Hello friends…
Im 25 year old…and i have addiction of sex n P n M…since i was 12 year old…and i got merried at 21…and having more sex in merried life but i want stop it…becouse I need concentration in work…how I start… please advise
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Bro, you’re a pure gold. You see people don’t visit here and you cannot help or give advice, you literally memtioned them to see and help. I’m glad there’s still people like you.
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I think you should go softmode, meaning having sex is ok but get rid of porn and masturbation. Both are poisening your love life.
Check for yourself if you seek porn because you are addicted to it or if you (also) miss something in the love life with your partner. If the latter is the case, it might be helpful to be open about it and talk about your desires.
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I just do for him what I really want them to do for me. I love people, people are the reason for my life. Thank you for your words, you are special and if you give me your friendship, I will be thankful and very happy.
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It’s up to you to think about your values and the benefits you aspire.
Porn and Masturbation when you are married is the worst thing that you could do! It can destroy your marriage with P.I.E.D., shame, lack of attraction for your own wife in the long term. You don’t see it today because you are young, but 5-10 years will spending faster than you think.
If you want to focus on work, you have to be well in your relationship. So you have to make the necessary decisions to preserve it!
if sex distracts you from your job, maybe the solution would be to practice some form of sex in which you don’t go all the way to ejaculation. Sex without cum to keep your fluid in your body.
Ejaculation is only to make babies 
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