I didn’t meet anyone when I am on the streak… But I can say this.
I was in a long distance relationship and everytime the pleasure talk came between us, I can’t stop myself from fapping and I did it eventually. Video calls, audio calls, chats doesn’t matter, thinking of her made me relapse.
I am not against actual real pleasure… But make sure that you wont touch yourself while with her or after the date even, let her do it if needed incase you want to take it to the next step, and keep your thoughts in check while on date. And tell her what you are going through so that she wont tease you when you are not together.
If in anycase you get horny, know that its natural and wait till the feeling goes away instead of fapping. If you get blueballs, just stretch yourself, excersise, or take a cold shower. But whatever you do, dont just make out instead of involving in the real thing, coz that will always lead to blueballs… And then you come back home and you cant stop yourself from fapping.
Just be honest about your situation with her, if she is really a good person and if she’s right for you, she will understand.