Bro, but doesn’t both go simultaneously…I mean how can you watch ■■■■ but not fap…maybe don’t answer it…my mind can use it against me…
For me…I consider both the same…so abstaining from both simultaneously.
I get that new environment may give some triggers…but what are the other factors…if you could mention it…that would be great…coz there’s a possibility that I may have to leave my home city due to job location…
Okay bro! I understand…so I can wait that much time…
Anyways, good luck bro…you have come a long way…so don’t fall for these urges now!
I got Just a little different mindset…
But the thing is I am not saying ■■■■ is good it is totally shit…but I had got differnt counter for ■■■■ but more I saw the counter more I used to watch ■■■■. … So I don’t have counter for ■■■■… But the frequency now for viewing ■■■■ is once in 2-3 months not more than 15 minutes… That is far better than viewing it 24*7 from my point of view which I used to do before … And I am working on it to eliminate it…
See…I was home for 1.5 years due to lockdown… now in hostel there are more girls than boys… I have not seen so many girls at once in this 1.5 years… so that’s the factor now… And the thing is some girls wear somethings that they don’t know how to wear… that’s another factor… And sometimes some weird situation happen…sometimes classmates ask you to watch ■■■■ or put an idea of watching ■■■■ in your mind… And some topics discussed by the classmates they also give urges…
Non veg can also contribute… And the thing is every situation is controlable with God’s help…
Good that you are moving out of hometown… Congrats…
I get it…the hostel thing…I thought hostel would be seperate…like boys hostel…its the first time, I am hearing mix hostel for college.
Bro, even I have that concern, if I go out fully into the open world…like the interaction with the opposite gender is been quite low since lockdown…so I will be cautious and take it slow…if I needed to go for work…
Thanks bro…but somewhere I became too comfortable at home…and don’t wanna leave this place…but I know…if I leave…growth awaits me!
Let’s see…its not certain if I will have to leave…but I am preparing myself mentally for it.