerated a little bit :smiley:

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Boys if ur strugling i have some advice i was addicted to pmo since december 2019 nowdays im free becouse i realised a few things streaks dont matter i took a wrong aproach and this app is good but community is taking the wr
ong (willp power) method i suggest you read the easy peasy book it saved my life i think it will do same for you

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