Drago's journey (25 M)

A true inspiration. You proved to us with real commitment we can literally best this deamon.
Extremely proud of you man. We are out of words to congratulate you. My mind is filled with too much happiness for you.

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Some Days, you will feel happy ,excited and curious , NO TO PORNOGRAPHY AND MASTURBATION FOREVER
inspired by @Evolved

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Sometimes, I feel like You are Saitama (One punch man) :joy: You have been able to overcome this damn hard addiction. Still You are here. And helping the needy ones. You are very strong and Humble bro. :relieved: One day I will too reach there, Just You wait and Watch. :fire::zap::wink:
I hope everything is fine by your end. :blush:

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:joy::joy: I like his hairstyle :joy: I also shave my hair most the time… But he doesn’t need to… :joy:

:muscle::muscle::muscle::+1::+1:

Yeah everything going good…God’s grace…

How are you doing brother?

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I am good bro, Sometimes I fail, But I will keep fighting and keep learning and improving from past mistakes.
Still wondering, You are about to reach 500 days streak, But Your diary hasn’t crossed 500 post :sweat_smile::joy:

But by that logic, I should have been on Day 1000, Coz my diary has already crossed 1k posts. :joy::joy:

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bRother look at I got the badge of great topic just now as I was chatting with you…

You say this I get the badge… What a coincidence :joy:

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I am glad, I got this opportunity to complete 50 likes on your diary, which granted you this batch. :joy::joy:

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there whole new set of problems you have to deal with in life … nofap doesnt solve the problem… it make problem easier to solve…or otherwise doesnt land you in other problems and gives you time to solve other problems that are already there…

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Yep
It’s not a magical solution of everything.
Just a means but not enough
But it is important though.

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yes…:+1: :+1: :+1: :+1: :+1: :+1: :+1: :+1:

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I see many people who have crossed a lot many days with NoFap saying this… I myself also say this… And this is truth… When you keep aside the NoFap topic and get a clarity of vision, you actually see the actual mess happening in your life which needs more focus and attention…
That’s why i say, NoFap is not the destination, it’s the journey… Destination is laying down your life,future on the right track at the end of the day,everyday…and for that you have to work hard in improving yourself everyday…(and not working hard everyday to keep yourself away from PMO… You eventually stay away from PMO and fapping when you realize how serious other problems in your lives are and you need to work on them first)

PMO is not the root cause of all your problems and downfalls in your life and career… You not realizing that there are problems and not working on their betterment (is the problem) which lays down ways for other problems to grow…

PMO is not the problem, actual problem is something else… which we are afraid of facing… we are afraid of facing problems, stress, anxiety, depression… and to avoid facing them and to avoid dealing with them… We tend to choose the escape path… which is PMO (thus, old problems are not solved… instead many new problems arise)

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Each and every word is perfectly true bro. But most people realise and get up from their deep sleep of pmo-ing when it is very late. Most people stop pmo once and for all when they realise that their life is totally messed up and if they don’t change now everything will be over.

What most of us do is use all our will power and go up in nofap days like climbing mount Everest. We will reach day 90, 120 or even 180 and suddenly a real hard situation in life will arise, we may become extremely stressed and will be wanting an escape so bad. For some more days we will stay with the stress, thinking that ‘no i wont go back to pmo. It will destroy all my streak and progress I have made till now’ but eventually our finite will power will end and we will give up. This is exactly what happened to me as I have relapsed multiple times from 100+ days streak.
It is not will power that matters. Are you working on your self? Solving your problems in life? Making real progress? Working on your purpose and achieving small wins everyday?
Without REAL PROGRESS AND MOMENTUM in life we are doomed to go back to pmo today or two months or years later.
PMO is our escape mechanism. We have to take away the reason to escape life. For that we have to take 100% responsibility and live an authentic and purposeful life

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easy peasy metod… i have just started reading it…the only thing that keeps us back is FEAR.

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Exactly brother… that’s what my point is… @drago (is this mentioned in the easy peasy book? I have not read it yet.)

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Man That’s so True :100: :fire:

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Brother This is the Post that I can say has strike me directly in my head. Now I get it. All those question that where arising in my mind, are all solved. Why our life looks fcked up because we are not really making any real progress and achieving victories. And Hence, We go back to PMO. :100: :heart:
Thanks a Lot brother @Tagore For Posting this :fire: , I can feel it inside…
this post has changed something inside of me

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yes the things @Tagore wrote are mentioned in that book…

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Okay brother… that means we are on the right track!

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